If she is gone, I know the reason for it. A man came into (the periphery) of my life. She told me he was coming. She was so anxious to hear what I thought of him.
I guess she had some type of history with him, but I didn’t perceive this at the time. The nature of our interaction was that we share our views and different perspectives on a numerous, variety of topics. I thought this was more of the same.
When I met the man, I liked him and I said so. I slowly or quickly found out that she did not. I don’t really know which it was. I have Venus square Neptune! But there was a day the veil lifted and I realized this was the case.
Since then, she’s quit talking to me. She may be back, I don’t know. But since then I’ve thought about this and come to realize something.
You can say that a person like this is a control freak. It’s their way or the highway, when it comes to the opinions or beliefs they hold. This may be true, but I’ve realized something else.
If you lose a friend because you don’t hate who (or what) they hate, they probably don’t like you either. Because if they did like you, you’d be allowed your independence.
What do you know about this?
pictured – War, De Scott Evans(1847-98)