Making Threats – Damaging Your Relationships and Your Reputation
My eye on the sky.
Another post in regards to the In regards to the current Mars, Uranus, Pluto t-square, this thing is intense and I am seeing people threaten others. Some are naturally prone to making threats. What’s remarkable is that people who are not prone to threatening others are doing so now.
If you’re hellbent on spinning out, that’s one thing. But I am seeing people who are clearly triggered, threatening people left and right and damaging their relationships and reputations in the process. You can pretty much tell they’re in an altered state. It’s not their voice coming out of their mouth.
I want to put this out here because this energy WILL PASS. It’s probably worthwhile to work to keep your head because nobody likes to be threatened and nobody likes to wake up in the middle of the life they’ve blown to smithereens, either.
What are you seeing out there? How are you coping?
37 Responses to “Making Threats – Damaging Your Relationships and Your Reputation”
OMG….I am definately seeing this today! How long will this last? I have been biting my tongue to keep from cursing out my boss, and co-workers. I have had to walk away from my desk at least 4 times this morning to avoid the “big scream” that is looming. (and it’s only 9AM) (Triple Leo)
Welcome, Karen. It’s going to be this tense throughout July and in fact, this is intensifying now.
It’s times like this I’m glad I live alone and can avoid this risk. But I’ve certainly seen it at work on the boards.
And a member here posted today on FB about a talented young man she knew hit by a truck and killed – it’s dangerous out there, so do be extra vigilant o the road.
I’m now even more glad the Soldier got off the road and out of that truck, before this square, Elsa!
I choose to walk away. It’s takes two to tango. Yes, I see it. It’s in the press with the Bully campaigns, it’s the Alpha male in your face bellowing… Force Field up Spock!!
I’m feeling angry too, tryting to show anger in aquite place just to calm down myself, feeling like giving threat to my hubby for all of his misconduct, but not sure this is a good time or not..
Mars is squaring my sun & moon both right now (my moon more tightly, but as that passes, it’ll be exactly sq. my sun). I feel this very acutely!! I have been making myself count to 100, to take tons of ‘mental timeouts’ to make sure I’m not just flying off the handle and to try to make sure I have a reality check (is this THAT important that I need detonate my whole life over?). I blew up my whole first marriage and life in this way. Mars was exactly where it’s at right now. It’s not something I care to repeat,
Angie
Lord help me, with this new planet in Libra I’m in the middle of a grand cross
I’m arguing a lot more over small, petty details.. it makes my head hurt and I really don’t want to do it.
I’m also seeing people around me argue and shout, and do things in the heat of anger that they normally wouldn’t do. There’s just irritation with each other all around.
I’m not seeing threats going down at all. At my work I deal with a certain level of chaos per day, mostly due to a computer program that just does not work for about 10% of its audience and I have to attempt tech support for it when I can’t give it. But people are actually being pretty reasonable to me for the most part.
I do notice a lot of people who just don’t freaking read the requirements or what they did wrong, though. But I am dealing with a bunch of teenagers who don’t like to read, so that’s par for the course.
I have actually been quite chilled out of late (other than at work), so that’s nice. But I know two people who just had relatives die on them recently and it was sudden, so I think they are feeling gut-punched.
My daughter was in a coma for a week beginning May 20th(she’s a triple gemini with mercury in Taurus 29-she got hit really hard in the arm area) and I didn’t get one call from my family, although they all knew. I had to come back from overseas and slept in my car outside the hospital for several days. After a month a distant relative called as if she didn’t know, and I was very very angry at the artifice and disowned several people in the process.
I would think that people would bury the hatchet under these circumstances, or have some compassion, but they really suck, and I have a lot of rage still. They act like it is a crime to be angry. I am supposed to be new age/above it all. I am not.
This one’s tough. I am catching all seven levels of hell from people spinning out at work, and it’s all I can do to contain myself.
Breathing. Lots. Breathe breathe breathe.
Thanks for the reminder: it will pass. I hope I manage to stay employed until it does.
Walking through the fire. It’s a new skill. I really honestly believe I did not have it before. Just not flaming out and quitting my job is my triumph of the year. Although…I keep wondering if that’s the smartest thing…
Saw someone spinning out at the beach today. Seeing them spin out all over the place.
