I appreciate the visual give and take seen and experienced on your blog, Elsa. Been observing and learning through your example: your stories, your interactions, your transforming … see the sidebar and the forum evolving.

From my vantage point where Pluto and Saturn also oppose in my Natal chart, relationships are major. When everything is swept away, rebuilding on solid ground: tried and true friendships that replace any quick-fix is what we find as vital.

The masks of Pluto in Sag won’t cover anymore.
I’m coming to know the balance as the Moon energy of the progressing moon gives me small increments to weigh up that balance.

Real potency is nourishing my old bones. Artificial sweeteners just don’t do it for me; and it most likely goes both ways.

Not sure I can expand, but I see these issues cropping up with a lot of people. I had one such conversation this morning with someone I don’t know very well. The gal was telling me about her relationships — one with an ex where she was putting in all the labor/provider energy, and a current one where she’s putting in a lot of the thrust/decision energy. She’s not happy with it, but she didn’t seem sure why exactly. I pointed out that both relationships shared imbalances in how much energy she was giving vs. receiving, just in different ways. There was a big aha moment, as she thought she had grown past her “enabler” instincts. It was a VERY of the times conversation .

Best wishes to you, Jorge! It sure is nice having you around.

Interesting remark, furiana. I agree much of it is coming down, it is undeniable. But some have strong bonds and principles and we will come up. The people in trouble are those who expect others to do the work and send them a check.

You just can’t take and take and take, and expect and expect and expect. You have to pitch in and feed what feeds you. This just can’t be any plainer regardless of how complicated some try to make it.

Yes I have been doing this and seeing this. As a libra when pluto first entered capricorn i felt the lack of balance from others out of fear.. so i took on a win-win approach.. didn’t have to be equal as long as the exchange was beneficial to both. Now it’s balancing out.. and I can see how some relationships are moving away and some are cementing.