Scorpio Dealing With Scorpio… And Saturn in Virgo
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I’ve worked intensely with a Scorpio dealing with her relationship with a Scorpio throughout this full moon. The gal has Capricorn so she must mind Saturn which is now on it’s way back into Virgo. I am beginning to look forward to this transit namely because I see evidence all over the place, people could really use some further instruction ’round their communications etc. and I include myself in this group.
There are people who go on and on not realizing people quit listening long ago. This is a trap I fall in all the time and I hate the idea of being ineffective so will embrace this time to brush up and learn to become more concise and sensitive and respectful of another person’s attention span and brain space in general but back on the two Scorps…
When you communicate, you communicate and when you communicate with Scorpio, they can see you naked so it’s best to keep this in mind. Your agenda will be apparent to them in most cases so the word from Saturn in Virgo is to keep your communications, CLEAN.
In the case of Scorpio this means if you can’t go naked, don’t go at all because they will see you.
Who can relate?
27 Responses to “Scorpio Dealing With Scorpio… And Saturn in Virgo”
Err.. Yes
I don’t think Scorpio is judgmental. I just think it’s foolish to try to mask your intention when dealing with one. Not that everyone can unearth their every motivation. Just be aware that they will know what you are up to (in most cases) even if you do not…. which is a very strong motivation to understand your own drives.
my ex boyfriend is a scorpio and even when we are not talking, i feel naked everytime im with him. well… i dont really care if i wat say or do, doesnt please him at all.
Eva, I’ve had the same experience with Scorpio… They like to *think* they have me figured out, but usually they’re so off the mark it’s laughable. And that pisses me off, because if you’re going to try to delve into my psyche without an invitation, at least get the damn thing right. I just wonder why everyone makes such a big deal about them. To me, they’re just people with no more power than anyone else.
Elsa, I never tire from you going on and on…I find your writing the most interesting thing I’ve ever read in my life. Just wanted to say that, but as for the question…yes,really no sense in playing games with Scorp. Relationships with Scorpio work best for me in purely friendship field..where I can be myself. I can’t seem to mix Scorps with business. It has been very costly emotionally and professionally for me twice in my life. I’m interested though in this and other advice for working with Scorps to keep it healthy.
Elsa, I’m starting to think your spying on me. (hides)
Scorp Moon/Rising chiming in… I think this ability to see someone ‘naked’ as a great opportunity. I am so often gifted with meeting the most beautiful people, to recognize them, even in a crowded room, without their speaking a word. I can feel it radiating from them and am drawn to them and am rairly disappointed.
Scorpio on Scorpio action here as well. Both Venus in Libra.
YOU take the ball! No, YOU take the ball! No…YOU take the ball. Fine…I’ll drop the ball and walk away…but just for a second. I’m back. Because I can’t live without you…
And so on…
Ha ha ha, AddyD.
Del, I agree in part. There are some Scorpios who are paranoid or have other monkeys on their backs that have low or no skills but by and large I think the sign is very sophisticated around seeing a person’s motives, strengths and weaknesses which does grant them power (for good or ill). Other signs have other powers,,, for example, Leo has the power to entertain and Virgo, the power to discern, etc.
Damn straight. That’s right Elsa.
I am so deeply UNstragegic that this mostly works to my advantage. The only time I find they get fooled is when they fool themselves.
yes I’m familiar with the intrusive arrogance of many Scorpio people (: It’s rarely constructive. With three Pluto oppositions (to Sun, Moon,Venus)I have these skills but I disguise them (: Far more useful that way…
I love this. I think that’s why I love Scorpio. With everyone else, so much can get lost in translation or nuance or mis-wording, even though my intentions are 100% clean and pure. Scorpio always gets it and there is never any bs or misunderstanding of any sort. I have planets in Scorpio in the third – conjunct Moon and the IC – and I see people naked all of the time. I always feel like I’m watching a movie where the secrets and subtext are a part of the script — and I assume that everyone else is watching that same movie — but it turns out that really they aren’t.
Yes. Having a Scorpio for a parent it actually took me a while to understand that it’s possible to get away with certain things. I certainly didn’t !
Caroline, I think that is probably true to an extent – maybe a large extent but I see it as a matter of routine with Scorpio Sun / Moon.
I can tell you that this Mercury-Scorp can see right through people and can smell the b.s. well before it erupts!
Works for me.
” and I see people naked all of the time. I’m watching a movie where the secrets and subtext are a part of the script — and I assume that everyone else is watching that same movie — but it turns out that really they aren’t.”
