Minds are stimulated today with the Moon and Mars in Virgo, aspecting Mercury in Aquarius. If you have an idea, it’s likely to be fresh.

Venus conjuncts Uranus in Aries today. Pluto squares the conjunction creating a volatile situation as outlined here.

We also have a grand trine in earth which suggests that people can feel grounded in whatever chaos transpires.

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This is another common scenario. A person is in crappy marriage but struggles to move from awareness of such to actually solving the problem. They get caught in a depression or a power struggle or whatever. To a client:
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Dear Beleaguered,

I feel very bad for you because it seems you are surrounded by the enemy. Just who is on your side here? No one I can identify.

Now I am very sorry but I don’t think your situation is likely to work out and your husband is the reason why. He is not really married to you, is he? He is married to his mother, to his mother’s mother, to his friends and to his motherland. And if you will accept all this, then fine. He’ll be married to you too and if not? Well then apparently you can kiss his ass.

Now to his credit (and yours for being honest about this), it does not seem he misrepresented himself. So what you got here is exactly what you bargained for, which was a really crappy bargain.

Because it sounds like you do everything. Except maybe plow the back forty and rub down the cows and as you can see… none of this matters. You are not only not appreciated, you are completely discardable to these people – and preferably as soon as possible.

So you see the situation here. I believe you’ve made a mistake. And I agree with the grandma, you should get out before you have a child – but not for his sake, for yours!!

Because it’s obvious you are not cut out to live in a family compound and believe me, these pricks are going to keep up the pressure until they win and they will win. Why? Because you are one. And they are many, and they are mean.

I say, run! Run for your life. This is not a family you want to be part of. As if they’d let you.

And if you leave, brace yourself. Because this family is going to blame you for everything while they coddle him. So you get the picture. Stay or go, you aren’t going to win.

I’m sorry.

Good luck.

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From my weekly newsletter (sent tomorrow):

“Thursday is interesting. We’ve got a calming grand trine in earth signs up against Venus conjunct Uranus squaring Pluto.. The latter is sure to cause disruption and eruption in relationships with alarming alacrity in many cases. I can only conclude that the shocks will come but people will weather them well, thanks to the trine…”

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I cop to being really uncomfortable right now. Pluto is station in hard aspect to my natal Mercury and I just know all kinds of dark and/ot dire stuff.  I sense it, or I just know it or whatever.

I feel bad handling this. It’s enough to make me sick because my natal Mercury in in Libra. I can’t tell you how much I like things to be nice.  This is embarrassing to my 8th house but it’s just the way it is. I turn my head when some movie person gets stabbed and I’m sure I always will.
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The Moon leaves Leo for Virgo today, as part of a Mystic Rectangle involving Jupiter, Saturn in exaltation, Chiron and Neptune. Mystic, indeed!

I strongly recommend that you feel your way through today.

Articulate your FEELINGS rather than over-thinking them.

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“Your voice is like thunder booming across the land,” I told the soldier. “You are so loud.”

“P, it is you who is scary and we both know it’s true.”

“Why do you want a woman who is scary, anyway? Why would that be?”

“Because she’s pretty and she’s nice most of the time.”

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Dear Confused,

I am sorry this man’s mixed signals set you on a path to confusion, but at this point his signals are abundantly clear. He is not interested. And further, you are not going to get “closure” because he is not going to give it to you. The reason being that he’s not capable of giving it to you.

He is also not capable of telling you that he doesn’t like you, that he likes someone else better, that he changed his mind or whatever else his reason for pulling away may be. And if you have even a modicum of class (he doesn’t), then you will respect his shortcomings and relent with contacting him and/or professing your love. And beyond that you can learn from this. Because these are facts:

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The Full Moon in Leo takes place midday in the US. Mercury is wrapped up with the Moon which puts a focus on ideas.

Mars in Virgo drives people to communicate and Jupiter opposing Saturn, pressures some to broadcast there beliefs.

In short, few will remain closed-mouthed today. Expect the phone to ring, the text or email to come in, or a knock on the door from a neighbor.

Saturn turns retrograde today. This is very powerful so for Godsakes, do right by others.

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