One thing you hear all the time is that relationships are hard. I can see this but I also know that relationships are extremely simple when you boil them down because this is something I do for people on a daily basis. Mars in Libra can cut to the chase when it comes to love and it’s shocking how things simplify once a knot is untied or the fog lifted or the light gets turned on. In some cases it takes all 3 functions but so? Bam, bam, bam and all the sudden – clarity.

With their head clear, some people turn their situations around on a dime. Others begin a journey but if you think along these lines, that love is hard, you might look around because if you do you’re bound to see people whose relationships are not at all “hard”. You’ll find people whose relationships are satisfying, rewarding and fulfilling. People who will tell you that their relationship is the most important thing in their life and when you hear this from someone, the old rule that says that love is hard becomes unreliable because it’s been refuted.

Continue reading Relationships Are Hard But Love Is Easy – Huh?

Yes, Libra, you’re nice. Now learn to say no!

Dear Betrayed,

It sure sounds like he’s cheating to me! Even if he’s not, he’s a liar and if you can’t trust a person, they are pretty much useless in my book. I’m serious.

Look at it this way. Some women have lying jerks for husbands or boyfriends. Do you want to be one of them? I don’t. Consequently – if I were you, I would toss this guy, aiming him so he lands on his head. Then I’d go paint my nails, in preparation to fish another line and find another man. A better man.

This is what I would do just as soon as I knew a man was lying to me, but actually I think your man is far more dangerous. Because look what he did when your confronted him. He denied everything and made counter allegations. That right there is a classic technique, designed to screw with the mind and leave a person confused. Considering this is his first line of defense, I have one word for you: RUN!

One more thing. You’re a Scorpio rising with an 8th house Sun. Always trust your gut because it rules.

Good luck.

Dear Libra,

Well I suppose you’ll move on eventually because he’s not coming to you, nor is he asking you to come to him. So really, it’s like the whole team has gone home and you’re still standing there on the mound, wondering…

Apparently you’re wondering how he could opt out when everything was so grand and here is the little bit you’re missing. It wasn’t grand for him! Whatever it was, but it was not ‘good and fantastic” as you describe it, at least not from his perspective and looking in this direction will lead you to the door out.

Continue reading Astrology-Based Advice: Libra Woman Pining In Love With Virgo Man: Venus Conjunct Neptune

Dear Scorpio Lover,

Forget about manipulating Scorpio! I don’t think you’re going to get this guy to do anything. WYSIWYG. Think, What You See Is What You Get, because this is the deal but it doesn’t mean you have to go hungry.

You can solve some of this if you go deeper yourself. For example, what do you care what he says and doesn’t say? What does he doooooooooo? Most particularly, how does he screeeeeeew? Does he share his energy? Is there a deep and meaningful sexual exchange? Because this is how Scorpio loves and communicates. Beneath the surface.

Continue reading Astrology-Based Advice: How Do I Get My Scorpio Man To Open Up

I had a very frustrating conversation with a gal last week, this was in my personal life having nothing to do with my blog. She’s young and not that bright I am sorry to say. I have been waiting for her to figure things out for the better part of a year and this is starting to occur mostly because I am so forceful.

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Saturn in Libra for Teacher’s Pets. How to evaluate the relationship you are in, the one you just left, the one you are trying to recover from and how to fare well in love with Saturn in Libra.

It’s fast and I mean F-A-S-T.

How prone are you at act on your intuition?

See what is coming up – Transit Watch

Dear Unloved,

I don’t believe anyone is destined to be unloved, but I know for sure that loves comes easier to some than others. And with Saturn ruling your 7th house and Venus in Scorpio square Saturn, you are clearly one of the others and for that I am sorry and I will try to help.

Saturn tied to Venus delays love in most cases, and if you read around you’ll be told that love comes later in life but I’d say there is no such guarantee. Love comes later in life to those willing to work for it. And I am sorry but this is just a fact and thinking otherwise is sort of like believing we all get rich in the end. Er… no we don’t!
Continue reading Am I Destined To Be Unloved? Venus In Scorpio Square Saturn Ruling The 7th House

We’re having a discussion in the Colosseum in regards to my idea that with Saturn in Libra people will put forth an effort to be attractive. “With Saturn in Virgo people learned to better communicate and now they will learn to attract…”

It is a period where the concept of being able to sit on the couch thinking love is going to come knock down your door and sweep you away will fall away. Women will realize the man on a white horse is a fantasy and if they insist on clinging to it, that is all they are going to have.

Continue reading Saturn in Libra: “Many Fish Bite If You Got Good Bait…”