No, I can’t say as I have. But, in anger, I’ve done many things to the people I care about that I have lived to regret. I could shoot someone in a fit of rage too. I’d tell her not to let his behavior be an excuse for hers. Not saying she doesn’t have a right to be mad because maybe she does. But, how she deals with that anger is her decision. She can pop off and make it worse or meet his desire to make things better and control herself.

“You want to partner…”

It takes two to tango & to do that, you have to meet someone half way, whether you are happy or sad or… furious.

No, I have never dumped someone without hearing them out. Even if I don’t like what I hear & they are smoke, through talking I am clear & have no questions hanging round to haunt me down the track…

… it’s the only way to go: communicate

Haha! I wish I could see this video, but I’ll have to wait until I get home.

I can totally relate to the sentiments you expressed about swinging axes. Thanks for the Saturn in Libra PSA.

Yes….and now he’s married with 3 kids. He got engaged to someone else within months, and boy do I regret it. He never betrayed me. It started with me getting my feelings hurt, and not wanting him to see me cry, so I go into another room. He leaves, and boy—do I flip out. I never opened up to him about what happened. I don’t even think he ever saw me cry. Just stay mad. (and I was never mad when I left the room, just crying). I can’t imagine what it was like for him…not knowing what happened, and then getting yelled at. He did *not* want to talk to me in that state. He was calm, I was not. It should have been something that could have been worked through easily, I was just too bottled up, to open up, then, I blew up.

…and then I was mad at him, for getting mad at me. Ugh…..and then I held a grudge. I think all my stubborness, kept me from opening up. For some reason, I thought if he knew what my feelings were for him, that I’d scare him off. (?) This was the early stages of the relationship.
To be young, and scared of love, is just….stupid. I regret how I handled that. I was falling in love, and for all I know, he was too.

no, but some may say i have a tendency to beat a dead horse…so thats no good either..

Anger is a sign from your psyche that something unfair is happening to you or someone/thing you care about. Most of us in the US are brought up to ignore or suppress negative emotions. If it’s causing you pain, it needs to be addressed. Thing is, half the time it has nothing to do with your partner; it’s something that happened when you were a kid. Everybody these days needs a good energy therapist!