Diana asks on Eat, Drink, Breathe, Control:

“Elsa, do you think there are some people who enjoy being controlled? Or they enjoy the attempt of someone trying to control them?”

Diana, of course there are people who like to be controlled – what about the whole bdsm community? This is another hall of mirrors as far as I am concerned. Control is an illusion but I would think that – I’m a Saturn Neptune!

Bottom line, anyone who has an emphasis on Cardinal energy in their chart is going to deal with issues of control but this does not assume some sort of pathology. In fact I hate that. It’s energy and energy is neutral until directed. Further, every gift is a curse (in equal proportion as far as I am concerned) so the idea a person is this or that a way and it is automatically deemed pathological irks me to no end. But to answer your question: Yes.

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Speaking of Neptune on the Midheaven and being mistaken as things. This is a conversation I had with a tabloid reporter I knew once. (JonBenet Ramsey And The Tabloid Reporter).

Mars Mercury is in evidence here as well with the voice angle and of course, my 8^th house.

“You missed your calling,” he said. “You should be a dominatrix.”

“What?” I was single, the mother of a 2 year old.

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