Dear In,

No, I don’t think it is your destiny to suffer, I think it’s your destiny to heal and beyond that to help others heal. Who better for that than you? With your vast experience of suffering you are uniquely positioned, don’t you think? I do. But let me address some of these other things.

Your experience is common for survivors of abuse. You finally get yourself to a place where you have a modicum of security and this is when the shit hits the fan. Because prior to this time, you are functioning in some sort of survival mode. Functioning highly too, something you should be proud of. But now it’s time to heal.

Continue reading Astrology-Based Advice: Devastating Young Life – Sexual Abuse, Parents Dead: Sun Conjunct Saturn In Scorpio

Dear Elsa,

I am wondering about relationships where there a lot of Pluto aspects at work, deep intense crazy connections, that seem to be rearranging your inner organs, can they last?

What I mean is, if Pluto is transforming and obsessive, and related to death and rebirth, is it the kind of thing a relationship can have a lot of and survive? Is there sort of a built in time frame, a transformational process that naturally ends, or does it just keep working on you endlessly?

Curious
United States

Continue reading Can Intense Relationships With Scorpio Or Pluto Types Last Or Do They Die By Their Nature?

Dear Hat,

I have no idea what your signature means but I left it intact for others to puzzle over while I try to crack your problem, which I feel is far more common than the people  care to admit. The cause, and the specifics from person to person are endlessly varied but what you have in common is this: You have cracked 40 years old and you are alone.  I’ll tell you exactly why I think this is.
Continue reading Commitment Phobic In Her 40′s: Now What? Astrology-Based Advice

Yes, Libra, you’re nice. Now learn to say no!

Venus and Mars will be conjunct in Scorpio for almost a month.  It is deliciously deep and dark and y’all know I love this stuff.

I don’t like the fallout from writing about it though. I don’t like to censor myself. I do like to speak freely. I don’t like people to feed off me so I’ve decided to do an intensive in the Colosseum called, Elsa P’s Blood and Guts Astrology Class.

Continue reading Elsa P’s Blood And Guts Astrology Class: An In Depth Look At Love And Relationships

Dear Burned,

You are a Capricorn.

There’s not a Capricorn on this planet that does not have natural business acumen. This includes the ten-year-olds. Aside from your Capricorn sun, your chart has great emphasis on the Cardinal signs – Aries, Libra, Cancer and Capricorn. These signs were born to lead and this is why you’re so miserable working for someone else. It’s because you are a natural boss.

Continue reading Astrology-Based Advice: Capricorn in Business – Fear Of Failure (And Success)

Dear Roving,

You are definitely kidding yourself. I would caution you to believe what he’s telling you. He’s not going to upset his situation. If you want to go a round with him, I imagine you can. Personally, I believe he’s seducing you.

And you? Well, you’re a good girl, but sort of a Persephone figure. Hades takes her down, but she’s not entirely unhappy about this. So this is where you’re at. You’re part of a myth and I don’t know what you’re going to do but I hope you hear him loud and clear: HE IS NOT GOING TO UPSET HIS SITUATION.

For the record, if it were me, I would tell him to get his sexual energy off me, right before I punched his lights out. Because that’s what he’s doing. He’s got copious amounts of Scorpio underneath that Sadge grin and he’s workin’ you.

Good luck.

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pictured – Death of the Bride, 1895, oil on canvas, Thomas Cooper Gotch, (b.1854-d.1931)

The Moon leaves Libra for Scorpio today where it will be inordinately well aspected as it transits the sign over the next two days. The Sun, Venus, Mars, Saturn and Pluto all offer support to the debilitated Moon and psychotherapy is favored.

Anyone who takes time to probe their subconscious, their deep emotion, the psychological patterns that run in their family or through the collective is liable to come up with the goods over the next two days.

It’s also a good time to think about legacy, both what you have inherited as well as what you will leave behind for the generations that follow your own.

Purging is also favored. We have a stellium in Virgo so out with clutter be it real or psychological.

See what is coming up – Transit Watch

I had a very frustrating conversation with a gal last week, this was in my personal life having nothing to do with my blog. She’s young and not that bright I am sorry to say. I have been waiting for her to figure things out for the better part of a year and this is starting to occur mostly because I am so forceful.

Continue reading My Hope For Changes In Society With The Influx Of Planets Into Aries