ROFLMAO that is definitely the funniest effing thing I have read all day. #6,7,8, bwahahahaha.

“combined with the man’s desire to be Johnny Depp” also bwahahaha.

I don’t know how I would feel! I guess I would just screen it out? Make fun of it like you’re doing? I don’t have this experience on the whole but I have had it with one person, who I realized has zero concept of who I am and is just obsessed with his hologram idea of me – but that person is abusive and personality disordered so he’d probably do that to anyone, he’s got enough Neptune of his own. How did I feel? Just dissociated. Still not sure if I had a real emotion other than wanting to go elsewhere, where somebody did know me.

Yeah, but discerning who your true love might be in this sea of supposed devotion is a taller challenge then one might imagine!

O? O!

I wouldn’t like this. I am too much of a queen bee – I want to be known for me, a) because I think that that I am a fairly unique individual and b) so I know that that they wouldn’t be looking at every other girl who crossed their path.

Bella, that is exactly right. It is not flattering when someone ignores your personhood and interacts with their imagination.

This goes in the other direction too.. all the people who tell me I suck all the time. It’s the same phenomena, I call them masturbaters actually and I have for almost 20 years which is how I have been on to this.

Because they are no actually interacting with me, what they are doing is wasting my time. Er… can’t you get a blow up doll for this kind of thing?

I’d freak the hell out. I’m grateful to be a plain person so I don’t get this kind of crap happening to me, because I very rarely like anyone back PLUS I got raised to go out with whoever asked and “give him a chance.” So I spent a lot of years dating people I had no interest in because mom’s voice was in my head guilting me into it. I feel obligated on some level to be with them because THEY like ME and I can’t afford to be picky ’cause I’m not gorgeous…which is an awful thing to think and I’ve been trying to recover from that thinking for years. I’ve actually managed to turn down a guy or two (though I still feel huge guilt about it to this day). I’d rather not date again until I have even a bit of remote interest in ever seeing the guy again, rather than being quite pleased if I never had to again, but we’re going out on Friday. Bleah!

I’d enjoy the attention. :blush: I’d probably practice on them – practice flirting and attracting and rejecting and all that wonderful stuff.

(There’s a strange sort of balance, I guess: they’re interacting with an abstraction of me, and I’m interacting with an abstraction of them.)

Leo Moon, Venus in Libra.

I guess it hasn’t taken that form for me, at least that I recall. :/

Well, I went through a period in my life with men, in my late teens and early 20′s, before I got married, where they just wanted to have sex with me. They would literally stalk me in the streets, and practically beg me. I have never been able to have a male buddy, unless they were gay, because if they were straight, they always tried to steer it towards the bedroom. I have always attracted sex maniacs and perverts, and for some reason they all assumed I was the same. Maybe this is where my Venus conjunct Uranus came in……but it was also an illusion, because though I am no prude, I was never one to have sex with a man just for the hell of it. Oh God, never. So, marriage proposals, not that many, but come-ons and googly bedroom eyes, oh brother, constantly. So my solution was I married one (my husband is a big-time pervert, but whatever, he’s my pervert).

Dorothy that line made me l.o.l. heh.

I had on a GOLD hat too, bought for me by scorpio. Dracula on the story about huge breasted Candy that I never finished.

And then I got some blue suede platform pumps with the Leaning Tower of Pisa on the heel

http://www.elsaelsa.com/archives/2007/03/17/eclipse-in-pisces-conjunct-pluto-in-aspect-to-my-moon-will-she-let-go-of-her-blue-suede-shoes/

And that pretty much ended our relationship…. which was the quasi-intention of my sister and I when we decided I ought to buy them…

@Dorothy- I also attract the sex maniacs and perverts. Something I will never understand – at least I think there must be something in my chart that brings it on? But I don’t know what it is…

I have Virgo rising, I don’t smile– I don’t know what the f**k they see.

And then sometimes I think the non-smiley types of women get a certain type of freaky creep. In fact, on some days, the more unwashed I am, the more I get it…

Wow, I really can’t relate to this. I’ve got Venus conjunct Saturn and square my Cappy Moon, so nobody even gets close to me unless I want them to. The only man who’s ever proposed to me is my husband, after we’d already discussed marriage for like a year.

That said, this shit would bother me to no end. No, it’s not flattering to have your personhood ignored by guys living out some fantasy.

Togi, I totally relate to the excessive pluto. I have Scorpio rising and sun conjunct mars and pluto. Apparently I intimidate men. They seem to be fascinated by me but terrified of me. The other thing I get is men (total strangers) looking at me like they want to just grab me and **** me. It used to frighten me when I was younger but now I can handle it with looks of total contempt! The pluto thing is hard – it is a very powerful energy and I have learned that it has to be harnessed so it can be used for good rather than letting it abuse me. My Leo MC wants adoration too!

That’s wacky stuff, Elsa. It hasn’t happened to me, but I know it would annoy me to no end. I’m very highly individual, and I don’t like being part of anyone’s “makeovers” or fantasies. With Sun/Mars in the 5th house (dating), and Mars as my ruler, Mars was what they saw. And if they didn’t want to deal with it (a lot didn’t), they bolted or never even came near me.

When I was in my late teens/early 20s, Pluto in Scorpio transited that conjunction. I didn’t attract anyone my first year in college. I had way too many issues of my own to sort out that year, dredged up by that transit, and I’m sure guys felt that vibe and were like, “Nope, I’m not going to get into this girl’s pants easily.” I’m also sure the fact that I wore dark sunglasses all the time didn’t exactly give me a friendly, open vibe, either.

Looking back, I dated my fair share of jerks, but this stuff you describe…it would have been hard for me not to yell in their faces to get the f away from me!

would this be made worse by having neptune transit your first house? Cause i know that you have cap on the ascendant, as do i (28 degrees), and neptune has still not left my first house. (meaning that was this neptune-midheaven aspect energized when neptune transited your 1st house)

jo, yep I have Neptune on the midheaven sq Venus in the 7th. It is really a perfect storm for it be this way. Like I said, people have been trying to marry me since I was 12 – it is a phenomena and it’s no joke.

well, there is lots at play here. Venus in the 7th rarely has trouble attracting a partner. Uranus in the 7th gives the sudden attraction / love at first sight

Uranus is in aspect (tight) to Jupiter expanding the effect and then Neptune on the midheaven makes me just whatever people want to make of me when I am out in public.

Also this is just one form this takes. I have people suddenly turn on me – love me and then hate me for no reason I can point to.

I have gone from “most beautiful woman in the world: to “Nigger who will make nigger babies” without so much as changing a hair on my head to it’s both bewildering (Neptune) and shocking (Uranus).

Sorry for the N word, but it was the one that was used (repeatedly).

Okay, I know this is old but I have to comment anyway. Something very similar happens to me. I like to have male friends, but I usually don’t because of it. I know what you mean about unflattering. Like I’m good enought to date/marry, but not good enough to be friends with. So, my purpose in life is being half of a couple and that’s all? Now that I’m married, the men actually get mad at me when they find out. Even if they just freaking met me. (Really, I’m not flirty and I usually bring up my husband as soon as I get the vibe, I wear a big filigree wedding ring for Christssake!) Are they mad because I am married, or mad because I won’t leave my husband for them? I don’t know.

Also, I think that’s terrible what a previous commentor said about feeling guilty for not “giving someone a chance.” Going out with someone you don’t like is a waste of time for you both. Trust your gut! God/nature gave you intuition for a reason. Any guy who holds a grudge because you wouldn’t “give him a chance,” is most likely a control freak anyway.