Third House Venus Dilettante Love Story by Nota
Hopefully Coherent Ramblings
I mentioned in my last post that a few years back I went through a mystic Judaism phase. The more I thought about it, the more my mind drifted back to Aaron, the man who inadvertently sparked my interest in such a field of study.
A little astrological background first… I have Venus in the Third House (among other things.) I have this tendency to court knowledge sets. I find myself fascinated with a man when he knows something I don’t know. I express my love by devouring the subject so that we may have more to converse about. On the other side of that coin, I can quickly loose interest once my curiosity is sated, i.e. I get interested in something else.
I was working in a coffee shop in east Dallas. This was the in between period where I had just come back from China, before I decided to go back to school. I was living in a minuscule garage apartment in the Little Forrest Hills neighborhood and I rode my bike everywhere. I thought I was an artist.
Aaron was a semi-regular, Americano, no room. An actual Artist. He was a photographer/ found object sculptor by day, surgical assistant by night. Total Scorpio.
He came in one day in a fit manically flipping through a copy of D magazine. “I can’t find my friend!” He said that a friend of his was supposed to have been mentioned in an article, but he wasn’t sure which one or why. All he had was this little sliver of information and he wanted it confirmed.
“What’s your friend’s name?” I snatched the magazine and started scanning the pages. Somewhere in the middle, there he was. “So-and-So says ‘We go to Monica’s for the salsa.” or something trivial like that. I don’t remember exactly.
“You can help me!” He shrieked as though he had found some mythical figure in accordance with the prophesy of a fantasy adventure. Aaron had a dramatic personality. His Leo moon did nothing to tone down his Scorpio intensity. “I need you. When can you start?”
“What are you talking about? I have a job.” I gestured at the whole of the coffee shop.
“I’m trying to get my life in order. I had this other girl helping me, but she was useless. She wanted me to use these…” he turned his hands upward and made creepy crawly fingers like the legs of a marooned cock roach upside down on a floor. “…these paper clips! You don’t understand, they were horrible!”
Aaron had a habit of asserting that you, the listener did not understand.
“What exactly is it that you want me to do?”
“Look, I’ll give you money. Just come over. I have these files. They are my life! I need to get them in some kind of order so I can die!”
Aaron was so enigmatic to me that I agreed to take a stab at his “files” out of sheer wonder. What might they contain? What secrets could I learn from this clear master of personhood?
He scribbled his number on a slip of receipt paper and told me to call him when I got off.
Come back tomorrow and I’ll tell you what I found. In the mean time… Let’s discuss…
What’s in your Third House? How do you acquire knowledge?
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26 Responses to “Third House Venus Dilettante Love Story by Nota”
Merc in Aries. NEED INPUT.
I collect knowledge like bees gather pollen. It comes from everywhere and goes through some mystical process and then one day, honey!
I have an empty third house but I make up for it with Gemini and Virgo planets.
NN 3rd house… I learn from gathering info and communicating that info to others. I have a really hard time with others taking me seriously.
ROFL Elsa that’s really funny (tho not for you I guess)
I have only Black Moon Lilith in my 3rd House, in the 2/3 which is in Scorpio; the rest is in Sag.
I gain knowledge partly through my Cap Mercury and Gem MC/Uranus – but I also gain a great deal through my ‘female intuition’ and all that that implies
Scorpio is my H3 cusp and Neptune is there, 28 degrees.
How I acquire knowledge… I don’t know how to answer this question.
I like formal classes, books, people… I learn by doing, by using my hands for some things. I also have a great memory.
Venus in Sag. I roam, gathering knowledge as I go. Total learning junkie, it’s the apex of a major T square, involving Pluto, Uranus, Jupiter and Chiron. I learn from everything, everywhere, everyhow.
Nothing in the 3rd – ruled by Jupiter which is conjunct Uranus in Cancer 10th with moon in Taurus 8th. Plus Mercury everywhere. Take in knowledge 24/7 all/any sources, rational and intuitive. See patterns/connections in everything – Pallas cj Mercury in Libra so back to moon via Venus in second. Moon op Venus senses what really going on. Jupiter 10th Cancer good for seeing money opportunities (I guess opportunistically with Uranus.)
Empty, ruled by Virgo. I like big, old, boring textbooks from the darkest corner of the library. I learn a lot by reading, but I seem to remember things better when I hear them, otherwise I constantly refer back to written things. I also like conversing with others (Gemini moon 7H) because I can figure things out on my own, and really get down to the details I want to know.
moon in libra. we have a pleasant conversation about it and ill remember forever. what you were wearing, what you said, what i said, what i thought, what i thought you were thinking, etc.
Uranus-ruled empty 3rd House. Uranus is conjunct my Midheaven (11th House). I’m very happily and luckily a freak magnet and am inspired by just about everybody.
Mars conjunct Moon in Scorp in 3rd. If I have never come across a concept and it ‘gets’ me I shall hone in and go to the heart of it until I know and understand it. I have had many male ‘teachers’ in my life…like a homeopath who lived in a remote place. I would go to visit with a bottle of brandy and a 2litre coke – his thing – and we would sit for however long it took – 2 days and nights perhaps…without break.
Venus/Pluto/Uranus tightly conjuct in my 3rd. In Virgo. I get my knowledge everywhere. People, internet, books, psychic messages, cans of soup on grocery store shelves, my pets, Shakespeare, tea leaves, derelicts on the street, clouds, crows . . . but mostly people.
I have a bad habit of falling in love with men with whom I share intellectual/creative projects, especially if they know more than I do. Teach me something good and I’m yours forever.
thanks for the tip nota. i was feeling a little down on account of having an empty third house (barring a few asteroids).
i have pisces on the third house cusp – jupiter ruled? – jupiter’s on the cusp of my 7th/8th house conjunct mercury. i’ve spent a lot of time acquiring knowledge formally (classes, books, etc.) i do research for a living (guess that’s the 8th house influence). but i’ve also learned some pretty darn important things through other people. sometimes i have a way of really getting into it with people.
Neptune in the third, ruled by Saturn.
I immerse myself in knowledge, but a long time will pass before any of it makes sense to me. I have to learn the subject I wanna take in college, BEFORE I take the subject. I have to take breaks and learn my next subjects my way, and then take them formally. Go fig.
“Look, I’ll give you money. Just come over. I have these files. They are my life! I need to get them in some kind of order so I can die!”
::dies laughing indeed::
Uranus and Pluto in third.
Sometimes I can be obsessive when I’m learning a new thing. I forget to eat or even get away from the computer to shower…like a mad scientist or something only face it, I’m no Madame Curie..
I have wonderful flashes of intuition or “knowing”.
I feel. I can be so bowled over with a person’s emotions that I don’t hear their words. It’s a tough battle for a solar Cap.
Cancer on cusp of third house. Uranus in 3rd house Cancer. Ruler of Cancer, the moon, also in Cancer. Moon is 3rd house in equal house, 4th house most other systems. IC in 3rd house in equal house chart.
Saturn rules my 3rd, which is empty, and sits in the 9th. I can relate to sunlover117 and wildrose.
Saturn in 3rd: I work for it and receive it, gift-like, from elders.
Uranus Mercury conjunct Sun in 9th voracious hunger for knowledge, Fascinated by other cultures etc. Fascinated by learning Flashes of intuitive insights
Chiron in Aquarius 3rd…think a bit differently than others my ideas are sometimes too out of the box/esoteric (like astrology!!)
Chiron 3rd dont feel heard…. issues around expression…. guilty for talking too much ( venus in gemini)
chiron in 3rd opp uranus in 9th…???
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