Effective dating, brought to you by my Mars in Libra.
I wrote to a client. I definitely think the dating sites provide an excellent opportunity for meeting someone you may not have a chance to meet any other way. But if anything is to come of it, both parties have to agree to leave the candy store together.
I also think a woman ought to insist on this, but few know how. Never mind all the blathering about why this is. Saturn is in Scorpio, these days we cut to the chase.
If you are a woman like me, interested in serious relationship, and not willing be one of a flock, go ahead and go on the dating sites and date until you’re blue. If the date is mediocre, don’t waste your time on another. But if you do meet someone you like , and you have a good time, I would broach this on the FIRST date.
Specifically, I would say: “Are you going to date a million people on Match, or are you going to date me?”
The implication is, if the person is going to date others, they are not going to date you. I realize many of you would be terrified to do this but the fact is, you’re running the show. You tell the man who you are and what your standards are and I guarantee you, if he likes you, he will pony up.
Bottom line, few know how to get off the dating Merry-go-round. This is how I would do it. PERIOD. And if the man is for you, he will be thrilled with this, because when a man likes a woman, the last thing he wants is to know she is out there shaking her ass for 1000 other men.
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