Astrologer, cf Perez got my attention when she made a statement about inequity in relationships.

She said that when one person in a relationship gave far more than the other, the person who was indebted filled in with anger. I was stunned with this simple observation and I think she’s correct.
Continue reading Anger And Balance In Relationships

This is a (hot) topic that keeps coming up behind the scenes, in consolations and such. I am to a point where I want to know what others think.

Alcoholics are frowned upon in the United States, by and large. Standard thinking is if you’re married to one, you should be get rid of them and if you are dating one, you should also get rid of them. The idea is that nothing good can come of it.

People in other countries are far more forgiving. Drinking is accepted as part of the culture and it’s not big deal if you have to get your pal from the pub, pour him or her into a car or a cab. Drinking is fun, it’s good to relax and unwind, etc.

I’ve have conversations about this with a variety of people. Some think people drink in their culture or their country because it’s overcast all day and dreary. People are depressed. Others mention poverty. Life is so hard, people drink to blot it out or blur the pain.

Continue reading Alcoholism Around The World: Please Weigh In

This is from January of 2008, part of my Saturn Pluto crush! As far as I know these people still believe me to be an alcoholic in denial. Fact is, I can smell a glass of wine and get tipsy. Such is the sensitivities of Neptune. I updated this in late 2009 (below). There has been no change since…

If you ever want to discredit someone…

Continue reading 1 Minute Astrology – Neptune And Projection: Hey Psst! Did You Hear The One Where I’m An Alcoholic?

The Pisces and the Scorpio Collide

Brinnnnnnng! Brinnnnnnnnnng!

The Pisces picked up. He knew I’d been dating the Scorpio. Since he was doing whatever he was doing and he wasn’t doing me, I’d moved along. He had his process which was nebulous but he still called me a couple or three times a week. We talked astrology by now so I told him about this guy’s fancy dick, Pluto and my blown pipes.

Well, well, well. I finally saw his Scorpio Moon peep out. He said the guy would call me again for sure and he felt I needed to lose him. He thought he was bad news. (I smell a cock-block)

Continue reading Vintage Blogging:Wild Astrology In The Wild – Meeting Pisces on Neptune – Part Three: The Pisces And The Scorpio Collide

Surviving crisis – life, death and alcoholism – NC-17 content.

This was filmed Dec 22, 2007 during one of the peaks of Pluto’s transit to my Moon. To update, sadly this friendship did not survive. I’d known the gal and her family for 9 years…

Related blogs:
What’s The Deal With Scorpio Freezing You Out, Or Amputating? What Is Their Motivation?
1 Minute Astrology – Scorpio Amputates But How Would You Prefer Your Lover Leave You? Or skip to a follow up on this: Elaborating on this story – coping with or helping someone in crisis

Someone knows the answer to this and I hope they will offer it even if they want to do so anonymously or even via private email because I really want to know this.

Regarding Alcoholics… don’t underestimate the trickery, yesterday I sneaked an alcoholic a drink. You might say I colluded with him, I helped a fellow human being due compassion, I acted foolishly or any number of other ways my actions could be seen but what I want to know is how does the alcoholic in the story see it? What does he think of what I did?

Continue reading Open Question: How Does The Alcoholic Feel About The Codependent?

I have a client who is currently recovering from a relationship where she was deceived. Pulling this up for her benefit. Venus Neptune On The Prowl… Look Out! (from 2007)

Last night the soldier and I were talking about a theory I’m developing where basically I wonder if the rules that apply to the percentage of alcoholics who get sober apply to other (or even all) problems and pathologies and anything else you might imagine.

Rather than call me crazy, he said I might be on to something and he mentioned the natural logarithm or the 80/20 rule. I might go into this if I can find verification of a key piece of information. I need to know how many alcoholics get and stay sober for life from a verifiable or reliable source, I am pretty sure the number is abysmally low.
Continue reading Alcoholism, The Natural Logarithm And Brainstorming To Solve Problems

Everybody knows how I feel about gossip and in particular, kicking people when they are down:

The Way Of The Culture – You’re Down? Great, Let’s Kick You!

Britney Spears: Pluto In Sagittarius and the Shadow Side Of Publishing

Mr. Blackwell’s 48th Annual Worst-Dressed List – Finally, Some Decorum

satori sent me clip. Craig Ferguson Speaks From The Heart about his alcoholism and his rethinking mocking and making jokes about people in crisis.

I think this trend was a result of Pluto (and Jupiter) in Sagittarius and I hope with all my heart it’s seen it’s heyday.

I made a video awhile back about how to discredit someone. All you have to do is say they are a drunk and that’s it! Walk into the room and everyone looks you up and down and thinks, “Here comes the alcoholic”. Doesn’t have to be true and I’d know because this is exactly what happened to me. This was “first handshake” before I even shook a hand when I first starting meeting with the task force.

Further I did not know this had happened for at least 2 or 3 weeks which meant people were talking to my hologram (Elsa the presumed alcoholic) and boy did I flip out when I found out. Considering I’m not a drinker, I was STUNNNNNED.
Continue reading Saturn In Virgo – What About *Not Controlling Conversation?