It occurred to me after a consultation yesterday that women make women miserable more often then men do though the women don’t realize it. This is a common scene as it unfolds:

-The man and women meet, they like each other and various things ensue. They have sex for example and they talk to each other.
-The man confides in the woman.
-The woman confides in the man… and also in her friend(s).
-The friends note the woman’s growing closeness with the man and consciously or otherwise feels threatened. Might she run off with the man?
-The man, feeling safe with the woman confides something that is honest but for some reason difficult for the woman to hear.
-The woman repeats what was said to her friend and the friend says, “you better get rid of that bastard – look what he did to you!”
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“He comes over at midnight? That’s pretty late to be comin’ over? Didn’t she give him the Elsa in a pinch speech?” the soldier asked regarding one of my friends.

“Don’t know that’s what he’s doing. Don’t think he’s using her in a pinch. Could be but it doesn’t seem that way to me. He could be but I cant tell if it’s her or if it’s him.”

He stared.
Continue reading His Scorpio Moon And My 8th House: Projection In Relationship And The Shadow Side Of Women

Remember the series I did, Cock-Blocking – It’s Raw Male Energy? Well I am back on this top with another way this manifests.

Remember my client who is trying to break her pattern of attraction to lousy men? You guys gave her great advice but she does not fare so well with her friends who tell her things like this:

“Oh, you’ll never be happy with a nice guy. That drug addict / not quite divorced / manic-depressive guy is so much better for you. I’m just so afraid you are going to settle, hon…”

This is a Saturn Neptune flavored cock-block. It is the obscure reality, confuse and undermine technique which is as sneaky as it is deadly.

Know anyone like this?

What modern women want: a beta male: Men are surrendering in the sex war, taking on the supporting role

Kate Mulvey writes:

“Last week I went to dinner with an eligible doctor. As we were finishing the main course, I struck up conversation with the owner (Marco) in Italian – I speak five languages. My date nearly choked on his linguini and spent the rest of the date mute. I had committed the worst dating faux pas: I had outshone my suitor.

Yet it would seem I am not the only woman who is wondering whether it is time to hang up her brain and turn into a Stepford Datee. In America research shows successful young women are hiding their accomplishments for fear that their academic achievements and financial kudos will scare off potential suitors…”

She goes on and on and all I could think was here is a woman who is never going to get a man because she’s a cock-blocker and she doesn’t know it. It’s as if she has a pre-conceived notion of how men are (it’s not good) and whatever foot you give her, she’s going to cram it into the shoe. Perhaps she has a 12th house Mars or something. No idea she is fighting (and blocking) the thing she wants? I wasn’t too keen on her stereotype of Spanish women, either. ::rolls eyes::

What modern women want: a beta male

What do you think of this gal? She’s a missile but is she guided? Or misguided?

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The soldier had to dodge another gal in church this weekend. A doctor who happens to be a friend of the judge, so who knows. She sat next to him, squeezed his hand during the prayer and later winked at him. She also got us to talking…

“Well I think some gal might see us together and look you over. She may think you look good but then she’d take one look at me and say no, I don’t think so. And then she’d go off to scan for an easier target because let’s face it. I am way too crazed to play around with.” Continue reading Astrology And The Cock-Blocking Phenomena – Saturn In Aspect To Mars

One more class of cock-blockers and I’m done with this. Except for my friend, Claire France Perez had a story to tell on this topic. I asked her to write it for my blog and we’re lucky she will but personally, I just want to hit up one last class of these types.

Women also cock-block other women. They do it to their enemies but they just as frequently do it to their friends. “But women don’t have cocks,’ Elsa.”

Well yeah, they don’t. But they have prowess which is the same thing. Everyone has a Mars! So what if you get yours fired up? What if you start to kick some butt? Will your friends cock-block you?

Chances are some of them will and if you doubt this, just go lose 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 pounds.

“How much weight are you going to lose, anyway?”

“Oh honey, you were fine the way you were…”

::rolls eyes::

Know any women who cock-block other women?

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I do a fair amount of cock-blocking myself but only by request. A lot of the people who write me for advice (or call for consultations) are looking for a cock-block. They are in a painful swirl over some guy and they write for clarity or a way out.

I try to empower the writer often by disabling the man and this effort is conscious and deliberate. I expose the man’s game knowing full well he will have a hard time running it once the gal has seen it in the light of day.

“All the kings horses and all the king’s men,
Couldn’t put Humpty together again.”

Are you are effective cock-blocker? Where is your Mars?

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Oprah Winfrey is a cock-blocker. You know how her friend, Gayle is sort of notorious for not being able to get a man? Well, it’s because of Oprah.

A friend of mine is close friend of Gayle’s ex-husband. And apparently he loved her and tried very hard to have a relationship but it went like this:

Gayle would say she wanted a new car and her husband would say, “No. We can’t afford it.” Next day, Oprah would buy her the car.

::smiles:::

Now this may not be malicious but it is extremely effective cock-blocking wouldn’t you say?

Oprah has a very yang chart and a Scorpio Mars. I doubt it’s conscious but still. My friend said his friend said there was just no way to compete…

Does your friend cost you a man?

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Some years ago, my daughter was 8 years old and I had Zucchero playing in the car. Zucchero is an Italian crooner with gobs of passion. I could see my daughter responding to him and took the opportunity…

“You like that guy?”

“I do.”

“Well I’m glad. Because he likes women. He lovvvvvvvves women.” Continue reading Cock-Blocking Women – Look Out For These Types! Mars (Raw Male) Energy in Nature

Do women cock-block? Of course they do. Say you’ve a woman friend… a gal pal. The two of you run together and let’s say you meet a man. And let’s say you like that man.

So what do you do? You start to slow down your running around. You start to settle in with this man and where does that leave your friend, hmm? It leaves her out in the cold! So what’s she going to do?

Well in some cases she is going to fight for you. And this may or may not be conscious but fighting for you (her territory… her possession) means fighting the man. How? By whatever means are at her disposal.

“I don’t think he can be trusted…”
“I don’t think he’s good enough for you…”
“He should have called…”
“I don’t know about that guy…”

Next thing you know you’re calling this guy you liked a bastard and you’re back running with your friend, looking for a man. You’re somewhat bewildered but your friend is restored and nicer to you than ever, oddly enough.

There are many, MANY more versions of this, stay tuned. But meanwhile, is there a cock-blocking woman in your life? Oh! And the astrology? Mars Saturn, of course!

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