Black Moon Lilith represents wild woman energy. It can be anything ranging from fun-freak-flag territory to full-on experience of the feminine as demonic. How you relate to this energy can vary widely along those lines, both by how it is aspected in your chart and what it kicks up by transit. For instance, women with Lilith aspecting Neptune may have dark or wild energy that operates in a stealthy or hidden manner, under the radar of others, or it may be that they are not conscious of their inner wild woman. They may also be mistaken for exhibiting this energy when they do not. By transit you get the same effect but only for the length of the transit.
A man with this aspect may find the women he’s interested in have a Lilith nature of this stripe. Alternately he may attract, on a subliminal level, Lilith-type attention from the women in his scope.
Natal Lilith by position and aspect shows how this energy asserts itself in your personality and in your life. Transiting Lilith moves through the zodiac challenging us to learn about this energy in myriad ways as it hits each house and aspects each planet.
How your natal Lilith is situated shows your general response to transiting Lilith energy. Oppositions and 7th house placement can predispose one to the possibility of projecting this energy when it is experienced: “It’s not me, it’s HER!”
Lilith just hit Taurus, right along with the Moon conjuncting Jupiter this week. People with early Scorpio likely saw some Lilith action, possibly from the other, or could it be projected onto the other?
Squares can be clashes. Trines tend to show up as recognizable challenges easily mastered or just a wild, fun time. Conjunctions to your natal Lilith are returns! It’s a chance to see how you’re doing within yourself in regard to this energy. It’s a chance to gain a new perspective and a new lease!
Got Lilith?
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Got a Gemini 7º50′ BML…
squares my 7º54′ Virgo rising… actually aspects all my house cuspids!!! (equal)
inconjunct my Uranus in Scorpio 3rd
trines my Pluto in Libra 2nd
I have BML conjunct Part of Fortune and Neptune, square Saturn; trine Chiron. I always thought maybe I should make my living as a pro-Domme cum ‘therapist’. hee, hee ; )
Damn, you made me look. Now I have a headache trying to figure out how to make this make sense!
Sextiles saturn,squares neptune, opposing uranus, creating a T square with the three, squaring ceres/sedna conjunction, trining mercury, inconjunct sun/pluto conjunction. Whew, that is one busy lady! Oh yeah, she’s in Capricorn.
In Aries, conjunct my 1st house Mars. I wanna bang the bitch!
Oh yeah, and all my Neptune/BML/PoF biz sextiles Pluto. Makes me wonder why I’m going to school, sometimes, when I could be Queen Bitch-with-a-whip instead; yes ?
In Leo in the 10th quincunx Chiron, semisextile Pluto and opposing Jupiter.
Transiting Lilith is conjunct natal Venus at 28 Aries, sextiling natal Lilith. Paying attention, thanks, Satori.
She’s almost conjunct my natal Lilith! Looking forward to being and feeling badass. 
Oh where do I start?
BML on my MC to the degree. Minus 7 miutes or seconds or whatever.
In natal chart, square my moon. Which plays into my sun/moon/mars t-square I guess… Loosely. And t. BML is squaring my sun and opposing my Mars.
Want to discuss my mood right now? No. I didn’t think so. I have better thighs than Ms. Stone.
Oh yes I have been watching this transit. My natal placements, BML one degree cappy, jupiter one degree virgo, a trine. This transit of jupiter conj BML completes a grand trine to my natal BML/jupiter trine. Houses 2,6,10. And yes I did fill out an app today and had a prelim interview.
The head administrator is an woman, she was unavailable today, due to being held over in a meeting r/t the budget being blown by holiday overtime, the receptionist snickered and under her breath said, plus she missed her lunch and she gets cranky when she doesn’t eat. Ears up, head cocked, do I smell a hungry taurean who hates spending money.
I have been practicing in my Sharon Stone voice, “This is what I have to offer and I know I can provide value to your company”
…and don’t wear panties for your interview, daisy. 
5th house; trine Ceres, opposite Juno, & loosely conjunct Jupiter. Oh, and at 29 Taurus, conjunct Algol! Yikes?
Currently coming up on a conjunction to my Taurus moon in 4th.
lol astroboy!! Somehow I don’t think it would have the desired effect =D
Thanks Satori
My BML is at 2 degrees 30′ Virgo within 18 minutes of my IC and conjunct natal Uranus 00 degrees 26 ‘ Virgo and opposing Chiron 1 degree 55′ Pisces.
I associate Pluto with Shiva energy and Lilth is without a doubt Kali. Should get very interesting when this Goddess moves into opposition of my Mercury, Venus, and Neptune stellum in Scorpio.
Thanks Satori love hearing about this wild woman.
BML in Scorpio squaring my AC and conj Neptune 
Looks like Juno is about to bump into her and tr. Lilith is getting ready to oppose natal Juno (at 8 Scorp) from my third house.
Lilith as an astro phenom is squarely in the realm of “things about which I know diddly-squat”.
