Dear Sister,

You can toss in the towel but if you want to keep trying, you’d better try something new, eh? The astrology here is pretty interesting.

I think you have more in common with you sister than you imagine. Both of your have enormous challenges in relationships and they’re more similar than not. I bet you’re surprised but if you re-read your post up there you might notice something.

The post is all about you pointing the finger at her. She’s the whole shadow and what are you? Pristine? That does not compute.

I’m not saying she’s not jealous, cold, petty, etc. I bet she is. But where is your hand in this?

Both of you have Venus in your chart, jacked up by both Saturn and Pluto. Both of you. So this story where she is the witch, and you are all pleasant – well, I think it’s an erroneous one. And I’m not trying to be mean, I’m trying to do my job.

If you want a better relationship with your sister, I would stop making lists of what’s wrong with her. Instead make a list of what you have in common with her, because it’s a long one. And at that point, you may have some compassionate feelings not only for your sister, but for yourself and this will give you a whole new tack to take, the next time you talk to her.

Good luck.

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