I can relate in what you are saying.
I always think is ovbious ,but I am wrong because not everyone is seeing it.
I have Venus conj Pluto in Scorpio
I have a very deep connection with my scorpio friends ..in a way that we dont need to use many words to understand each other
The only Scorpio influence I’ve got going on is a 3rd house Neptune in Scorp. It trines my NN in Cancer in the 11th house, and my 7th house Chiron in Pisces. I’m a Leo w/a 12th house Sun.
I work in a service industry, and I find that people generally lie most of the time. It does no good to lie to me, because most people are so transparent that I can see what they’ve had for breakfast. So, I just make a note of it and go about my business; but if I’m swamped with work/liars, or hormonal; I get pissed about the lies. Most of the lying is due to their being mortified at the condition of the thing they brought to me for work; but some of it is just superfluous yammering that I really could’nt care less about.
My downfall is that I don’t have the same powers of discernment with people I have chosen as allies (like co-workers) — to my detriment. The last co-worker I chose to view as a friend turned out to be a cutthroat bitch. She’s an Aquarius who’s on her third marriage, and all her men have and do cheat on her. She wonders why (poor Me !)?
Hello, you’re a fucking liar and backstabber, go figure ! Like attracts like.
I can only seem to hold onto a Scorpio-influenced integrity of listening in business. In relationships outside of that, things get all dirtied up. This is a disparity that I need to address, maybe this post will give me impetus to look closer at it. Thanks, Elsa.
Reiki, Love dirtied up, the term. Hate dirtied up, the process. Well, I don’t mind a messy truth, if it gets resolved, but most people want to sweep these things under the rug. I forgot to say, I also have my ruling planet in the 8th and a Pluto on steroids in the 1st.. oy.
My comment probably offended a lot of perfectly lovely and perceptive Scorps… Sorry if it did. I’ve drawn a bad hand or two.
I’ve met some of those types Del and I agree, they are quite annoying. This Scorp moon/asc isn’t offended. Hope you meet some of the other kind.
I am a Scorpio (November 14) with Scorpio rising and also have Scorpio in Mercury & Neptune. I was told I have Scorpio on the 1st House Cusp as well. I’ve been with more Scorpio man that I like to admit to. Hell, my two ex-husbands (Nov. 10 & 21) were Scorpio’s and I had several relationships with other Scorps. My last husband was *extremely* abusive, both physically and mentally. After our divorce, I went out, with yet another Scorpio! It only lasted four months. When I met the man I’m with now, who I call the “love of my life,” if he would have told me he was a Scorpio, I would have ran….LOL! Lucky for me, he is a Leo, August 21….I guess you’d say he’s on the cusp…we get along so well, There is no “High Drama” with the two of us like in my past relationships. In ending this, I have to tell all that I have a 12-year old daughter, who is, yes, you guessed it, a Scorpio…November 6. Can you believe it? She is very dramatic at times, but I can see right through her! Mama was here first, young lady….LOL!
Hey Del, thanks for the follow comment! A little bit of softness can change the world. From: Sun, Moon, Mercury and Neptune in Scorpio.
Hello there! I’ve been reading your blog for quite a few months- first time I decided to post.
Gemini sun/Scorpio moon/Scorpio rising/Pluto in 12th. It’s VERY easy for someone with a lot of Scorpio planets to “read” another person’s character. (I’m not bragging nor do I consider it an advantage.) Rarely off base- the truth is that this irritates a lot of people! Most of the time I wish I wasn’t like that- I would occasionally enjoy the pleasure of being fascinated by another person-even if it was only to be disillusioned in the long run…. Scorpio makes you loose the “naive” side of your personality.Everyone’s flaws are crystal clear from day one – including (and foremost) your own… (P.S. The one thing Scorpio utterly hates is hypocrisy. No pretenses!)
(Elsa, you’re great! Keep up the great blog!)
@Elsa
I gotcha. I feel like I have the see-through power. But perhaps it is b/c of my stellium in Gemini, including 8th house Sun PLUS Merc in 8th house. It’s like supreme psychoanalysis 
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I can, sort of, I can only think of one person from the past that I knew was a Scorpio and he was acting like that. Except it really bugged me that he was certain he knew what was going on with me when in fact he didn’t. I felt locked in with this person, although he was very attractive to be around too, energy-wise.
As long as they don’t take their own b.s. too seriously either. In other words, as long as they’re not judgmental. Is Scorpio? I don’t know too much about this sign.
I like associating with people who don’t take b.s. from anyone (including me).