Today on the boards – [poll] What race are you?

NC pastor calls for gay concentration camp..

Number of lovers a person has had…

Were you born early or late? Did that change your Sun sign?

Illusive answers and Neptune in the houses

DM writes:

“I was at a crossroad during this Saturn transit and needed a reading to show me some clarity. Not only did Elsa provide it, she gave me the tools to make decisions that would carry me through to the next Saturn transit. I have lots to think about but feel confident that dropping a non-productive friendship, will not only free me up to move on to do other things, but allow me to have a clear view of what is the next right thing to do in regards to the other significant relationship in my life. No longer feeling stranded at the crossroads and I have you to thank!

You always come through! Thanks again! See you on the boards till next time.”

Thanks, DM!

From 2008, in response to a comment on this blog: Saturn return… Take A Lesson From These Two Losers

Defending a Capricorn-type comment regarding the Saturn Return.

More on this topic – Demystifying the Saturn Return (a video series)

My Saturn return story – How the Universe straightens things out.

In regards to my remark, “ “To avoid pain, do the right thing. Act maturely” on Dealing With Pain And Avoiding Regret Around Relationships That Are Ending As Saturn Leaves Libra  Candela writes:

“What if it’s someone else ending “the relationship” with me? Not my choice, really, because I would very much like to remain friends. But I do understand that we can’t, right now at least.”

Most likely the person has weighed the situation and determined it is not in someone’s best interest to continue to interact. I don’t know your personal situation but as an example, a married person might have become friendly with someone outside their marriage. It might have seemed a good idea at the time, but now they see that person is falling in love with them. It might be that their spouse may feel jealous, or they may be pressed for time and need to prioritize, or whatever.
Continue reading What If Someone Breaks Up With You?

In regards to my remark, “ “To avoid pain, do the right thing. Act maturely” on Dealing With Pain And Avoiding Regret Around Relationships That Are Ending As Saturn Leaves Libra  abella writes:

“I’ve found some people saying they’ve ‘done’ the ‘right thing’ but they haven’t from my perspective. I don’t think they know ‘what’ the right thing is.

Can you lend some thoughts Elsa on how they can figure out right from wrong? And as you suggest, those people haven’t been ‘mature’ and have been more ‘me oriented’. But what I have witnessed is down the road, they end up paying for not doing what was right at the time (right, in Saturn’s mind).”

Continue reading Pain And Avoiding Regret Around Relationships Ending At This Time, Con’t.

As Saturn leaves Libra, many people are seeing their relationships end. This is an agony for some for a variety of reasons. You may be dumped, but even if you initiate the break-up, if it’s happening at this time, chances are you’re heavily invested.

Continue reading Dealing With Pain And Avoiding Regret Around Relationships That Are Ending As Saturn Leaves Libra

We have a mutable T-square this morning which will be with us through the end of the month.  Expect lots of comings and goings and words flying back and forth.  Mars is involved here and people are liable to be curt.

Neptune is also involved so people may feel hurt or victimized.  You can avoid (Neptune) this for the most part, if you’re able to engage your intellect and try not to take things personally. A person who is short with you may be juggling a lot things or ideas (Gemini) you can’t see (Neptune).

In whatever case, “sweetness” is going to be in short supply when you’re dealing with Mercury-ruled things like email, phone calls, short trips, siblings and neighbors.  It’s quite stressful so think in terms of taking this a day at a time.

Have you noticed communications are sharp-edged right now? How do you feel about it?