Ha, Ha Elsa P! You nailed us Scorps, which you also did in the other post about Scorps and secrecy, which I wrote a long comment for and then deleted because I felt too exposed! *sitting here laughing at myself for being such a chicken*

That’s so true. Almost every friend/partner I’ve had has a venus-pluto aspect and they do this. It feels like an initiation or something. I respect them though and avoid going anywhere ‘sacred’, and they do the same. That bit about control is also highly accurate. If you give an inch, they will take two, and continue to test you. I’m a cardinal type, so that bothers me as I also need to be in control. But when there is respect and both parties avoid crossing any lines, they make excellent friends/partners. Very loyal and caring, for life.

“And if they mess with me, I just walk away. If they don’t get why I’m walking away, it’s fine, just as long as they don’t follow.”

Carrie, I feel the same way – could not have said it better myself.

I remember the 3rd or 4th time I went out with one particular Scorpio, he took me to visit his sister afterwards. I couldn’t believe it! He even showed me family photos she had all around her kitchen. We are still friends 4 years later so, he obviously, decided I was ok, but it has been a rocky road of “tide in, tide out”.

AnaBanana, my sister is a Capricorn and we have butted heads my entire life. Yet we both have dear friends of each other’s sign (I have lots of Cap friends, she naturally gravitates to Scorps). I’ve never understood it. And I did try the goodwill thing most of my young life. At 21, I had to stop because she just kept putting me down and I couldn’t take it anymore.

I don’t think I’ll ever understand her. It’s a shame because we’re so much alike and our other sister is now gone. It’s a shame and sad all the way around.

AnaBanana that is too weird. I find more similarities with people on this blog….freaky, but in a good way.

I pity the sucker who lets other people dictate their freedom of movement.

Bella, are you my twin, separated at birth???????

I’m Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Rising, Aries moon.

I do not go back. PERIOD. I did it twice, once to an ex-husband and once to a class reunion.

Never again.

People often invite me back to places I’ve shed.

Nope, not going! Thanks for asking.

It literally gives me the shivers. And, it isn’t like I left with a bad taste in my mouth or left in a huff or anything like that, I’ve just finished with those times and places. It’s over. Dead to me except in lessons learned.

I hate seeing people I used to know out and about. GAAAA! I avoid one post office, because I used to know one of the workers, hate Walmart and it’s ilk. Too many chances to run into people I don’t care to ever see again. There’s a place I’d like to work at, but again, someone I used to know works there. I’ve even thought of calling them up to see if she’s retired yet, but don’t want my number to show up on caller id. Can I borrow someone’s phone? Yeah, folks this is how Scorps think. Excellent video Elsa.

Yep, Bella, I think we might be twins.

And, Elsa, you’re right, as a Scorp if there is something I can do for someone I’ll bend over backwards to do it. VOLUNTARILY. But, if someone has the audacity to tell me to do it? Ain’t gonna happen. No way. No how. (Yeah, cut off my nose to spite my face, I get it, but still, there have been people who’ve tried that crap and it’s spoiled something I was already planning to do, but I just can’t abide being told what to do.)

I *barely* survived a relationship with a Scorpio man (I’m an Aries woman) last year, and it was hell to go through. Including the break up He would be paranoid as hell, and constantly accuse me of not trusting him and invading his privacy (it is true that I went through his emails, lol). And he was controlling and manipulative with emotions, he would only put out when he was ‘in the mood’ (almost never, lol) and would make me feel guilty about everything I did. That whole relationship was like one big guilt trip and I never knew what I was doing wrong. The most indirect, secretive and paranoid creature I have ever met. Oh, and while he *was* intense, he was not that great in bed, despite being the ‘sign of sex and blah, blah, blah’.

How do you tell a Scorpio to do something – YOU DON’T! Right on! THIS IS SO TRUE! I wish you’d covered in your video a man who dates a Scorpio woman (I am a Scorpio). A man I recently dated wanted to try and break things off with me (still not sure why, no legitmate reason, just a bunch of lame excuses). I say “wanted to try” because he will not succeed. I think he is still trying – LOL. Now, what man in his right mind would break things off with a Scorpio woman? Seems this decision would do nothing for his manhood. And to the above post Corina, Scorpio IS the “sign of sex”. Best sex EVER. I know because many men have told me I am, and I have likewise been with Scorpio men who are. To all you men out there (especially Taurus): DO NOT BREAK UP WITH A SCORPIO, and do not TRY to control them – even with the silent treatment. Bad idea ;p

PS- How do I get my picture in the little box? Love your blog!

Hi Lisa – to get your picture in the little box, sign on to the boards and upload a pic to your profile.

got it, thanks Elsa

Welcome, Bovine.

hey guys, i found this post by way of googling information on how to breakup with a scorpio. i know this thread is old but i couldn’t help laughing at Lisa’s comment about not letting a dude breakup with her. i find it funny because as you can imagine i’ve been trying to shake a scorpio that i was seeing, many, many times. he’s even told me flat out “no” several times in the process. hilarious. kind of…

Sag Girl – I just saw your post. That is hilarious! I wonder how many people have tried to Google “how to break up with a Scorpio” ? Ha ha! My post was pretty drastic, but yeah. It happens across the board. Coincidentally, I was dating a Sag guy about 6 months ago. Heaven knows why he would want to break up with me, but he tried and tried, and silent treatment, and passive aggressive bs, none of it worked. To this day he still thinks he’s being sly, and has resorted to lying to his friends about me – which has more hurt him than helped him. Really, open honest communication is the only thing that works with a Scorpio (I told him this initially and he didn’t comply), or like you said, you will be talked into a circle. The Sag will have to give, eventually, and just be true to the facts. This Sag pursued me for 7 years, and then thinks that with the silent treatment, belittling me, and badmouthing me behind my back I will just go away. WRONG. The relationship was his creation, so its even more on him. Never cross (or try to break up with) a Scorpio!