LIBRA – Death By Codependency – Video
Yes, Libra, you’re nice. Now learn to say no!
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Is it Bad To Compromise In Love Relationships?
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly happy with learning the other person and then working with that, and who they are…
The High Price Of Safety And The Icky Feelings Lurking In Your Subconscious
This is one of those risky topics. It gets into people’s un-comfort zones. Fact is, you’re uncomfortable whether I say anything or not. You just don’t know it. If your icky feelings are subconscious, this does not mean they don’t exist! The stuff that lurks deep in your psyche drives your behavior. It manifests as
Anger And Balance In Relationships
Astrologer, CF Perez, made an interesting statement about inequity in relationships. She said, when one person in a relationship gave far more than the other, the person who was indebted, filled in with anger. Such a simple and interesting observation. I think she may be correct.
Desperate Co-dependence in Relationship
Dear Elsa, I seem to have trouble picking the right guys. When we meet, things get intense pretty quickly – and then the guy starts pulling away. I’ve been trying to lay off a bit and be a bit more laid back in relationships, but they’re still not going any better. A few months ago,
Pluto in Capricorn Square Mars in Libra – Extreme Co-Dependence
Pluto is squaring my natal Mars in Libra. My son and my husband left today. This is the first time I have been alone (for the next two weeks) in the last twenty years! The first thing I noticed is that I have no idea what I like to eat. I buy what other
Aries vs Libra: Courage and Co-Dependence
Having a fairly strong Libra / 7th house signature in my chart I have always been uncomfortable with the crusade against co-dependence that began in the 80’s. How can Libra (codependent) be all wrong and Aries (independent) be all right? Masaru Emoto (the water crystal guy) writes in his new book, The Shape of Love: