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The Astrology Of Love and Money… And Satisfaction

January 26th, 2009 @ 1:47 pm by Elsa

Astrology in real life

Venus rules love and money. Venus in your chart show how you feel about these two things… as well your experiences in these realms.

Some time ago I wrote and did some videos on the concept of what I call “currency” when it comes to love. All people do not love the same things… by a shot. What you do love can be considered your currency. Just imagine someone showing up with to court you and win your love. Their success depends on what currency they have to offer.

Now there are some people who are looking for money so if you have some they will consider loving you. Others (like me) are looking for a thrill so if you can provide one, I will consider loving you. Still others want safety so if you come offering loyalty, they will consider loving you… and so on, you get the idea.

People get in trouble when they assume that others value what they value and this is exactly what most people do. They offer what they like to other people and become confused or even distraught when it’s not valued and as a vivid example, I dated a string of millionaires when I was young (back when that was a lot of money) and they just couldn’t function on why I was not interested in them and in turn, I just couldn’t function on why they couldn’t function but the answer to this puzzle is very simple. The people have different values and one is not preferred over the other.

Now if you love someone… say if those men really loved me then they might have taken the time to discover what I did like and want (what my currency was) but no one ever did and consequently I kicked every single one of them out of my life and that was that.

It is pretty easy to discover a person’s currency if you want to… with astrology or just by observing. Their attitude towards love and money is also something to note.

For example, some people are never satisfied with either and some people are almost always satisfied with both. I am in the latter group and it’s very odd when I hang around someone in the first group. I mean, I understand them but I could not be like them to save my life.

In contrast when I am with someone with an attitude similar to mine it’s very easy to get along. Like the soldier. We threw our money on the table when we were kids. Whatever we had we put it up there and paid the bills and we do the same today. We never have a complaint about money and we never have a complaint about love… “You don’t love me enough!!!”

I think this is stuff is very interesting and also phenomenally helpful to understand.

What is your currency / What will win your love?

most people do exactly this. They take no time
throw money on the table

never have a conflict

venus sextile also uranus / neptune

Astrology, Astrology in Real Life, Love, money, Venus, 24 comments | Posted at 1:47 pm

24 Responses to “The Astrology Of Love and Money… And Satisfaction”

satori

music, affection, touch, security/appreciation/respect, freedom (from control), food, these are currency for me. shoveling my driveway, picking my kids up from school, saying “I love you”, servicing my car, rubbing my feet, feeding my cat, ignoring my messes, ignoring my crazy, accepting my crazy rellies, stroking my hair, holding my hand, wiping down the counter, showing up with coffee, opening the door, pulling out my chair…

1/26/09 @ 2:27 pm (reply)

satori

pulling out my chair only counts if I’m paying attention– not if I wind up on my can on the floor.

1/26/09 @ 2:28 pm (reply)

aml

satori- what is the astrology- virgo,toro? pisces?

1/26/09 @ 2:53 pm (reply)

midara

Loyalty, admiration, verbal expressions of affection, and quirks will get me every time. But then, I’ve got Venus in Leo conjunct Mercury and trine Uranus.

1/26/09 @ 3:08 pm (reply)

Dorothy

Venus in Leo – I need to know that you are crazy about me.

My husband lets me know that every day – hooray for me

1/26/09 @ 3:11 pm (reply)

satori

the freedom stuff: aquarius dc; venus, lilith, saturn in aries

security stuff: capricorn moon (square the aries stuff)

affection/attention: leo rising, 5th house moon

I also actually like a little bit of possessiveness directed at me: scorpio mars, 8th house venus.

I want to be secure, and free. I want to be owned, but not too much. people walk the razor’s edge with me. it can’t be easy.

contradictions: pisces sun

1/26/09 @ 3:16 pm (reply)

satori

and by the way, Dorothy: I’m crazy about you.

1/26/09 @ 3:20 pm (reply)

Loonsounds

love me, LOVE MY DOG!

1/26/09 @ 3:50 pm (reply)

Loonsounds

Leo rules my 6th house (pets) with the sun in the second (values)

to me freedom is not a currency but something I already own that no one can give or take away from me other than the law, I guess (and then they’d have to catch me first, lol)

1/26/09 @ 3:52 pm (reply)

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doublecappy

Wow, Elsa. This is just downright brilliant.

