Eff no!!!

Oh God – I did do this the last disastrous time. It was my second marriage. This guy was on me like glue, doing all kinds of things for me. I knew he was just trying to impress me, so I wasn’t impressed. I even was planning on dumping him because I knew he wasn’t for me.

My grandmother was telling me I should marry him already, and I thought that maybe she saw something I was missing.

Then he knocked me up – on purpose (his admission). So, I married him.

Now, my mother is trying to “plant seeds” of me being interested in some mechanic that’s in our neighborhood. She is the last person I’d ever take relationship advice from. I deflect her comments every time, so she can eat her own “seeds.”

Sometimes, I wish someone had said something. Some people DID say something and I did not listen. Wish I had listened to their warnings. I made my mistakes and have learned from them, and am currently hoping to be able to get out of them!

If I had let others choose my partner, I’d be alone right now instead of happily married.
I am sure that some need help with this but some of us (with Libra) have to learn to stand up for ourselves…and for our tastes.

I’m a Libra rising and I use to… ‘They like you’ and all the persuasions under the sun. BIG MISTAKE! Now I don’t tell anyone anything, people know about the person when it becomes ‘offical’. I make my own lessons in that not others. If I listened to my so-called friends words of ‘they love you’ I would still be with an abusive ex. Nah mate… On to the next.

“Are you happy? If so, screw those people. Don’t let people outside yourself dictate who you are and what you like and don’t like.”

Amen..

I chose for myself, for once, and am wonderfully happy

I choose them.

@BurnedBridge I’m exactly the same!High five!!!