I decided a long time ago, I’d try to age gracefully. I think growing up with my grandfather, Henry close by made me very comfortable being around old people and I don’t mind being one of them. Henry was always sort of vital and relevant even if he was wrinkled and I was influenced by this.

Saturn in Libra speaks to aging with grace and I wonder how people feel about this. I know there is a large coalition of people out there who want to fight the effects of age and I understand why. Social pressures and such. Fear of rejection.

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Saturn transits age and depress you one way or the other.  There is always a reality check involved not that this is a negative thing because everyone knows how ridiculous a woman in her 40′s looks when dressed like a teenager. A reality check when it comes to her is a gift from God. The soldier and I both have Saturn transits underway and I thought I ought to start chronicling this… for a myriad of reasons.

Last night he was standing in the bedroom and the wine he was sipping dribbled down his chin and stained his shirt. “What is the matter with you?” I asked. “That’s the second time you did that. I couldn’t get the dribbled ice cream out of your other shirt.”

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Saturn / Capricorn expects you age gracefully. For today’s focus on Capricorn, here is the soldier on a rant over the weekend. He doesn’t like aging rock stars who can’t manage to… well, I’ll let him tell you:

“And what’s that woman’s name from Jefferson Airplane? She’s another one I can’t stand. What’s her name? Grace? Grace…”

“Grace Slick.”

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Neith writes on the Hapless Capricorn blog: “…Besides with lots of Capricorn, you have the added benefit of growing “younger” . . . much to the disgust of the rest of us!”

Well Neith, as a matter of fact a few days ago another astrologer who reads this blog, (I am not going to name names ) told me I did not act my age. She actually said this to me just like that. ::smiles::

And though I was too stunned to respond I realized a few minutes later I should take it as a compliment because I am sure it was intended that way and because if it’s true, this makes me a very successful Capricorn.

I don’t think Capricorn necessarily reverse ages like they say. Some of them remain dour to the grave. Some of them never loosen up. It is up the individual to look at all they’ve done and in the case of Capricorn, all they have endured and still must endure and decide enough is enough. I have paid my dues! I have paid them forty times over and further I think it’s my responsibility to enjoy myself so the young goats can see this can all work out!

It’s sort of like running a marathon. If you run a marathon and then want some pie, for Godsakes have the pie!

Do you credit yourself for endurance?

Dear Wife,

Yes, I have a pretty good guess. I don’t think the lack of sex has anything to do with you. I think your husband is feeling his age. He is in his mid-fifties and you are nearly 20 years younger and I think he’s slowing down.

However, I don’t know that he won’t fire back up. He’s getting hit hard with the Saturn Neptune transit to his Sun and its ruler Pluto and I imagine he feels low energy and just tired and dissipated in general. And with a stellium in Pisces, I am sure you understand.

Things may very well improve late summer when this thing breaks apart but I still think this situation is a heads up for you. Because Saturn is about to enter Virgo opposing your Venus in Pisces… and the reality (Saturn) that you are married (Venus) to an older man (Saturn) may become the issue of the day.

Good luck.

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