My son is hitting puberty and I won’t deny, it’s a challenge for me. I have never been around a boy at this age and stage, which is something I never realized before. I did have a younger brother but I left home when I was 15 years old so I missed this transition, never mind I’d have been having a transition of my own at the time.
There are a lot of things you have to learn at this age and one of them is this: your friends are never going to make you happy. It’s not possible for friends to make you happy, happiness has to be found inside yourself.
Watching my son grapple as he discovers this, it’s apparent to me there are people in their 30′s or 40′s or older, who still seek happiness via association. I hate seeing this but I admit it helps me cope with the strain of watching my son figure out how life works. I am big believer in paying your dues early, or at least on time as opposed to spending your life trying to catch up.
Mercury and Uranus are conjunct in Aries right now, conjunct my son’s descendent, Mercury and Jupiter. It’s seem a good time the lights go on in this realm so he see the big (and liberating) picture.
Where do you think happiness comes from?
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