Transit Watch: Venus In Train Wreck, March 8-13, 2010: What If You Just Don’t Like A Person?
Astrology in real life
I’ve already written about Venus opposing Saturn on March 9, 2010 which will have people taking a cold, hard look at love and relationship. I wanted to isolate that aspect because there are a lot of Venus-Saturn or Venus in Capricorn (tag) people around her but actually that opposition is tied up with Pluto and this is BIG deal.
It’s a big nasty deal you might say because Venus is the sign of it’s detriment (Aries) opposing Saturn in Libra which are the signs that make up the me/we aspect. Pluto squaring both makes the whole thing drastic and what is occurring to me is just how plain and simple and ugly this is.
If you wanted to draw the most UN-pc aspect around relating to others you could think of it would look something like this one and what is occurring to me is that it is possible to just not like someone. I mean you don’t them, as in you don’t like their personality and it’s just the way it is.
You may feel this way or someone may feel this way about you or it may go in both directions but the insanity is the idea you have to hang around and/or converse with someone you don’t like.
If you’re on a desert island, then maybe but as the world stands today (at my house), I can just see no reason at all to socialize with someone I find disagreeable. I also see no reason for someone who finds me disagreeable to have to socialize with me. It is like we have lost the right to not like a person and I for one am taking this right back.Â
Saturn in Libra begs for boundaries in social situations and I think age plays here too. I am just too old to put up with the aggravation some people cause. It’s ugly isn’t it? I guess everyone in the world doesn’t like everyone in the world after all – sounds like cold, hard reality to me.
Anyone else having similar feelings?
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40 Responses to “Transit Watch: Venus In Train Wreck, March 8-13, 2010: What If You Just Don’t Like A Person?”
Um YES! I am having a power issue with a “superior” of mine at work! Who I just simply, no matter which way you cut it, don’t like at all. ERRRRR.
Blech. I loathed Venus Rx in Aries last year, and doesn’t sound like this year’s Venus in Aries transit is going to be any more pleasant.
“but the insanity is the idea you have to hang around and/or converse with someone you don’t like.”
Hah, my relatives.
Oh, speaking of, my mother decided to tell some of them I do astrology yesterday. Gee, thanks Mom, THAT’LL MAKE THINGS EASIER. Not.
Oh my god — NOT a problem at all for me. There are plenty of people I do not like– and I get pleasure at making boundaries (without cruelty but if it’s them or me, I choose me. At least I hope I do)
Venus squ saturn
Dang, even if i like someone, it doesnt mean i want to talk to them or spend time with them—
I suppose I need to give others the same freedom and not také it personally
My natal Venus is in Aries, so I hope this transit isn’t as bad as it sounds.
I definitely understand the just not liking someone (or someone not liking me). I’m OK with that now. I used to agonize about, but there’s really nothing to be done- it’s just the way it is sometimes.
Yes, I do. But it’s not a new feeling for me, it has been that way for some months now, so maybe it’s something related to my Venus in Capricorn, I don’t know…
I might ugly indeed, but if I don’t like someone, if I don’t feel comfortable with them, I’m not going to have coffee or lunch with them and talk about my life. This doesn’t mean I’ll be talking bad about them or start a fight in some way. It means I just don’t want to share anything or spend any time with that person.
I guess this might come out as a rude attitude but it’s better to admit you don’t like a person and act accordingly than just pretend you do.
I think people who have planets in Libra do feel obligated to be nice but Saturn’s transit through the sign applies pressure to control or limit your co-dependency.
If you don’t like someone, pretending you do is not exactly authentic (Saturn) nor is it grown up.
On the other side, you can’t expect to clear the world of people who aggravate you so it comes down to balance… more Libra.
It’s funny, you know that line in Jerry Mcquire, ‘You had me at hello”. It is possible to repulse someone with your first handshake too.
I see this all the time. People introduce themselves by being insulting or threatening and then wonder why such a cool response.
I am not sure why people have such trouble applying logic in situations like this but I am sure Saturn in Libra is going to straighten it out.
It’s so simple. You either play well with others or you play alone.
In-laws. Ugh. 
Yeah, I’m feelin’ it.
I’ve seen this quality make women nutsy– feeling they have to like everyone, invite everyone, be everything to everyone.
And I have been repulsed at “hello” absolutely — although sometimes, sometimes, my repulsion revises itself.
Yes, I’m going to lie really low that day. I suspect, since I’m one of those who’ll be caught in that vice, that even though I’ve drawn boundaries with some people, I may have to reinforce or them or worse…. Because somehow, even when you think they “get it”, some people just don’t want to. They try to worm their way in, manipulate, play dirty to get what they want. But I’ve learned you just need to stay strong and for me, I need to keep a cool head around them. That’s not always easy for me (Mars Sag) but otherwise the blowout is bad, and in the end accomplishes more damage than good.
