Voraciously Demanding Virgos Who Play “Little Maiden”

July 24th, 2011 @ 12:05 pm by Elsa

Astrology in real life.

“…You don’t want anyone stupid – you’re a Virgo!  But to find the right partner, you will have to let go the “little maiden” thing because you are far more complicated. Part of you is voraciously demanding for example, though this is not something you would put in your press kit, lol! :)

My point here is that by accessing your own intensity, you will increase your ability to attract someone who has what you need where denying same will leave you standing around looking confused…”


I wrote this is for a Virgo with a Venus Pluto conjunction in Libra. I wrote it this way, purposely to get her back up so as not to waste her time and money. No Virgo wants to appear confused!]

In whatever case, I know this gal has lots of company.

Virgos who play “little maiden” please sound off!


Astrology, , , 16 comments   |   Posted at 12:05 pm 

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16 Responses to “Voraciously Demanding Virgos Who Play “Little Maiden””

1.
pepe
pepe

No responses… We Virgos are so under appreciated… Do I play the virginal maiden? Having pisces rising doesn’t help… I feel that if I was my true impossible self, I’d scare my partner away and send him packing so I chew at my anger sometimes and just hold back my tongue and paranoia… In the name of peace…

I’m scared to be my full complete intense neurotic jealous self… Meh, it is what it is…

-Pepe

 
2.
Elsa
Elsa

I agree that Virgos are underrated and have gone on camera to say so
http://www.elsaelsa.com/astrology/2010/09/19/virgo-man-woman-qualities/

This post was not at all intended to insult Virgos. It was meant to empower them and I apologize if it came across otherwise.

::sneaks out::

 
3.
pepe
pepe

Haha it didn’t sound like that though, Elsa :) !

I read more as an encouragement to be ourselves without holding back and words of empowerment are always welcomed….

Thanks!

 
4.
Elsa
Elsa

This is a Virgo with a Venus Pluto conjunction in Libra. There are a lot of Virgos of this generation who would have the same configuration and I thought this might help them.

If you want to partner and you have Venus Pluto, you are going to have to come off the maiden thing and start thinking in terms of Persephone.

 
5.
maureen
maureen

I’m not Virgo, but I’ve got me some Libra and Pluto. Why serve tea and biscuits, when you’re really all about the filet mignon?

 
6.
Morgan
Morgan

I don’t think I’ve ever played little maiden. Any boyfriend I’v ever had knows I LOVE sex!!! Maybe little maiden outside the bedroom, sex addict inside the bedroom. haha. You’d never know it to meet me. I’d freak your freak. lol. :) I think this is why it’s so shocking when a virgo (Hugh Grant, Anthony Weiner, etc., etc.) comes out with the naughty for all to see. I think we are all closet sex freaks!! haha. I’d love to take some nude pics, and send them to a boyfriend, but ohhhhhh, if anyone FOUND OUT!! I don’t do it, but yeah, it will always be HIDDEN, and I like it that way. SEXY!!!!

 
8.
VirgoLeoRising
VirgoLeoRising

It’s weird, I really don’t think of myself as a Virgo. I have Leo rising, and Venus in Leo…I hate to clean but, I get depressed when the house is messy or not clean. Most people think I am a Leo. I have great hair. lol

I guess I am a “maiden” to the outside world, and I do have an aggressive side, which I try not to show too often. Mars in Sagitarius.

 
9.
Elsa
Elsa

Welcome, VirgoLeoRising . :)

 
10.
VirgoLeoRising
VirgoLeoRising

Thanks Elsa, I have been lurking for quite a while, and I don’t know much about astrology, but I like to learn. Also, being a Virgo, I had to comment… :)

 
11.
Teresina
Teresina

Not a Virgo, but I have Venus in Virgo in exact aspect to Pluto and definitely do the “little maiden” thing. I can’t talk about sex with other people without blushing! Definitely happier letting that lion out of a cage in a relationship.

 
12.
egiyablu
egiyablu

I’ve known Virgo men like this. ha!

 
13.
Eixziander
Eixziander

Thanks, Elsa. Venus/Pluto and three other friends, including Saturn, in Libra. It has been a very educational year. A pisces recently hit me with the same observation, but less constructively so. Can you please expound on the Persephone theme?

 
14.
dorchid
dorchid

Thanks Elsa for all these Virgo posts.

I’m Virgo and even not counting my Scorpio Rising, I relate to “little maiden” syndrome, and only this past year have seen how it’s held me back in relationships.

I need someone as intense, curious, and cerebral as me. Period. If I don’t have that kind of affinity, I get terribly lonely, confused, and critical, and am a real misery to be around. But my way of courting guys has always been to tone down that aspect of me because I don’t want to scare them away. But as time goes on I get bored and frustrated and put pressure on the guy to get up to speed, which it never happens.

 
15.
beth
beth

I do. It’s disgusting, but it seems to happen unconsciously and I’m not sure how to stop. I’m aware that I’m *not* innocent, but sometimes I find myself thinking of myself that way.

Part of it is the fact I’m not terribly comfortable with passion. It seems kinda cheesy to me, and I’ve observed it wrecking things for people. I’d rather be cool and observe, but I’m not cool. I’m horribly sentimental (Libra) and passionate.

(I’m a Virgo with Venus-Pluto in Libra btw.)

 
16.
blessedwhitney
blessedwhitney

Funny — my husband used to live in England and we nicknamed me Persephone, waiting for him to come back home. :)

Though I think that playing “little maiden” at the express of revealing ourselves to others to be detrimental, I think it’s important to remember that even into the relationship, we might want to be treated like a little maiden.

In public, I refuse to participate in lude conversations and I blush when any sort of topic like that comes up. My husband (bless him) plays along with my game and helps move the conversation to something else or walks away with me.

 


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