1/26/09 @ 4:44 pm (reply)

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Lilly

Lots of affection, lots of touch – Venus in Taurus
Lots of sex – Venus conj Mars
Good communication, lots of laughter – Venus in 3rd
A little bit of drama & heavy on the emotion is also good – Venus trine Moon/Pluto conjunction

1/26/09 @ 4:52 pm (reply)

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lotion

venus scorpio in 12th house, trine jupiter

i need to know that you can’t live/function without me, but at the same time, you can’t suffocate me with attention (1st house moon conj uranus). Basically, you have to be cool and reserved on the outside (mar aquarius) and fucking crazy about me on the inside.

1/26/09 @ 5:15 pm (reply)

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Dorothy

Ha ha Satori, I am glad to hear it! The more love the better

1/26/09 @ 5:23 pm (reply)

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Rkkggg

Venus in Virgo in the 7th house. I enjoy feeling cared for in service-oriented ways. Make my coffee for me? You LOVE me. Or, rather, I feel loved. Keep your eye out for a certain type of coffee mug that you know that I like for twelve years, and then buy it when you finally find it on sale, like my husband did a few years back? Oh, man, you’re gonna get lucky!!!! I’m almost always satisfied in love because I chose well and in money because I don’t want a lot of things, and have a very generous father (packed 8th house, other people’s resources).

1/26/09 @ 5:31 pm (reply)

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SaDiablo

I feel like I’m in a revision process on this.

My currency?
I need lots of affection and lots of emotion. The sex has to be intense and at least weekly (although usually I’d like more). I need, need, neeeeeeed communication like the air I breathe and I need it to be intelligent. If I can’t talk to someone, I can’t love them. Period.

Mars-Venus-Pluto conjunct in Libra, trine Moon in Aquarius, sextile Neptune in Sag.

1/26/09 @ 5:52 pm (reply)

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LCTaurus

Loonsounds – LOL! I can totally relate to LOVE ME, LOVE MY DOG! – Venus in Aries, 6th house. I cannot be with someone who doesn’t love my dog. (p.s. my dog also has to love him back and he’s a picky little guy)

1/26/09 @ 6:05 pm (reply)

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Monica

listen to me… let me bounce of my ideas, theories, etc off of you. You’ve gotta talk back too though. I absolutely love when people share the things that are important to them with me. Good, no, Great communication needs to exist before I fall in love.

Sun and Venus Aquarius, Moon Gemini, Sun conjunct Mercury

1/26/09 @ 6:46 pm (reply)

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wyrdling

integrity and intensity and heart.

1/26/09 @ 10:43 pm (reply)

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Daemoness

SaDiablo, you said it exactly the way I feel!

“I need, need, neeeeeeed communication like the air I breathe and I need it to be intelligent. If I can’t talk to someone, I can’t love them. Period.”

Venus in Aries conjunct 8th house cusp, Mars in Gemini conjunct the Midheaven.

1/26/09 @ 11:09 pm (reply)

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Candela

I have a very tight Venus/Uranus conjunct in the 3rd house and Scorpio (preceeded by the North Node a couple of degrees apart). The relationships are, for me, all about communication. Not just talking, but finding the way of knowing the other almost the way one does oneself. I do tend to go for men who only aren’t really communicative, but also very perceptive. However, the Uranus and the strong Pluto also mean that abusing of this knowledge by trying to change me to something I’m not is the surest way to loose my love.

1/27/09 @ 5:00 am (reply)

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goddess

i value honesty tremendously. i don’t demand someone share everything, but what you share must be real. I’m earthy, so phyical touch is very healing to me. I absorb emotion, so stability and harmony is a very big deal to my happiness.

Venus in 3rd house Scorp, trine Saturn in 7th house Pisces.

1/27/09 @ 10:57 am (reply)

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kashmiri

I need to have someone who loves the living shit out of me. And physical. I need a very physical kind of love.

Oh, and misogynists need not apply.

1/27/09 @ 10:05 pm (reply)

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CArRiE

My husband has nailed my currency… Make life fun and passionate. (Venus in Aries)- Trine Uranus- he actually can read my mind, and reads between the lines, he’s paying attention!

3/20/10 @ 8:19 am (reply)

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