Thank God I have Saturn anchoring me now (on my AC/DC axis).
my post earlier got zapped! Lol. Ugh…yes. Intense energy. Feelin it. Raging all kinds of everything in my head. But keeping a calm exterior. It’s wierd. I’m lucky that uranus and pluto are in favorable aspects to natal stelliums….but still….unpredictable shit happening…at work…my car…and i’m so damn calm about it. I mean *unusually* CALM. If people only knew the dramatic soap opera going on in my head. I’ve seriously got shit *brewing*. Festering. Yeah. This shit is serious.
“What’s remarkable is that people who are not prone to threatening others are doing so now.”
I’m really not prone to making threats. But, I did recently illustrate to someone that I have collected a HUGE amount of self-restraint in regard to anger because if I hadn’t I would be plotting to do X, Y and Z to you right this very second and you would never know what hit you.
The person had no idea that I was capable of thinking at that level let alone carry something like I described out. It actually helped my relationship. I’ve been telling this person for years that it would greatly benefit them to get a lasso on their destructive anger issues and they thought “how could YOU know what that’s like.” So..I told them.
But, yes, people seem to be on the brink right now. Not looking to forward to this weekend when tr. Mars hits my Pluto. But, hopefully my plan to focus that drive into a creative home project will help (Mars in Libra in the 8th conjunct Pluto and Uranus)
My grrr started a few weeks ago at a family thing when the predacious one was starting trouble with some nonsensical button pushing. She was quelled. And there it was, the answer. She boldly stated that she needs to fight to keep going. For 20 years I have taken her attacks personally, put up with her and her flying monkeys bullying. And there it was, she likes to fight. It keeps her going.
Her children and I just looked at each other and I stated that it is not the people who put me down and fight me that keep me going, it’s the people who are there for me. She looked shocked and I have not heard from her since.
What a waste of time she’s been. Grrrrr!!! I am a little spaced out about it but still puttering forward and practicing defensive driving. Wouldn’t want anyone to hurt themselves running into me. 
I must be a strange individual because I am working hard right now making more peace with my family. I have been very angry sometimes but not now.
Ha, ha, notch- “Wouldn’t want anyone to hurt themselves running into me.” Love that.
And yes, this hit close to home. I’ve been watching a close friend w/an alcoholic spouse… Yesterday I was asked to help pick up a car at a bar, and in between listening to the story, I’m getting the feeling this isn’t like all the other times. My friend is mightily pissed, and the it feels like the calm before the storm.
I checked in via text; the replies don’t sound at all like words he would normally use; it’s almost like somebody else is at the controls. It’s unnerving, really. This guy is usually very solid, but I wouldn’t want to be in his path when he finally blows. He is triggered for sure, and this is a classic relationship story; they divorced and remarried fairly recently, and Saturn/Libra has been rough on the both of them. Maybe this is the last hurrah.
Actually Saturn is square my Sun (cancer 25´). I feel a lot of grief but I have worked through a lot of anger. Mother died yesterday.
I’m so sorry ulrika.
Agree with everyone that it’s dangerous out there, that people are raginng and communications are FUBAR.
“nobody likes to be threatened and nobody likes to wake up in the middle of the life they’ve blown to smithereens, either.”
I did this during the eclipse 1-1/2 years ago, and paid the price, still paying. Learn from my mistakes and be careful how you treat people during this transit.
Uranus on my asc w/ Pluto squaring it. Not the most popular kid on the block, but probably one of the most interesting. I think my identity is undergoing a big transformation- more than I realized.
@Ulrika – sending you love, so sorry to hear that your mother died yesterday – that’s a biggie
(((Ulrika)))
I debated all day yesterday to delete my ex from my fb ‘friends’ list. Still haven’t decided; leaning towards the end of the month.
are you kidding me.. I just yesterday heard from my agent in Japan that another agent was threatening my client saying I was copying images of his client and I was being sued here in the US which was a lie since clearly he felt threatened. He did no take me on as my agent because he has a an artist who does similar work whom I know who he states I copied!! Now I have my lawyer involved and I am not taking this lightly- you cannot go around telling ppl lies that I am being sued simply because you feel threatened! Competition is just that and to slander my name= lawsuit big time!
people are so damn cranky…if they run out of refills it’s our fault. And the doctor, he’s incompetent. Um, we fax your doctor for you as a courtesy, but it’s your responsibility to make sure you have refills. And try giving your doctor 24-48 hours notice.
