1 Minute Astrology: Tips And Tactics On Finding Love – Do You Have The Ability To Be Satisfied?
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If you can be satisfied in relationships, you’ve got yourself a selling point.
8 Responses to “1 Minute Astrology: Tips And Tactics On Finding Love – Do You Have The Ability To Be Satisfied?”
…i’ve had to make a conscious effort to do this… don’t think it comes naturally in my chart… but maybe i just don’t have enough practice. i am very very happy… but i do need to avoid getting stuck in a rut. makes me zone out=== disconnected. argh. aquarius.
the leo/aquarius oppositions have been really good growing experiences for me lately. not sure how to explain how, just yet, but i can feel it….
Great video. And that colour is gorgeous on you:)
Love the video…great advice as always…thankfully, I can be satisfied quite easily in relationships…the key is finding the guy to do it! LOL…”all in good time” 
Thank you Elsa! What a timely post! This is definitely one of those signs (that you told me to look out for). I’m almost done reading this book with the same message – “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough” by Lori Gottlieb. I recommend it to anyone who’s confused about finding Mr. Right. It’s a total reality check – basically many women self-sabotage by dismissing perfectly good men for the unrealistic, ideal man (who never shows up, or does show up, but as a complete disappointment).
Now that Venus is in Pisces (my natal Venus is trine Neptune and my man is a native Pisces Venus), I’m seeing all the great things about my relationship that I took for granted. I’m also seeing how I’ve been hurting it – basically by creating a war zone. How can I expect my man to be his best if I’m constantly laying booby traps and land mines?
I’ve changed my tune. I’m so grateful for what we have, flaws and all, and I’m willing to work past these speed bumps, because deep down I’ve got a man who truly loves me and is willing to work hard for a life with me, and I couldn’t ask for anything more. Thank you Elsa for your ever-positive, straight-to-the-point nuggets of wisdom.
**Applause**
Have been mourning my ex lately and thanks to this video, I am reminded that this was always the case: In his eyes, I was NEVER good enough, evolved enough, blah blah blah. Basically, any demands on my part were out of bounds, and there was always fault to be found in me. I tried so hard, and went a bit nuts in the process. What a waste of energy!
Interesting, because here was someone who is almost fourty years old and has had many many relationships, and also bears attractive qualities (successful, sexy, smart, entrepreneur, etc.). Yet–surprise–just can’t seem to make a relationship work. He was a double Cap who projected a shitload of his own self-rejection, and wish I would had enough clarity to understand(my Venus Neptune fog maybe).
Anyways, thanks Elsa. This is just so true.
this was helpful. especially after a very bitter valentines day.
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Thanks for the video reminder, Elsa. My Venus is afflicted in every way imaginable except for a trine with Pluto. With your help, I’ve made a decision to be in relationship (because my Libra wants this), I’ve chosen a great man, committed to him (secretly in some ways, not telling him just how deeply, as you suggested) while I practice satisfaction and contentment all the way home to my second Saturn return. Sure, trust has never been my forte (Scorpio Moon) and perfectionism has fucked me over in the guise of Neptune much of my life. Nevertheless, I’ve learned my lessons (Saturn, Saturn, Saturn) and I consciously choose “happy”, regardless of how unfamiliar this may seem at times, every remaining day of my life. Thanks, Elsa. You are the Valentine that keeps on giving. Hallmark has nothing on you!