Uranus in my first house in leo. I am a person who is willing to risk failure in an effort to achieve my goals. But I am convinced that a large part of my life has been fated, including my five younger siblings, the husband, and four children.

Uranus is part of an earth grand trine in my chart in the earth houses. Change is part of the routine. You just roll with it.

The rug gets yanked over and over again.

I have Uranus conjunct Venus in Leo, in the 10th house. I have no idea what this has to do with all the rug yanking in my life, but anyway, thats’ where uranus is for me.

I used to have plans-I think the safety of school did that- but Pluto transits have taught me differently. Uranus is in the 4th, Sag in a grand trine with the moon and ascendant, so I’m very good at adjusting and changing. I’m also moving and dealing with weird things with houses–including crack addict neighbors, an apartment fire the day I moved in and a car crash in my driveway. This was all in the past two years!

But some other force is in control a lot of the time, so it is still a plan I feel. The disasters were a plan to get me to move out of a city and to also live alone. But I ony buy furniture I don’t mind losing now, and I don’t expect to know next year at this rate!

Some of us have no choice but to surrender- and when I meet people who want plans, they don’t change as much, and not all of them are as happy because there isn’t a facing of dangers or fears or even an acceptance of loss. Not that I think getting the rug pulled is superior, but I think accepting it does a lot to the satisfaction level of life. I think it’s really cool that you’re doing that even with marriage. I mean, living in the moment and being satisfied with what you have now. I just started learning this stuff and it is so cool!

Well I just think we are going to try to get married in Tombstone and we probably will… unless God is laughing right now.

I feel very much an instrument of this universe and I always have… since I was about 5 so whatever. I just keep showing up.

Well, we think we’re going to end up married because the universe is and has been throwing us together, rather than keeping us apart although it may seem otherwise seeing as he is a truck. We just have a wide scope on this because if you put it in the context of the rest of our lives you can see the art in it. All love should be art, yes? Venus ruled!

My rug is constantly yanked, but I’ve grown used to it. I don’t expect much My Uranus is in Libra, in the 8th - and it’s tied up in a T-Square opp my Sun (and Merc) & squaring Jupiter…in fact, I have a Jupiter/Uranus transit coming up…should be fun!

“never thought the AMF was the right guy for you.”

God, I hate when people say things like that. Jeez, it just feels so punishing and for what?

Lilly, I know you don’t mean to hurt me but I just had to say something.

Uranus rising here. I don’t make plans more than 3 months in advance. I flip out having to sign a lease committing for the next 18 months (which you have to here), I only do that because the housing is tight here and you can’t do anything else. I thoroughly expect to be Struck Down if I try to make any plans. I had about ten years- ages 18-28 or so- where unexpected events happened to me about every other week. Drama eruptions galore that I was NOT bringing upon myself. I am the living embodiment of the Tower card in tarot. Now it’s down to say, monthly, but still. I’m a drama/chaos/weirdness magnet and I know better than to make a plan!

Of course, now that after the SR has occurred, I should be up to planning now because the big ol’ anvil hanging over my head for 10 years dropped, the drama level died down, etc. But I’m still scared to even try to do one. I got spanked for too long.

I have Uranus in Scorpio in the 7th house square sun, mercury, mars

The bigger changes in my life, or rather the ones that affect me the strongest, probably are those related to relationships.

My life has definitely NOT gone as planned BUT I am starting to realize that a lot of the “detours” have been caused by my own volatility. LOL I pull the rug out from under myself.

That being said though… I do feel that there is some sort of plan. Even the most stupid mistakes I’ve made have led me on a better path. So, well, maybe it’s the universe’s plan for me to undo my life like I do sometimes. I am trying to be better about it though.. and actually stop and think before doing things on such an impulse. Oh the lessons we are here to learn lol

I can’t believe I wrote “a witch put a spell on me” ha ha ha but it was true. She actually made a sort of doll and gave it to him and bad things happened to him, her and them. I figured out how to be protected, luckly, I usually land on my feet.

And Elsa, I am so rooting for you two! Keep showing up. It’s gonna happen!!

Thanks, Lilly, I do.

I would not trade one minute of the time I spent with him for anything. I learned so much from him it’s a joke.. He absolutely sustained me through one of the worst times in my life BAR NONE and I’d just like to say in general it just pays to remember this around here: You Don’t Know The Half Of It.

hah. i try not to make plans for more than a year or so out because i know things will come up… starting to figure out the trick of following my gut and intuiting preparation so i can catch the boats when they’re in. or deal with crisis as they occur. i haven’t known my gut to be wrong, though often it’s been confusing enough i ignored it, especially when i was younger…

uhm, uranus is part of my saturn mercury t square. it’s in the third, in scorpio. sextile my ascendant and messing with my venus.

My rug gets yanked regularly, sometimes by me and sometimes by others, but only every few years. So I can make semi-long-term plans.
I’m in school now and am on track to get a PsyD in ten years, which is only the second long-range plan I’ve ever made.

Uranus in Scorp squared Aquarius moon.

Kris, I totally get it. My brother and mother are the type that think the gas tank is on empty if there’s a quarter tank or need specific directions given to them while driving, blocks ahead of time. and I’m just like, chill out, we’ll turn when we turn or there’s a hundred miles of gas left! lol! But yea, I think us uranus types will be ready for anything during these crazy econimic times. To us its just another day. What do you think?

Well, Uranus is conjunct Venus and is in the 6th. I’ve never had steady employment (I know this might look bad, but I hated what I did (secretary), so I was prone to bouncing around) or relationships, until I got married. Even now, I don’t see him a lot, and it doesn’t bother me one bit.

I remember writing to Elsa over a year ago about how I used to envy the girls who married their HS boyfriends. It’s just not in the cards for me. I mean, even when I was engaged, I still had men seriously pursuing me…the troo luv rug is always going to get yanked, but I’ve learned to roll with it.