Forewarned is forearmed…. Thanks Elsa!
Oh Elsa, I wish people would just realize this…this whole issue is culminating right now between a few people that I love and people that they love, and it is tearing me up. I just want them to accept that they could give two shits about each other and that it is ok to feel that way. I’m done being the mediator.
I was working on the newsletter for Thursday and it hit me…
This is oppressive and obsessive so if you have someone stalking you, I’d take great care over these next days and be ready to defend yourself.
Elsa, Thanks again for the heads up..March 9th have Venus directly on my sun – meaning Saturn is opposing my sun and Venus..good times *rolling eyes*.
Having Moon in Libra, I can relate to feeling like you have to be “nice” all the time..it seems like the “right” thing to do (being considerate of others feelings). Grow up and reach your early 30′s, and you begin to trust yourself about who to be nice to and why..intuition!! That’s why I agree with Elsa “It is possible to repulse someone with your first handshake too”…
Sometime you don’t know why you don’t like someone, it just is what it is…I prefer to step away and keep their space away from mine
At the core, I dislike/hate no one. I don’t start trouble just because of an itch. I may not like the way someone treats me, but in that kind of case, I walk away and keep away. Very simple to do. And I always hope that others get their shit straightened out and don’t have to suffer, you know? I may tell someone who’s hurt me to eff off. Go away. But I don’t wish anyone harm.
I’m getting the ol’ sword and shield out just in case. I have defended myself, and will defend myself, that’s for sure.
OMG! I may have someone stalking me who used to stalk a friend of mine. It seems harmless right now but I think this will be the last of my communication with her! Thanks for the warning Elsa!!
I haven’t really noticed anything as of yet. But, considering I already deal w/an Aries/Libra opposition, it probably won’t hit me til it hits me, ya know? There are certainly people that I don’t like when I first meet them, and I *try* to be nice (Libra Moon), but I don’t tolerate too much either. 
I remove myself from their presence as quickly as I can. Now, stalkers…that’s another story…thanks for the heads up, Elsa! 
Wow!! Thanks for the heads up!!! My hubs ex has been “friending” some of the same people I know on FB and making comments when I do etc and then on Thursday her best buddy came into the shop to “buy some shampoo” she seemed shocked to see me sitting there. It took me a couple of beats to recognize her. I was nice and cordial. Soooo maybe this chick will ramp up her game. I am ready!!! lol
Oh yeah, I’ve got one of these at work. I’m very open about my dislike for her because she seems physically incapable of allowing other people to finish their sentences. I’ve been absolutely clear about this with her, but I’m not antagonistic and I don’t talk too much trash about her around others. In fact, it’s just the opposite. I make it a point to take care of her work needs quickly and super-professionally so that I’m never accused of letting my personal feelings interfere with our overall work goals.
And also I like to take every opportunity rub my greatness in her face.
Hmm I may have this with work. Just started the new job that seems ideal – they seem to like me – but it’s boring work. Working on the film is productive and exhilerating and i love working on it. Working on this job i’m productive out of boredom. Which is the better choice? Marry the man who loves you but who burdens you with their love/money? More than one person says that they heard great things about me and were really looking forward to me joining the team. I felt it was creepy when it was meant to be welcoming. I’m overqualified for the position and am only doing the job for money and security. This was what I was supposed to want until uranus triggered the film and jupiter conjuncted my jupiter.
With the job offers i had at the same time I’m sure I’d still be feeling this way. One job was 6 weeks but the guy came across as pressuring and arrogant.. but I have come to accept that in the spring I have to take work from others even if i don’t really like them (aries rules my 6th/7th).. The job that I want doesn’t exist yet but is in development.. more of a feeling that the other is off working independently which i’ve learned i have to be ok with as it happens every spring.
So Commit, (saturn), Detach (uranus), let go (pluto) and look at the Big Picture (jupiter).
hm. will be interesting to see how this hits up my venus complex. already have the three planets in aspect, including the libra/aries axis…
been getting a lot of practice. i’m sure i can do more. but the libra stuff is starting to flow a touch easier. which doesn’t necessarily say much.
Awww no! I’ve been looking forward to Venus moving into my 1st house next week – I was hoping it would make me irresistable! And now you point out that it’ll be opposing Saturn in my 7th (who’s had little effect so far as i had no relationship to break/cement).
And these two naturally square up each other so not likely to be a comfortable opposition. Pluto also natally involved, trining Venus.
Will watch and wait. Thanks for the heads up.
