Many lament the state of the education these days. Working as an astrology consultant, that’s outside my realm for the most part. But what I do see is that young men and women are taught very little about how to manage their personal (romantic) lives. Matter of fact, I think many are taught things that are ultimately detrimental to happiness in partnership.

Continue reading Good Policies For Young Lovers

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“The dating sites provide endless opportunity and supposed “matches”. In reality, a match is hard to find. But people lose sight of this in the big ol’ candy store…”

I wrote to a client. I definitely think the dating sites provide an excellent opportunity for meeting someone you may not have a chance to meet any other way. But if anything is to come of it, both parties have to agree to leave the candy store together.

I also think a woman ought to insist on this, but few know how.  Never mind all the blathering about why this is. Saturn is in Scorpio, these days we cut to the chase.

Continue reading Using The Online Dating Sites (As Opposed To Being Used By Them)

I just had a client, blindsided by man she was dating from another culture. She’s going along, they’re getting along great and all the sudden she steps on a crack she did not know was there and BAM! He breaks it off with her.

He happens to be Italian (from Italy) so I was able to translate for her. As audacious as his behavior was by an American standard, I would have done the same thing he did, and in the same dramatic manner.

Continue reading Culture Clashes When Dating

Do you send your partner or people you date, mixed messages? This seems very common to me, both from women and men. For example, a 39 year old man tells a woman he is looking for a serious relationship but proceeds to push her away as he also pulls her in. Also, he’s never had a serious relationship in his life, or he claims to have had five serious relationships, each lasting a year and it’s just ludicrous.

On the woman’s side, they tend to say they are not looking for a serious relationship but their behavior says otherwise. They say the only want a little…some kind of bare minimum man but in fact, they are demanding to a point that is beyond all reason.
Continue reading Dating: Mixed Messages And Other Inconsistencies

This is some guy’s Craigslist ad:

“Oh Hay Chronic Craigslist Readers,

Just looking for a nice girl to watch bad comedies with, drink wine and pass out together.

Deal breakers: no Virgos. My psychic told me to avoid them”

Is there a sign you absolutely will not date? (And what do you want to bet this guy gets responses from Virgos??

With Saturn in Libra, many are trying very hard to solve their relationship problems and what kills me about women (and some men) is they just don’t know how to play to their strengths or their strong points when it comes to attraction.

If you want an example of what I am talking about, consider a woman with a lot of Scorpio which is a magnetic sign. She can pull in anything she wants (yin) but instead she puts on galoshes goes out hunting a man which as far as I am concerned is akin to putting your make-up on the back of your head instead of your face.  This is just not how it’s done!

I argue all day about how it got this way but it’s irrelevant. What is important for the woman who wants to fare well with men is she play to her strengths and if she can learn to do this, she will quickly move through the hoards of women who can’t and be successful.

Do you feel you have command of your power to attract what you want? I emphasize the last because if you can attract 7000 men who leave you when you want a man who stays, that doesn’t count does it?

Your thoughts?

One time, I went on a date with a double Cancer man. Cancer = home, family, roots, food.

He took me to dinner at a restaurant that was somebody’s converted home. All during dinner he told me about the family that had lived there. He told me their names, and detailed histories with dates of various happenings. He outlined the whole family tree.
Continue reading My Dinner Date With A Cancer Man

For a client who has recently graduated to a new way of relating…

“When I look at these charts, the phrase that comes to mind is “balance of power”. This is a very masculine man you’ve got here which is very good. You’re not going to be able to dominate this guy which may be hard to take or accept at times but is actually a great fortune in the scheme of things. Congratulations on getting yourself involved in such a complex, adult, interaction…”

How do you feel when partnered with someone you can’t control?

pictured – House of Lucretius Fronto – Marriage of Venus and Mars fresco

Stephanie writes on Two Fixed T-Squares:

“Yeah, just went on a date with a guy Sunday who made me dinner at his house, talked all about how he doesn’t want to be single at midlife, wants to partner and have someone live with him in his big lonely house up in the hills. Super duper wooing mode. Then he calls me last night and announces that he’s actually been in an open relationship for two years and wants to see me too! WTF?!

Saturn please get off my moon! F—!”
Continue reading Guerrilla Tactics In Love…And The Hall Of Mirrors