My son is in high school and a lot of the conversation around here centers on his experience there. Few sail through high school, what with the hormones and all, never mind the academic pressure. In trying to sort through this, my husband and I feel, Vid has to work out for himself what makes him happy. My husband is very personable, but it is not at all important to him to have friends. I think if you pushed him, he’d say he prefers to not have friends. This is not a the greatest role model for my double Libra son. He can’t just do as my husband does, because he’s more like me – socializing is important to him.
Now some people are born with charisma. (see Chiron – You Can’t Buy Charisma) They just have it. People tend to like them wherever they go. Other people don’t have this quality. If they want to be liked, they got to work at it. They have to develop themselves. It’s like being natural public speaker as opposed to being someone like me who would struggle through a speech, unless I really trained myself.
So how important is it to you that you be personable? Do you care if people like you, or not so much? Have you ever done anything to become more personable?
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