A boy I used to babysit, nineteen/twenty years ago – this little cutie who spoke with a French accent (his dad was French) – was celebrating July 4th in an area with something like two-hundred people, and someone hit him in the head with something. He’s in the ICU, left side of the brain is dead, which has left him in a vegetative state, right side of the brain is deteriorating. This was in Vacaville, CA. Another family friend (I also used to babysit her children), gave me this information, and posted this article on Kathy’s facebook: http://www.news10.net/news/article/199936/2/Man-suffers-life-threatening-head-injury-at-July-4-celebration-
(((ulrika)))sorry for your loss.
I am totally going through this with a family member. They are cheating me out of money on a land deal and then trying to make me feel guilty about it. He’s one of those scheming type of Capricorns. I am marshalling my legal team as we speak. Don’t ever mess with an Aries Sun, Cap Moon. It’s all of the energy of fire plus the grounded tempermeant of earth energy.
You hit the nail on the head when you said “it’s not their voice coming out of their mouth”. I’ve watched three people in the past two weeks do this. I’ve been standing back from these relationships, not knowing what to make of it. Thank you for stating it the way you did, I thought I knew these people, this is a side of them I’ve never seen before. Two of them are Aries Sun and the other Leo Sun, the later wasn’t as bad. this to shall pass, thankful, maryellen
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUb9MPhhDec&feature=share
This fits! Sour grapes and a broken leg. Hope someone kept the knife. Dope!
I’ve had a family member make threats at me and now I’ve taken them up on that threat. Now they and my mother are now worried because instead of fighting them or begging I’m just carrying on. Oh well, on to the next one. I’m only responsible for myself and my life and their problems are not mine. After all their talk about me being this and that and now the threat is just the last straw for myself. I’m not dealing with this Taurus sun who wants to be a verbal bully, they’re my opposite and I have better things to do with my time.
Thank you for your empathy with my loss. Best wishes for your wellbeing from Stockholm.
((((ulrika))))
(((Susan)))) (((Ulrika)))
As for me, What Shannon said applies to me too, almost to the letter. Trying to detach.
I knew it was going to be like this; but, people wanted to be cock-eyed optimists, I guess. Out here, in the NW..where we haven’t even had the heat wave..yet..I know, it’s upon us..but, what’s typical for this configuration is the thing that happened and on the news, just after the 4th; a divorce going on..woman asked the judge for custody of her kids and a restraining order for their dad..shades of that guy who blew him and his kids up during a court appt’d visit, with the social worker outside the door, remember..? Well, this woman didn’t get any protection and you know the rest..the guy went and blew the whole family away, and then, himself. In a picture perfect neighborhood, with what looked to be a modern-day photo-finish family..blown to smithereens. And it’s just begun. I have a family who thinks it’s hip to be like some feral cats..to show some sort of Alpha-Animal behavior; and I am not in their vacinity..and don’t want to be. The advise to hole up in our little caves, was right on..and turn the ringers off on the phones, too. The Monday DNS bug scare, is a good excuse to just leave the web and go sip some lemonade, with an escape novel, or fave hobby..with no sharp objects, or flammatory themes! Be..and, stay..Coool, doncha know..However it’s gotta be done..”Just do it”. Now, would be a super time to get into the Halo-sync meditations..with overcoming issues themes. That Mars vs Uranus thing..ain’t nothing to mess with! Big blow ups in the relationship area/s & with Pluto squaring them..in Cap..think, going postal. That gal who said she was feeling leary of shopping malls, etc..right on! And, road travel..gas and rage..don’t mix. (ex trucker, here) Murphey’s on the prowl..think ahead..& around the corner; but space junk happens, yet! Like the Scouts..be prepared..for anything. Neptune over in Pisces..floods..tears..emotional upheavals. Lotsa lemons, for that lemonade~Add lotsa ice! 
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The anger level in people is growing more intense. Driving is ‘white knuckle’ w/more aggression/speed and no caution. I still believe one’s personality shows w/how they handle a vehicle.