)))))))), ydee you must have some leo there

I don’t have ANY idea! : ( But Saturn in Libra has made me question if I want a partner at all.

I could not agree more with this advice. I am heavily cardinal and it’s very hard to partner with someone who is not. My husband’s Capricorn sun falls on my vertex and makes my cardinal t-square into a grand cross. I have a lot of Aries and his descendant is in Aries. I really think this is a good idea for cardinal people, generally, and most especially for cardinal women. What fun is it to order someone around when they TAKE YOUR ORDERS?

Yes, I do.

I haven’t asked for a second opinion but I remember having a consult with you Elsa, after my ex and I split. I was despondent about my financial situation and felt like I was a liability to anyone who would want to be with me. You’re response (about finding someone with compatible financial comfort levels) was very helpful.

I have found exactly that and am engaged to be married to someone with Sun/Mercury/Venus/MC in Leo.

Honestly, it never even occurred to me to think of these things while dating someone…Venus/Mars in Aries.

The funny thing though, is that while I thought ‘I never want to date another Cap Sun man’ I ended up with a man with Sun in his 10th. LOL

I’m pretty much balanced between Cardinal and Mutable – I usually go for guys who have Cardinal/Fixed or Mutable/Fixed. I’ve noticed that alot.

My daughter is Aries Sun and Mercury/Cancer Mars/Cancer Asc and she has a boyfriend who is Libra Sun and Mercury/Cap Moon/Aries Mars. They get along really well.
Actually, my older son is Aries Sun and Mars/Cancer Moon and his wife is Cancer Moon and Cap Mars. My younger son is Libra Sun/Cap Mars/Aries Asc and his girlfriend has Libra Mercury and Cap Mars. I hadn’t realised there was so much cardinal stuff in my family. Even I have Cap Moon and Aries Asc! And that’s not counting the cardinal ruled houses (1 and 10) that are prominent in my chart. I’ll have to think about that some more.

I feel you, Dawn. Both my mars & venus are squared natally.

I have an idea what I’d like (nice to me, treats me as an equal partner, but still good sexual chemistry) especially after my saturn return in libra nightmare imprisoned by an aries, but finding that is another story altogether.

My 7th house cusp is in Aries, but (sorry no offense to Aries board members) they are usually mean to me, controlling, and selfish. I know they are trying to look out for what they think is best for me, but don’t actually listen to what I want/need. I’m bad with conflict and they seem to love it, so I don’t feel that’s a good mix for me anymore even though the attraction is always so strong.

I have two fixed planets, sun: leo, taurus: moon;
three cardinal planets, mars: cancer, pluto: libra, saturn: libra;
and five planets (seven if you count chiron and true node in gemini) in mutable: mercury & venus: virgo; jupiter, uranus & neptune in sag. I guess that means I should find a mutable person then? After dating a gemini for a significant period and getting lied to and cheated on a lot I feel like they are not the relationship/monogamy type. Sag men seem hard to nail down, too. A lot of my friends have been sag, they are so funny and we get along really well, but then I watch them cheat on their significant others so I think not for me.

I’ve always wanted to date a libra, though. I have my asc plus two planets there. They seem so nice and relationship oriented. Balance would be a good thing.

You’re welcome, Gabrielle!

I’m a strong cardinal as well. My guy’s chart is unusual. He’s a very strong mutable and only 1 cardinal planet but all of his planets are placed in cardinal houses except for that 1 cardinal planet. I don’t know what to read from that.

I used to have a rather simplistic understanding of who would match well…then I asked some older friends and people who have known me long-term and the responses were very surprising. Who I would probably work best with as a partner wasn’t who I liked or was aware of at all!

Astrology-wise, I’ve learned that even with all the mutable planets, my taurus/scorpio needs a foundation first. The rest feels like icing.

I have 7 planets in Cardinal.
Sun, Murc, Venus in Cap
Moon, Ascd,Saturn & Neptune in Libra
Uranus in Cancer.
Long term relationships have been with predominately fixed signs,Taurus & Scorpio,none with “forever” results.
A new for me is a mostly mutable man.It has been my recent 3 year exclusive relationship, but not living together, with a Gemini Sun, Sag moon and Cancer rising.Even he has fixed Venus and Mars in Taurus. This relationship has some obstacles that will probably prevent marriage.
Maybe I can learn something here
I wish there was a dating site that you could say I prefer this planetary configurations….

Im too fixed, and so far have been with mutables… i prefer somebody with different elements but they must be fixed enough to stick with me. i also want somebody with some fire in their chart to blaze me up as i have no fire at all!!! So Sags and Aries can apply ))