I have known my husband ‘cross 30 years time and can count his “bad moods” on one hand. I am not talking about us fighting which we do with regularity. I am talking about a foul and nasty mood. He doesn’t really have them but last night he feel into not just a bad mood, but a putrid mood that broke all records.
I’m glad to say, I took this in stride. I didn’t enjoy it, but I figure a person is entitled to a bad mood once a decade, even if it’s the foulest mood you’ve ever witnessed in your life. He woke up normal but quickly feel back into the same mood (with provocation but not from me). He was leaving today for a couple weeks and he left in this is disturbed state.
I knew instinctively not to mess with this and I knew from astrology that I should probably not disturb him until the Full Moon had passed but he called before that to let me know where he was. He apologized for “before” and I told him it was nothin’ – no big deal.
This is really some of the best advice I have: If you have a good man or a good woman and they fuck up, think very seriously about giving them a total pass. This is not expected. A person expects to be punished for their foulness and when they’re waved on, the relief is out of this world.