“fill what’s empty, empty what’s full; scratch where it itches.” Dorothy Parker

My depositor is Venus..I can totally relate Satori! I feed my Venus all the time, but if I can’t I get nutrients from my Scorpio Sun and Neptune in Libra. I try to merge them because there is not aspect between them. I merge them by trying to connect to my spiritual side, meditate or write emotional releasing poetry.

WHOA! What a great concept. And haha, triple entendre for “bi-product”

My son has his Moon in the 7th house Virgo. He doesn’t handle being alone at all and has been with the same girlfriend since he was 14 years old.

nice post

My planets tend to be more commitment phobic (Venus/Uranus) but I can pine for years with very little “provocation”. In fact, like you said, the imaginary relationship with a real man can be delicious.

Great post for me! I have Libra in 7th….
Thanks Satori!

You just perfectly clarified something for me. Thank you. This is what I do, being single as long as I have been.

that is WONDERFUL to hear; thank you!

thanks, Flora, and welcome!

it’s wonderful when you realize you don’t have to rely on others to fill your happiness cup… you can fill it yourself! last week I was sad because I didn’t have a date. this week I found joy in the fact that the garbage truck came and emptied my overly full rubbish bin.

Excellent post! I can totally relate. I have Venus in Libra conjunct Pluto and NN on the IC. It feels dark sometimes, laden with shadow. I’ve noticed some of the low expression of Venus, the Pluto compulsion; however, when I finally saw the pattern I kept repeating I looked to my Venus for the way out. It’s the beauty and the light. And when I cultivate that expression of Venus, I don’t obsess.

I also appreciate how you went outside yourself, recognized the other. When it’s done right, in Libran fashion, recognition is a thing of beauty. Libra wants the other to feel good for the overall effect of harmony.

Satori, you are so funny (over-full garbage can!), and the wisdom of this piece shines. Thank you! It’s a really, really constructive approach to energy balance (chart-specific, that is). A few years ago when I had difficulty getting my affection and tenderness needs met, I also worked on re-directing my approach and it amazed me (and still does) at how the POINT is really about filling the need, and much less about how than I’d imagined.

I have Moon and Pluto in the 7th. It’s hard to endure when I don’t have a romantic partner. People tell me “Well you still have lots of friends” or “just have fun with friends” but I dismissed it out of my own misery. I needed this wake up call.

Thanks Satori,

I enjoyed this offering. I don’t have any planets in my natal 7th house, but currently have Pluto transiting. This seems to bring opportunities to partner for significant growth and then to surrender as these relationships end without my having any choice in the matter. As someone who deeply desires a romantic partner, its been difficult and takes years. On top of that I’m a projector in the Human Design system which means I have to wait to be invited by any woman with whom I’m to have a romantic relationship… Its all about patience. Thanks again for all that you do.

Love this!

Hi Satori,
I can’t tell you how much I relate to what you’re saying when you describe yourself in relation to your chart. You see, I’m a Pisces Sun too, with a Virgo Asc which gives a 7th hs Sun too.
On top I possess a Libra Moon exactly conj. to both Uranus and Jupiter, Jupiter leading the stellium. A bit further, but still conj. stands Pluto in Virgo. I just gave tyou a general idea.
The only difference I can see is that with my Saggitarius Mars in 3rd, I can get pissed easily-I do my best to control it, though- and can definitely defend myself at least verbally…

Iris

thanks, Amy!