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Astrology-Based Advice: Should I Have An Affair? Sagittarius Man, Scorpio Moon

August 17th, 2010 @ 10:45 am by Elsa

Hi Elsa,

I’ve been married to a Taurus for a dozen years now, and we have an 8-year-old boy together. We have a good marriage despite the constant arguments and differences.

Recently, I met a Sagittarius who’s charmed me out of my wits. The attraction is mutual, and I’ve become thoroughly enchanted even though I know ours is a hopeless relationship. He is married with 2 kids. He says he is not going to upset his situation.

I tell myself that I can control this relationship and it will enrich my life without hurting anybody. Am I kidding myself?

Curious,
Roving Eye

death of the bride Dear Roving,

You are definitely kidding yourself. I would caution you to believe what he’s telling you. He’s not going to upset his situation. If you want to go a round with him, I imagine you can. Personally, I believe he’s seducing you.

And you? Well, you’re a good girl, but sort of a Persephone figure. Hades takes her down, but she’s not entirely unhappy about this. So this is where you’re at. You’re part of a myth and I don’t know what you’re going to do but I hope you hear him loud and clear: HE IS NOT GOING TO UPSET HIS SITUATION.

For the record, if it were me, I would tell him to get his sexual energy off me, right before I punched his lights out. Because that’s what he’s doing. He’s got copious amounts of Scorpio underneath that Sadge grin and he’s workin’ you.

Good luck.

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pictured – Death of the Bride, 1895, oil on canvas, Thomas Cooper Gotch, (b.1854-d.1931)

Astrology, Cheating, General, Marriage 5 comments | Posted at 10:45 am

5 Responses to “Astrology-Based Advice: Should I Have An Affair? Sagittarius Man, Scorpio Moon”

Dorothy

“Without hurting anybody”?

Extra-marital affairs hurt everyone – all the innocent bystanders – and most especially when kids are involved.

Of course, just my opinion.

8/17/10 @ 1:40 pm (reply)

cj228

Roving Eye said: I tell myself that I can control this relationship

IMO, doesn’t seem possible. People and situations are unpredictable. Operating through deception tends toward trouble.

Roving Eye said: and it will enrich my life without hurting anybody.

also doesn’t seem possible. Can you enrich your life with something else?

Roving Eye said: Am I kidding myself?

I would say yes, why mess up your marriage for some chemistry? Plus, you told us yourself: he doesn’t want to upset up his situation. I say listen to him.

Good luck!

8/17/10 @ 5:37 pm (reply)

grrr

I’m with Elsa here. Red flag! no go!

The libidinal energies that have been aroused within you are yours…they belong to you not to the sag/scorp, who is a mere trigger.

Why not use this fire with your marriage partner, as you did in the past, right? I say this because keeping long term relationships fresh is not a given, so I’d turn this into an opportunity to enrich your existing partnership : )

8/17/10 @ 9:53 pm (reply)

Mari

Hmm, I was married for some years and then got my pants charmed off by a Sag, no kids or other wife involved TG. Well there were red flags from the start, including the ominous “We should have a talk”.

Now in retrospect, and even somewhat then, I realized that his short lived role in my life was to help me extricate myself from a marriage that was over, but needed a little impetus to finalize.

Good luck!

8/17/10 @ 9:54 pm (reply)

Maelle

I agree with Mari!
And be extra careful when lust is involved: sometimes there’s some elements of danger attached to it. You just don’t see it now. And you might regret in the future. Take this advise from a Scorpio…Good luck.

8/18/10 @ 10:15 am (reply)