I got into an interesting dialogue with a newcomer, Mary on Undermining, Nasty Neptune post. She said she has been reading awhile and has seen me as Saturnian, and not at all Plutonian, which was curious.

I told her I felt I could represent all the planets in a way that is pronounced.

“…Yes, I have Capricorn, I also have a packed 8th house (Pluto). I have significant Jupiter (broadcast worldwide) and Uranus (astrology) energy. I have a lot of Libra/7th house (Venus) energy and my Mars (anger) and my Mercury (mouth) are legendary.”

What is real here, from your perspective? Were you unable to choose?

“He would put out a lot of energy, sexually and he was getting sick of it. He had all this energy to offer, but he was getting older and he questioned it. He wasn’t sure he wanted to put so much out. Why give so much energy when no one knows what you’re doing for them anyway?”

I was talking about a specific Scorpio man I knew but this is broadly applicable. I have seen Scorpio get to a point in their life where they just didn’t want to service people in quite the same way… if at all.

Continue reading Scorpio Men Opting Out Of Having Sex (Saturn in Scorpio)

This is from 2007. If you’re confused about Neptune in astrology, this might help.

I was talking to my husband before we married…

“People suspect your motives,” I said. “They think you are up to something… up to no good. It’s the same thing that happened when we were kids. (The Professor Of Art History in The Soldier and P) Happened in 2003 too, remember.”

“In 2003?”

“Yeah, that guy told me you were oppressing me to liberate yourself,” I said. (This is the ultimate insult to a Special Forces soldier who is sworn to liberate the oppressed). Continue reading Undermining By Questioning A Person’s Motives – Nasty, Nasty Neptune

Yesterday I had a pal tell me he thought there were people who just couldn’t stand the idea of someone being happy. I would have liked to argue but I’ve witnessed the same thing.

I’m inherently happy. I may have a grueling life but I am still happy and feel satisfied at least 90% of time. I chalk this up to trines from Jupiter.

Jupiter types have a very hard time staying down. We just go up like a helium balloon, again and again and again. Pull it down, it comes down. Turn your back and its up again. Shoot it full of holes and next morning it’s restored. It’s right back where it was, wagging in the wind. And I can explain how it feels to be this kind of person on another day – this is my point:

Continue reading Jupiter In The Horoscope: Does Happiness Breed Happiness And Misery Love Company?

Do all your relationships end in betrayal or disappointment? Are you always rejected and left angry, regardless of who you interact with? Ultimately, do you reject everyone you try to partner with? It’s a sick feeling when you realize that all your relationships end in the same way.

If you have this problem, it seems impossible to find a way out. You probably think you’re cursed. Other people are lucky. You’re not. No matter what you do, the thing happens over and over and over again.

Continue reading Do All Your Relationships End The Same Way – Changing Negative Patterns In Love

From my weekly newsletter (sent tomorrow):

“Mercury hits Gemini today and mental function is emphasized all week long. If you love puzzles, you may enjoy this but many will be stressed and distracted. Mercury rules short trips in the car or on foot, so keep an eye out for people who might space out and run a red light…”

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Today on the boards – [poll] What race are you?

NC pastor calls for gay concentration camp..

Number of lovers a person has had…

Were you born early or late? Did that change your Sun sign?

Illusive answers and Neptune in the houses

DM writes:

“I was at a crossroad during this Saturn transit and needed a reading to show me some clarity. Not only did Elsa provide it, she gave me the tools to make decisions that would carry me through to the next Saturn transit. I have lots to think about but feel confident that dropping a non-productive friendship, will not only free me up to move on to do other things, but allow me to have a clear view of what is the next right thing to do in regards to the other significant relationship in my life. No longer feeling stranded at the crossroads and I have you to thank!

You always come through! Thanks again! See you on the boards till next time.”

Thanks, DM!

From 2008, in response to a comment on this blog: Saturn return… Take A Lesson From These Two Losers

Defending a Capricorn-type comment regarding the Saturn Return.

More on this topic – Demystifying the Saturn Return (a video series)

My Saturn return story – How the Universe straightens things out.

In regards to my remark, “ “To avoid pain, do the right thing. Act maturely” on Dealing With Pain And Avoiding Regret Around Relationships That Are Ending As Saturn Leaves Libra  Candela writes:

“What if it’s someone else ending “the relationship” with me? Not my choice, really, because I would very much like to remain friends. But I do understand that we can’t, right now at least.”

Most likely the person has weighed the situation and determined it is not in someone’s best interest to continue to interact. I don’t know your personal situation but as an example, a married person might have become friendly with someone outside their marriage. It might have seemed a good idea at the time, but now they see that person is falling in love with them. It might be that their spouse may feel jealous, or they may be pressed for time and need to prioritize, or whatever.
Continue reading What If Someone Breaks Up With You?