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My Advice On How To Keep Your Gemini Friends

August 14th, 2008 @ 9:38 am by Elsa

Astrology in real life

gemini on the phone I have a little drama going at the moment (don’t we all) and I was going to email a pal about it…. Claire-France this is who is a double Gemini.

Contemplating this as I walked into the kitchen to feed, Dora, I asked myself, yeah it’s happening but is it interesting? Should you be bothering her with this? Because if it is not interesting you should probably not bother, cf. Only call her when you know you’ve got meat and not going to bore her…”

Ha ha ha

It was my double Aquarian mother who said it was a sin to bore people. I heard her, therefore Geminis like me.

(that’s my daughter, years ago. A Gemini on the phone of course)

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She Feels Suffocated In Relationship – Commitment-Phobic In Love: Aquarius Rising, 7th House Moon

November 23rd, 2006 @ 3:44 am by Elsa

Dear Elsa,

I have had many boyfriends in my life. Some were very serious, to the point of possible marriage. But for some reason, there was always something missing from those relationships and I never felt as if I wanted to spend the rest of my life in them. I felt suffocated and restricted, although nothing had changed since the beginning of the relationships.

I met the most wonderful man four months ago, and I feel as if he might be ‘the one’. I’m afraid that the same old suffocating feeling is going to come back, and that I will unintentionally hurt this wonderful man who I truly want to be with.

Is there something in my chart that reflects this tendency to feel suffocated? Or was it maybe that the men in my past were just not the right ones for me? I’m afraid that I’m going to be running from love my entire life, while at the same time craving it. Do you have any insight?

Scared Leo

leo horoscope 2007 Dear Scared,

Yep, you’re on to it. Part of you wants to be in a relationship and part of you wants out! And you’re right. It has nothing to do with the man. You’re a commitment-phobic who craves relationships and this is hard-wired.

As for the astrology, anyone with their Moon in the 7th house is going to have an emotional need to be partnered. PERIOD.

But you’re an Aquarius rising. And you have Uranus in hard aspect to your Sun. And you have Jupiter conjunct your Mars and square your Venus. And all of this shrieks “Don’t fence me in!” And if you want evidence of this, just check your email address…

Your email address is how you identify yourself, right? And yours is the equivalent of FreeSpirit@blahblah.net. So how is that person going to be married, huh? ::smiles:: You’ll be jacked up from day 1!

So I don’t know what you’re going to do about this. How you resolve it will be very personal, but I can tell you it can be done because I am just like you and I’ve done it. There is a way to be both partnered and free. So you’re on the right track with your consciousness of this. And hopefully the clarity will help to kick you to the next level.

Bottom line, you need to make your own rules when it comes to relationships. Anything traditional will fail. And this may sound bad to you today, but it is what it is and understanding yourself is the key.

Good luck.

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