Saturn in Libra – Balancing Your Social Network(s)
Astrology in real life.
I strongly favor twitter over facebook and Google + but I’ve noticed that I really have to keep an eye on my feed. There have been weeks where it’s been blissful for me on twitter. I have just right mix of this and that to keep things interesting and then, WHAM! I add someone(s) and all the sudden, my twitter looks like, Spam Central or Preachy Central or Obsessive Central.
This happened to me a few weeks ago and I’d give anything to have a RESTORE button. I have not been able to get my twitter back to where I really enjoyed it and I only have myself to blame.
Since, I’ve been really aware these social networks play a big part in our lives. I don’t want to go to twitter and be irritated. I don’t want to go to Facebook and be irritated. I don’t want to go to google + and be irritated either. Reading this stuff impacts my day so I am hell-bent on getting a good mix going on Twitter and sticking with it.
Do you maintain control (Saturn) of your social (Libra) networks?

27 Responses to “Saturn in Libra – Balancing Your Social Network(s)”
FB changes rules too much – I have no idea how to use it anymore and lost interest in investing. I sign on once a week to accept friends or sometimes clients want me to look at people on it (their dates) or I may visit specific people – RL friends)
My feed on twitter is not a popularity thing. It is not personal. It’s there so people can track this blog via twitter if they like.
My Google + is 80% spam so I never go there.
For me… twitter is what I really, really enjoyed but I have come to realize you can really mess things up and impact your mood with this stuff so I am going to get a good situation and just stick.
I know about lists but I don’t follow people so they will follow me. There is just a demand for a feed to this blog so it exists.
I just wonder how other people do this.
I use Facebook the most since majority of my friends use it especially for college. A lot of my friends create personal and private study groups via the facebook group option which I love because we can share notes or our music compositions. I do realise that facebook changes and updates alot but I’ve got the knack of controlling this with friend lists and the hide function. I dont use any other networks it except for soundcloud ( a music network) which is quite simple. I think its good to have one social network and learn to use it really well whatever it might be at least for social reasons. Everything in moderation. Then again I have Libra
I happily ignore them all. I don’t want to spend that much time constantly changing my privacy settings and setting what people see what and all that drama. God.
huh. no spam on G+ but i’m not trying to use it as a business contact port, either.
i have G+ and facebook mostly under control. twitter overwhelms me. the people i want to read just post too much (news folk.)
That feeling of irritation…I’m familiar with it. The last thing I need after a long day at work is a bunch of pushy I-dare-you-to-repost-this crap, or someone sharing where they are every five minutes. The Hide option is a godsend.
Just killed my FB for this very reason. I’m on twitter but only active there during political elections – it’s linked to journalists and other political types, no friends really.
Despite the world push for everyone to adopt social media, I’ve realized it is not for me. It’s too hectic, too stressful, too much of everything and everyone. It bombards my life, affects my day, mood, pace and everything else. So I took back control.
If people want me, they can email me. Despite having a business to run, I just refuse to use the social media crap. Only true friends and family are on my google+ – absolutely no one else. Life is slowly starting to feel better. And it’s not affecting business adversely by not participating. The whole thing (social media) seems a scam now.
I usually stop following anyone on twitter who over-tweets and fills up my screen with their obsessive tweeting. I don’t understand how to use the lists on there effectively, so I just keep the one feed and unfollow over-sharers. I also hide people on FB (I found this pretty easy to do – just click the little x on their latest post and choose whether to hide just that post or hide all posts from this person – voila!).
Elsa,
of course you are feeling very ‘excited’/ good with/about Twitter!!!
It is very involved, very militant, with ‘a voice’. A very ‘uranian’ one.
Twitter was launched during that conjunction between Jupiter and Uranus, isn’t it? Something like this if I remember well. And you Elsa have a natal conjunction between Jupiter and Uranus, isn’t it?
Facebook belongs to Neptune= lies, big lies, fake images about ‘yourself’, too much cheap PR, piiiics…and just pics, again. Very Neptune!!!
Twitter is the militant Aries with an involved opinion. An Uranus-ian one. Twitter has already a voice. Facebook…very soon….with that Saturn through ‘profoooound’ Scorpio….will loose it. More and more. Day after day.
And Twitter will have a long enough life. At least until 2018.
With Neptune through Pisces starting with February….will be…just an album full of holidays pics.
P.S: it was indeed ‘a creation of a masterpiece’ last week, indeed, Elsa!
