Togi writes regarding the repression of Mars energy in our culture:

“We were just not meant to live this way. Look how many people are on anti-depressants and other mood stabilizers?!”

That’s right – people are drugged you and passive. Those anti-depressants do what? they kill the sex drive!

Don’t get me wrong, I know there is such a thing as clinical depression but for many, they’d be better off to treat the problem with endorphins.
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anesa writes on A Fierce Diet:

“Hi Elsa, the book you mentioned here – “Heal your Body” by Louise L. Hay – lists “oversensitivity, often represents fear and shows a need for protection. Fear may be a cover for hidden anger and a resistance to forgive” for fat issues.

Do you relate to that kind of issues? And is it in reaction to those issues that you have decided to go on a fierce diet and have you chosen a timing based on your chart?”

anesa, good question. While I don’t relate to the fear and oversensitivity Dx, with that Mars Mercury conjunction in my chart, anger is always an issue for me. You can just count me furious at all times and you’d not be far off. (Swearing below the break)
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goddess writes:

“What helps people deal with anger? I don’t get angry all that often, but one of the absolute best things I can do when I’m feeling angry is to clean the house. That helps more than anything else I’ve found, including other types of physical activity. My Mars is in the 4th, trine Saturn. Energetic cleaning leaves me both feeling free of the agitation and satisfied at the accomplishment when I’m through.”

goddess – Being ultra-Marsy, I work out regularly (daily if possible) and I on top of that I walk if I can. With Mars conjunct Mercury, I also write and write and write…

What do other people do to dissipate anger, and can you see it in your Mars?

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It’s occurred to me with Mars (anger) opposing Neptune (fog) like this, people may very well be mad and not know it. Or maybe they do know they are mad but they are not sure who they should be mad and even if they are able to fix on a person, it’s likely the anger will dissipate. Blink and you transcend.

You may also be hiding (Neptune) from someone else’s angry attack (Mars) which of course would piss you off!

I was on the phone with Claire-France and she mentioned the war in Iraq is not being reported at all.

“Mars Neptune,” I said. “What war? Hide the war!”

Are you pissed off today? Describe your anger.

a asks on Do Miserable People Make You Miserable

This might sound like a weird question, but I’m being serious. How does one know if they are one of those “unhappies” or if they are buoyant?

It’s a great question and I am sure some people have no idea. Other do though. I recall on one of the cock-blocking bits I mentioned (girl)friends who when you start dating a man (and spending less time with them / abandoning them to a degree), they methodically take the man out to restore the status quo and several people copped to doing exactly this.

When your friend is happy, are you able to be happy for them even when you are not happy yourself? I suppose that’s the litmus test.
Continue reading Astrology And The Frustrated Mars: Anger, Depression, Resentment, Attacking…

Lynn Hayes of the Astrodynamics blog writes on People Who Hate Me, Guessing Reality:

“I’m just impressed that you find time to go to the gym.”

Thank you, Lynn but for a person like me the gym is non-negotiable. As many know, my sister is also an astrologer,we have both studied since we were pre-teen and she caught on to this Mars of mine, 25 years ago. Her exact words were, “Don’t let that shit back up on you.”
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“I get madder at you than I get at anyone,” the soldier said. This was news to me. “Yeah, I just get mad as hell.”

“Oh really,” I said.  “See, I didn’t know that. You have said many times that I get a lot madder at you than I do other people and it’s true but you never mentioned you had the same experience.”

“Yeah I do.”

“Well come to think of it…” I mentioned a couple scenarios where the soldier had been completely wrecked and raked over the coals by women. “I am surprised that didn’t piss you off beyond measure.”

“Well it did piss me off some,” he said not very convincingly. “But nothing like I the way I get mad at you. You and me – We get going and there is a point where neither of us is going to budge. We’re ready to draw, it’s like the OK Corral.”

I laughed. “Anyone ever square off with you like that?” I asked. “Besides me?”

“No, not in my life.  No, no one ever has.”

“Well good. Someone ought to take you on. Let it be me.”

Do you ever get spectacularly pissed?  Is there a certain person who inspires this and can you see the astrology?

pictured – Tombstone, AZ, home of the Ok Corral.  The soldier and I used to go there and get drunk all the time. Nickel beers bay-bee! Old time photos, dancing girls… Helldorado days…

Avery writes on Extreme Anger And Frustration:

Elsa? As a friend… you guys have a lot of fights. A LOT of fights. I know you were aware that you needed someone who could handle conflict, and that it took a Special Forces-trained warrior to fill that bill, but do you think you can sustain this level of love-battle over time? If so, how does this mesh with your Mars in Libra, which to my understanding, really craves peace?

Not trying to undermine what you’ve got going here (it sounds kind of hot, tell you the truth), just trying to understand.

Continue reading Astrology, Love And Mars: What About Battle Damage?

Once in the room, I plugged in my computer which was extremely unusual. The soldier said he would be two hours messing with his truck and if there were not a fight and a very, VERY bad one, I’d have gone right to him.

Matter of fact in all the time I have known him now or back when, I had never ignored him in this way. And it was not intentional as in “manipulative” because I just don’t play like that. The fact is, I was so intensely pissed off at him I had actually shut down.

I realized I did not want to see him even though I was there. It was sort of like “family”. You may not like them or want to deal with them but you do it anyway because you love them even if you don’t like them however you limit your exposure.

And I don’t know what to say besides my feeling like this in regards to the soldier was new territory. I knew it and he knew it and nobody knew what was going to happen now that this had happened… Elsa detached.

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What do you do when you are pissed off out of your mind?

The Sun is in Aries is squaring Mars in Cancer and people are wholly pissed, have you noticed?  If you have planets around 7-12 degrees Cardinal you are almost guaranteed to be embroiled in something.  Everybody wants to fight and it’s not that some of these fights aren’t necessary I am just noticing people are incredibly driven to take a stand today… to cut off the head of the enemy and I just wonder if there won’t be a serious hangover come Monday.

So what about you? Are you on the attack and/or being attacked today?  What do you see out there?