Thank you Elsa. I have more to say but I’m frazzled, so it will wait. But thank you so much for this, and amen sister!

I can see both sides.

On one hand, I have no problem with going up to someone I find interesting. The actual first exchange with SuperScorp? “You interest me. Teach me to throw darts.” I’m also the one that will go up to someone and say, “You have beautiful hair. May I touch it?” (Yeah, I have the Leo. *lol*)
Worst case scenario is someone says no, and since I don’t give a crap what strangers think about me that’s a no-harm, no-foul.

On the other hand, I’m guilty of wanting people to notice that I’m a special lil’ flower without putting myself “out there,” especially if no one’s grabbed my attention. I think this is a prime example of expecting others to be me. I’m going to have to mentally shake myself more often when prowling to remind myself of this, methinks.

One thing I think is interesting is that I get approached a lot when I’m doing the clinical observation thing. It’s like men mistake “you’re odd and I’m studying you” for “you’re hot, let’s do it.” Women of all stripes it just tends to fluster.

From youtube

“with venus in your 7th house, that pretty much makes you someone who socializes very easily right? Are you able to approach total strangers and start a conversation with them with relative ease? ”

I respond:
‘Yeah, sort of. But I have a ton of Capricorn so lots of fear. Thing is my desire for relationship trumps all.

Also, when I say reveal your personality, I mean reveal YOUR personality. If you aren’t the type to approach someone then you are not. It is the “coy” thing that is so UN compelling. That and the expectation someone is supposed to come dig up your personality…

but what happens once you ogot them and sex’ed them?This is my problem and I don’t know what or where to go from here.