There are literally two people on facebook that I interact with the most. (out of 42). I’ve got family in other areas, very spread out, so pictures are really nice to see.
I friend accepted a friend of my Aunt’s and OMG! He was a bit wierd, he got blocked by my aunt and cousin (not the first time), and wanted ME to repost something of his on MY wall, so they could see it. Ummmmm, sorry dude, not interested in your passive aggressive stuff. It was nothing inappropriate, he just wanted access to them. So, I unfriended him. They have both done the same.
Facebook is suppose to be fun. Post pictures, etc. Sometimes it’s political. I’ll repost something if it makes me laugh. I don’t like to be “guilted” into it.
Yeah, Facebook changes it’s rules too much. I prefer to message people. It’s my kind of twitter. haha. longer, and more private.
OH! SOME people are just in it for the #’s. I’ve got friend requests from people I hardly knew in highschool. If I never knew you, or had a CONVERSTION with you, go “friend” request someone else.
Other than that, facebook is fun. Even though facebook is pissing me off right now. (I don’t like changes).
I keep them all for professional reasons, but enjoy Twitter the most. I think I’d like Google+ more if more people I am connected to were actively using it, I like the interface and control over sharing better. Was a little disappointed to see them introduce games, though, as it looks like a FB-wannabe. I’m constantly deleting the game feeds and invitations. How the Hell do people have time for that junk?
Facebook, I will check, as I have people who contact me that way and maintain some connections to people I’d otherwise not. But it’s kind of hard, to read people posting about what an idiot/mean/selfish person I am (based on beliefs andpolitics), and then have the same people turn around and ask me for free web advice or something. Kind of like getting kicked in the gut repeatedly and then asked for money. It’s impacted my emotional investment.
I love Twitter and prefer it over FB. I have to periodically go through my list of people who “follow” me and block them as some of the accounts are spam accounts. The majority of Twitter accounts that are in my feed, however, are legit and bring me oodles of joy.
I use FB to keep in touch with friends and family but have had to “hide” certain people because of particular posts. I have never tried Google + so cannot offer an opinion.
Couple of my siblings (back home) have tried to get me on all three…. *Bleh* so far I have resisted.
I have learned via “school of hard knocks” to severely limit how much I get involved in something.
I prefer to limit my sociInternetrnet) activities to this Blog / Board. I get enough info / interaction here to satisfy my cravings.
Facebook = Neptune
That makes sense, actually. I’m pretty sure I joined during a Neptune transit…and sometimes I regret it. It’s VERY easy to get sucked in and overshare, or let people in your life who are bad for you. I’m amazed sometimes at how open people are sharing their personal info on there, too. They will post their address, their phone number, their place of employment IN THEIR NEWS FEED!!! That’s a great way to get your identity stolen or for your boss to figure out you’re griping about them and fire you!! Or for some lunatic ex to hunt you down and show up at your door.
So timely. Yes, I’ve been on a hide/block spree on Facebook. I’m so bored/annoyed with people who post nothing but those “chain stautses.” Also, there’s one particular distant friend on my list that I watch make the same relationship mistakes over and over, it’s maddening to the point that I’ve almost blocked her. Just before I hopped over to EE, I saw she posted she got a new job … I was like yay, finally something I can support!
I have benefitted from my media colleague connections on FB which I keep going ith a mix of astro updates and some easygoing personal stuff, but nothing that scratches below the surface of my privacy. Facebook has brought me some lovely cyber friends and some excellent reconnections, too, plus it’s also brought me writing work, but I see too the absurdity of the masquerades some folk resort to and have no time for that. I am what I am, and although I don’t share anything too deep,what I show is absolutely genuine, including my profile pic. I have rules for accepting even though it’s a public site, and boundaries that so far I have managed to maintain. My FB is http://www.facebook.com/lynneewart1 for anyone who wants to see my transparency. Twitter is very popular, and I can see the merits, but I don’t yet do that, and yes it would really put me off on either if the people I am socially networking with were driving me nuts.
I only barely like Twitter. It’s easy for me to control because it’s not my real name, and I have no qualms about unfollowing anybody! LOL
Facebook I like much better. I have no problem hiding people that get on my nerves from my newsfeed.
I have some outrageously funny fb friends, as well as some deeply thoughtful ones. it remains worth it. I don’t understand google+ or twitter very well but I’m working on it. if by working on it you accept the meaning of “logging on occasionally and scratching my head, usually when I’ve been drinking.”
Yes, I have full control of my social networks by not being part of any of them.