This isn’t insane. It’s one of my life mantras, despite having Moon in Libra. I don’t have time for idiots. Prove that you’re genuine and I’ll hang out with you.
Venus/Pluto isn’t pleasant to begin with. Add Saturn to that, and it’s too much for a lot of (shallow, stupid, egotistical, etc.) people to handle.
My Capricorn son made a comment yesterday about how many stupid people are out there. I’m glad he’s learning this early, so he can filter jerks right out of his life. It’ll only help him as the years go on. This transit isn’t affecting his Sun (22 Cap), but he does have a Venus/Pluto conjunction (like his Ma ), recently transited by Saturn.
This is heavy stuff, but you only learn from the heavy stuff…spoken by someone who’s had big Pluto transits for almost her whole life.
There have been many times I’ve “tried” to like people I meet, but it is to tiring, it just has to happen naturally or it probably won’t at all. I naturally gravitate to genuine people. Because of this I can say I only a have a handful of “true” friends.
feeling it. it is strange. really highlighting the capricorn around me, in a number of directions. feels like all my wires are getting crossed.
wonder how cancer is doing. imagine it might be a whole lotta’ trouble coming in.
great…I seem to be giving off weird energy which is upsetting some of the other people I work with.
One lady I really like said my talking to myself and running around made her feel “vulnerable”. Really hurt my feelings as this is just the way I am, and certainly not meant to hurt anyone else.
There’s been a lot of mean girling going on, with me being the village idiot target. I’m used to it with all the 12th house planets, but I don’t want to lose my job or be miserable in my job. And I have no idea how to fight back. I’m not good at all that backstabbing bitchy girl stuff.
hey thanks…if only I could live a virtual life
Honestly, I did need that. ((elsa)) I knew I had some frenemies but I considered this girl a friend, so I was shocked. And usually my instincts are good.
Well it is true and interesting – your 12th house., Because the other day I was responding to you on the board only to find your comments in the spam filter the next day which means they were not visible to people and it appeared i was talking to myself or some vapor.
elsa, you were right… sunday night: http://www.krqe.com/dpp/news/crime/murdered-couple-id-d-as-educators
this guy (the woman’s ex) broke into the couple’s home a couple months back, threatened them with a knife, was released on bond, and came back and shot them monday night. or, at least, he admitted it and told the police where to find the bodies.
****i don’t understand how he would be allowed a second chance to finish the job. that’s our justice system, i guess
sunday night, that is.
wyrdling, I live in Albuquerque, where the double murder occurred. I was acquainted with the professor. You wouldn’t believe what passes for justice here. I had a good friend strangled by a man who was out on bond for suspicion of murder in three other cases. Just out… free… even though there was overwhelming evidence that he had done it.
“if you have someone stalking you, I’d take great care over these next days and be ready to defend yourself.”
My stalkery asshole goes to mental health court on Friday to determine competency. The judge’s secretary told me he’s not even going to be evaluated until 3/22, so there will be a continuance. I just hope to God he doesn’t do something off-the-wall in the meantime.
And then people look at me all aghast when I tell them I will shoot to kill anyone who comes in my house. Anyone relying on the system to protect them is going to be in for a rude shock if that day comes and quite possibly dead.
We’re going to wind up like back in the old west and frankly it would be an improvement. People didn’t pull this shit back then because if they did, if you raped a women, MEN hunted you down and shot you dead, end of story.
And here htis state they want to release MORE jailbirds because they can’t afford it. When will it end? At the end of a barrel? Looks like things could come to that if it gets bad enough. I don’t like guns but I sure to wish I knew how to use one for my own defense sometimes.
Yep. See this guy at the gym all the time. He’s just always there! sigh. Have tried all manner of tactics to dislodge him from my life, including complete ignoring for two months, but that didn’t work, mostly cause i couldn’t stand it.! Something’s gotta give…..hopefully my energy on him will dissipate.
What a great reminder. I drew the line and have felt attacked over it but I don’t want to spend time with people I don’t like pretending we are fine with each other any more!!
Hahahahaha…
I love, love, love you with all my Venus, Elsa.
I lost my job on March 22nd…because the boss that had hired me and was looking like Adonis almost 4 years later was full of…hateration, is the only term.
I was also suffering from the injury a Virgo with a first house Chiron might pick up while working about 12hrs a day, average, and a full super-user. (I blow technology up…quite literally.) That was the best part…I’m still fighting to stop fighting with the mess you can imagine those two conflicts might brew up in such a kettle of fish.
Anyways, long awesome story later…It’s much better to have a heads up that I’m not crazy and there’s a better plan down the road if you know where to look for it.
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