I was lucky my inlaws were pretty okay with me, My husband also doesn’t have any siblings. I have Pluto in libra it’s in my 11th house.. Capricorn is sandwhiched in my 2nd.. and nothing in capricorn. So I can’t say I’m going to die if you don’t like me, but I would prefer to be okay with you, Just No problems.

I totally get where she’s coming from. Despite my Aries rising and Sun/Mars in Leo brusqueness, I want to be liked. That’s my Libra Moon. I have three planets in the sign. I have no planets in Capricorn, but my MC is there.

Anyway, I’ve posted about problems with two SILs that have been going on since I met hubby. They took an instant dislike to me. One side of me said, “Well, f them! Flip ‘em the bird!”, and the other side was saying, “What did I do wrong?”

It took me a while to figure out that they wouldn’t like anyone who hubby brought around. One SIL doesn’t want anyone being close to her mother except her (Moon/Venus conjunction in Cancer in the 1st house, which explains itself) and her kids. Everyone else is dirt. The other one susses people out to see if she can jerk them around, and if not, she trash talks them.

There’s another reason behind this SIL’s foolishness: Her sister wanted to date my DH after her first marriage ended, and DH said NO WAY. So anyone who wound up with DH reminded her of her sister’s rejection. This is only a theory, but I wouldn’t be surprised if there was some truth to it.

These two women can’t stand each other, but their hubbies are best friends, so they formed this “pack” that shuts out the rest of the family. I could never figure out why until it hit me: this is Cancer clan mentality at its “finest”. Between the four of them, there’s one Cancer Sun and three Cancer Moons. Hubs and I have no Cancer and a lot of Leo, so we’re not the kinds that would be accepted into this “pack”. Hubs told me this rivalry/pack mentality crap was going on long before I met him, so I simply choose not to deal with it.