My Saturn is in 12th so I’m hiding from almost everyone and live in my own world.
Heh “logging on occasionally and scratching my head, usually when I’ve been drinking.” That’s great, Satori!
I enjoy my FB friends – it’s like a water cooler. It is public, though (ie, my full name is there, I’m connected to coworkers, etc) so I have to keep it clean!
Twitter I use for haiku and other short poems (following and writing), so it’s a creative outlet. Plus I follow some people who link to larger pieces, including astrologers’ blogs. And a couple of snarky jokesters.
I really enjoy facebook, although I never expected to. I refuse to add people as friends unless I know them in real life to some extent (with a very very few exceptions) and if somebody only posts garbage, poof, gone. It’s reconnected me with people from my exchange year that I otherwise probably wouldn’t talk to at all, and makes event co-ordination fairly painless.
Twitter… meh. Maybe if I knew how to use it more effectively I’d be more into it, but not real motivated to learn.
You’re asking the wrong person here. I finally agreed, kicking and screaming, to join Facebook last year. Although it did allow me to re-establish two relationships, I find myself just looking at people’s pics (see who they married and such). I only stay on it because my daughter has an account.
The people that post every day seem a bit pathetic to me. It’s like this call for attention or validation. I don’t want the few people on my very small “friend” list to know what I’m doing every day.
I refuse to even go to Twitter. I have never sent a text in my life, and only use my cell phone for necessary calls when I’m out of the house.
I’m already way too tethered to this laptop as it is.
I’m just not on that stuff. Facebook makes me intensely paranoid. I don’t want to cruised or stalked or “found.” I’ve got shit to do. I don’t have a beta for Google+.
I’ve used Twitter for different web projects. When the project is over, the feed is gone.
I haven’t been a fulltime freelancer for a couple years now, but now that I’m working I can not imagine where I would get the time for one more app.
Les said “It’s like a water cooler” – that’s exactly what it’s like for me. I chuckled when I read that..
FB started out as a personal thing. Today, business colleagues dominate it, by far. I rarely post. I travel a lot for work and our nomadic group uses it to see who’s where and if we are in the same city, we get together. Check in feature is probably the most useful thing in my network of work friends and that’s IF I remember to “Check In”
It’s too much to keep up. I don’t Tweet and I still have an invite to Google+ sitting in my inbox.
Twitter is too busy a lot of the time. Hashtags, @s, slashes, sentences fragments, overposts, spam feeds… It’s all really frazzling for me. Twitter requires that you be vigilant of who you follow and why because the communication is so concentrated. On Twitter, someone you don’t know who posts 80 times a day creates a new level of annoyance. It’s also overly commercialized; seems to me news sources quote Twitter more than any other legitimate source. I like that Kathy Griffin calls is Twatting. However, it is like a straight shot to the veins of Internet and that is a whole lot of fun.
The Facebook mode is more letting the site decide what you should see, what you need to see, who is important. It’s more intuitive, creepily and invasively so sometimes. They couldn’t get their privacy shit in line, it’s really overexposed like MySpace and I think a lot of people will switch to Twitter soon (esp. people in rural areas where Twitter hasn’t really caught on). Facebook is so over it’s like Lady Gaga in drag, you just look at it like “Really?”
If I weren’t so addicted to having a built-in audience I would give up on the whole damn social media thing. That is basically impossible at this point in history though so we’ll see! It’s a very interesting tie to be alive that’s for sure.
I only use Facebook and it’s a lifeline for me, since I’m pretty isolated where I live. It keeps me in touch will lots of people from various phases of my past which I enjoy very much. It’s also a great way for the scattered horse-racing scene to keep in touch with what’s going on, exchange news and views etc.
I’ve never had any urge to join Twitter. There always seems to be something a bit narcissistic about it! I only use FB on my laptop anyway, never from a phone… And I spend quite enough time on FB and here and in a couple of other places – enough is enough!
PS I can’t see the logic of this: “I don’t want to spend that much time constantly changing my privacy settings and setting what people see what and all that drama”
I set my privacy settings very tight when I joined and every few months I check that is all still tight. I have everything set to ‘Friends only’ and keep my list of friends pretty lean, though it’s crept up to c165 now which is more than enough.
I do have a few people I don’t know irl on there (inc four from here! tho mostly people in racing) but if anyone starts to bug me they go straight on ‘hide’ and sometimes get deleted altogether. That esp includes people who post a lot of political stuff (more so if I disagree with their politics!)
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