By virtue of this interesting post, I go toddling off to check my chart–golly whillikers…There’s my natal BML at 1 deg Taurus and the transit is perched happily atop at 2 deg Taurus today, Jan4.
Not knowing how fast BML moves, but knowing perfectly well the date of recent “incidentes comme Griffin”, I dial back to check the transit for Dec31.
Bingo. That’s the day I was “an unnatural shedevil” (actual TAB quote, though he said it rather admiringly).
1) Went on a power-bitch cleaning spree via phone informing the crazy con-artist lady that she didn’t *know* from crazy and if her ass wasn’t down the road and out of town in two days? Well, it wasn’t like anyone’d come looking for the body now was it? (she’s gone. crazy isn’t stupid.)
2) Similarly took off the velvet glove and gave the arrogant, disrespectful SOB at work a public iron fist pounding culminating in offering to speeddial the CEO myself at home on New Years Eve so Mr. Butt-hurt could explain himself. This unknowingly won me favor with the new VP lady who was lurking on the call.
3) That night begrudgingly attending a party half asleep in my grubby jeans, no makeup/hair with a baby nestled in a corner chair, I caused an angry altercation. Apparently the drunk guy I was humoring in conversation was actually flirting with me? (?!) His woman lost her shit and it got ugly fast. At no point did I get that it had anything to do with tired, haggard, bored to tears little ol me…but I was informed by the hostess later that he was “making an ass of himself falling all over you”.
Holy Black Moon, Batman…I think I’ll make a point ot pay more attention to this Lilith phenomenon, eh?
She’s exactly conjunct my Cancer ascendant and opposes my moon. Does that mean I look like a bitch but don’t need to?! She doesn’t aspect anything else with the exception of trine my north node.
I’ve tried the whole domme thing, but found it didn’t scratch my itch. However, I have absolutely no problem becoming the queen bitch if I have to… on a dime. It feels totally natural.
I have BML rising in Cancer, conjunct Jupiter and Asc; she trines Uranus and trines/sextiles my MC/nodal axes.
I don’t pay much attention to Lillith. I’ve found very little information on her, so I can’t work with her yet. What I can say, though, is that the vast majority of the time I’m shoved into HBIC (head bitch in charge) role almost immediately when I walk into a room, whether I want it or not.
I’m having my BML return this week.
It’s out-of-sign conjunct my IC and N node & opp my sun. (Trine Jupiter/Mars)
…I used to think I married a man who wasn’t much like my dad but they both have Venus/BML conjunct, ha ha.
Hi Satori, which Lillith should I be looking at? One is avail to select at astro on thier chart extras list, the other has to be added as an astroid by number (1181) one is aries and one libra. Thanks
CP you made me laugh … Thank you!
Lunartic, that would be the one available for selection in chart extras, not the numbered asteroid.
This is a hoot. I have never looked up Lilith before. What a miskate that was. 8th house babybeeh. Nothing else in that house, thought it was empty. Man, talk about being wrong wrong wrong. Oh and a very loose conjunction to my MC in the next house and sign over. ROFL. Who knew!
Thanks so much! Its 6h aries cnjct the hubs nnode and mc. Sq to my merc on 9th and opp my libra mars in 12h. I will read up on her this evening! Thanks again.
I don’t tend to see Lilith as feminine energy alone, although it certain has a feminine archetype. Rather, I see it as energy in the person that goes to the “dark side” if one’s own shadows are not under some sort of check and balance.
If this is not the one in the list on astro.com that says Lilith (I did some reading and there are several relatives called Lilith), could someone please advise as to it’s number for adding it into my chart, please. Is it h13 or h21? TIA
#25 as I reread I found the answer. In my 7th in Taurus at 8 degrees opposite neptune and square my sun. Need to investigate.
I have lilith in leo on my MC… square pluto. I know this is kind of a scary placement, so I most definitely try to keep a careful watch on my ego so it doesn’t get out of hand. I’m a bit paranoid that I radiate arrogance even though in everyday, I tend to struggle with many self-esteem issues. Pluto doesn’t let me get away with much as far as BML goes.
I found my relationships with others got easier once I started to fully own up to and acknowledge my ”stuff”…
BML at 29′ Virgo, Libra at 2′ rising.
It doesn’t always show, but when it does, it’s obvious.
“Oppositions and 7th house placement can predispose one to the possibility of projecting this energy when it is experienced”
BML is alone in my 7th house of Cancer. Exactly trine my NN in Pisces. Sextile my SN and Sun/Pluto. I’ve never really investigated BML, but can say I definitely have a “wild woman” side, at times!
I have BML in Scorpio along with Jack Nicholson and Stanley Kubrick. Morbid fascination with sex, some say – certainly a great need for it …
And since it’s in H3 I only communicate fully with men with whom I’ve shared great sex, or at least a sexual rapport even if not physical. I feel something for them, even those who proved to be shits, that I don’t feel for any other people in my life
My BML is conjunct the MC and SN in Capricorn square my sun/merc/venus.I think that means I’d be a great dominatrix lol
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It’s not HER, it’s ME.