Boundaries Prevent Unwanted Psychic Surgery… Today’s Venus Square Pluto
Commenting on the comments
Rob writes re” Manipulation…
“Have you ever had the experience where someone tries to do the above without your consent, though? It happens to me all the time; and I can’t get past the fact that I just don’t like it.”
Rob… it’s an interesting question. Personally, if I am having sex with a person, I am signing up and hoping to be manipulated. If I go therapy, same thing. I want to impacted. Outside of that, I have an inner circle of friends and there are criteria they all meet:
Namely, I trust them, and they have good boundaries. Jeez… come in and try to fix me without invitation and you’re going to get smacked and smacked hard as you see happen on this blog all the time.
So in my case it is very rare (anymore) someone get close enough to me to start messing with the hair on my head and there is another thing I’ve noticed.
Even if someone does have an impact if the impact is not right for me I tend to go off track on their words or deed only to right back on track a week or two down the road.
I think it’s up to the individual to protect their psychic space, ultimately and you will never be able to stop people from trying to enter or invade it.
As for what I do… I never offer any advice unless directly requested and even in my closest relationships… people I have know for year, like say, Ben. I have known him more than 25 years and will still ask him, “Do you want to know what I think about that?” I do this because I know damned well my words have energy.
Now I have a strong Saturn Neptune signature which implies lack of boundaries but there are other ways this energy expresses, for example I just send my hologram out to be talked to / manipulated. And one more thing:
This energy really is intense right now. I was at therapy with my son on Thursday and was greatly impacted (benefit). I turned around and offered the same advice I was given to satori today so what you have here is my son’s therapist getting me pregnant… I get satori pregnant… and in this case it’s for good cause.
And it’s potent see. Like putting a drop of red paint in a bucket of white, there is a big effect. Someone can easily poison the well but they can just as easily purify it.
Do you have a good psychic boundary?

10 Responses to “Boundaries Prevent Unwanted Psychic Surgery… Today’s Venus Square Pluto”
AnaBanana, reading your comment made me realize I am frequently impacted too… say by comments on left on this blog but I have gotten really adept at erasing them. It’s like impacted today… gone tomorrow. But I have been doing this, writing a blog for almost 10 years and have really had to develop the ability…
I also thought I should add, when I am impacted by comments, it is not necessarily because they are directed at me which is why I didn’t put this together. It is not someone deliberately trying something as Dan was suggesting.
I’ve got Saturn-Neptune square Uranus and yes, I have strong psychic boundaries. When things aren’t right for me I get a psychic infection and the foreign agents get diluted and eliminated very quickly, regardless of the consequences. Thus, I normally don’t need to get sick to sort things out.
The same way, when something is right for me I integrate it, no matter where it comes from. I’ve had experiences of instantaneous corrections from outside, it’s a real blessing. And yes, one drop can clear the whole pond.
No! My psychic boundaries are terrible. My new thing is to use the mantra “these are not the droids you’re looking for” and hope like hell it works. I spent most of last year having feelings that other people were having. My whole life, I’ve been easily turned pink by that one drop of red. When I figure out how to prevent this, I will consider my mission in life fulfilled, other than raising my son reasonably sane.
I think I have strong boundaries now. Psychic…if that means trusting and following your gut, then yes I’m much more solid with that. Even when it scares me, I do my best to honour my gut.
When I’ve ignored my instincts, which are usually excellent, I’ve paid dearly at great cost to myself. So I just couldn’t afford not to stop doing that anymore. Maybe people have to hit a wall hard enough before they start enforcing their boundaries? Not all people, but those of us who needed to learn it I mean.
I am not sure – if someone tries to get me to do something I do not want to, no way, it’s not happening. But can someone piss me off so much that they get way under my skin, absolutely. And I can obsess incessantly about something or someone, and it is quite probable that the person in question has no idea how much I have been impacted. I do have a 1st house neptune, and moon, so this probably indicates that I don’t (?)
Boundaries? Hah. Me trying to set boundaries is me screaming and crying NO and having people steamroll me by anyway. I was probably born to be a steamroller myself- there’s a lot of hellish steamroller potential in my chart- but my parents are/were bigger and better steamrollers and they have always gotten the best of me.
I have been told I also have empathy problems.
Thanks for the blog, Elsa.. I fair pretty well with boundaries on individual points…. but have a hard time putting it together into a framework for interaction.
I’d like to think I’m a Libra SN with good boundaries… I have them, but I’m (too) tactful about enforcing them. My 7th Saturn transit should take care of this..
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Not really, Saturn/Neptune. I like to think I have good barriers in place, but I’m always impacted, regardless. Pretty sure it’s a one way deal, unequal in exchange. Kinda scary when the “impact” is not only uninvited, but you don’t even realize it has happened.