Are You Closed-Minded When It Comes To Love?
“Your assumptions are your windows on the world. Scrub them off every once in a while, or the light won’t come in.”
-Issac Assimov
Most people consider themselves to be open-minded, but I don’t find this to be the case, especially when it comes to love. Typically people have a fixed idea of who they think they’re looking for and often their idea is ludicrous. Even if your idea makes sense, a narrow definition of who you think would make a good partner for you can be enormously hindering when it comes to finding love.
As an analogy, imagine you’re a waitress who believes she can only serve pancakes. If this is your reality, you’re going to cut yourself off from most opportunities. Compare that to the opportunities open to another young waitress with an open mind and you’ll see what I mean. If you have a closed mind when it comes to love, it really weighs heavily against you.
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5 Responses to “Are You Closed-Minded When It Comes To Love?”
….a fixed idea of who they think they’re looking for….is ludicrous.
Some friends at school wanted their prospective boyfriends to drive nice cars, wear preppy clothes, attend good schools, play sports and have the potential to enter an ivy league college; and if their parents belonged to the country club that was even better. They entered their 20/30s w/the same pretentious attitude – nobody was good enough. I thought that ludicrous.
ActuallyI have the opposite problem..too open of a mind. What about the idea of setting your intentions..be specific “they” say in asking for what you want? Can’t fucking win either way. Fucking 5th house Capricorn, Neptune in 7th and whoever else is fucking up my gig. How’s that for having a mouth? Oh and sparks? saw that post…that’s a whole other rant and rave.
Sorry for the profanity…not feeling so peaceful at the moment…ready to kick somebody’s ass. Probably will end up being my own. Not funny. Grrrr.
I had a good idea of what I *thought* I wanted (blond hair, green eyes, college degree) but none of that mattered when I met my wife. She’s totally the opposite (Latino) and that’s fine with me – even better, perhaps. I wish I’d known more about astrology back then though. That would have been a lot of help finding someone right.
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Me, not commiting?
Ok, I may not want to hold hands every time we walk somewhere, or want to make out in every theater we go to, but mentally, I’m VERY committed, and love a quote from Paul Newman who said, “Why go out for a burger, when you have steak at home?”