Open Question: What Is Revealed Via Your Email Address?

August 8th, 2008 @ 11:44 am by Elsa

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email_icon.jpgI consider this a Saturn in Virgo topic. Careful (Saturn) what you communicate (Virgo).

The soldier and I this morning. I had just responded to an email where the writer had a notable email address.

“Yeah, people write me and I read their problem and then I read their email address and you can see half the problem right there. You know, they have problems with men and then their email address is, bestgirlintheworldwhoisbetterthanallother. Answer a Match.com ad with an email like that and what’s the guy going to think? He’s going to think hell no, I’m not going to support that ego.”

He laughed.

“Yeah and some write and their email say, isuck. I mean essentially this is what it says, they use their low self esteem as a calling card and apparently they don’t think about how people parse this.”

“What does my email convey?” he asked. His email is basically his initial and last name.

“Yours? Well it’s your name. Means you’re afraid of nothing. Means you’ll take all comers, come on! You are who you are and to hell with who finds you…”

He laughed.

“Yeah, mine is like that to. My email is, Elsa at. I’ve really got nothing else to say, I am right here. I am pretty much naked at all times.”

What does your email convey?

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31 Responses to “Open Question: What Is Revealed Via Your Email Address?”

1.
Becca
Becca

I have a couple of different ones that say different things about me, and I do think about which one to use for different situations. One’s my all-purpose username, Scriveling: short for “scribbling drivel,” which seemed appropriate for the message boards where I first used it, but is too frivolous for a lot of occasions. If I want to present a more serious image I use my gmail, which is just my name.

 
2.
Elsa
Elsa

“Scriveling: short for “scribbling drivel,””

OMG! Mystery solved! :)

 
3.
goddess
goddess

i use “goddess” on a lot of things, and actually picked it up after reading a piece you wrote probably in late 2003, elsa. you were talking about why people choose negative passwords and usernames when they type this stuff in over and over? and i thought, “well, yeah, that makes sense to me.” what message to i want to convey to my subconcious/the world at large multiple times a day?

i didn’t exactly feel like a goddess, but decided to go with the bravado and use it anyway, and start using more postive names and passwords. i’d just started working on my weight and needed an ego boost. “goddess” stuck.

i’ve since used it many places and am therefore usually known as goddess or goddess_dix online. i grew into it, i guess. ha!

 
4.
dolce
dolce

My email is just my name, but I don’t use my real name when posting here. I wonder if that’s a continuation of this theme – I don’t mind people responding to what I write, but if they responded using my real name, I know I would feel exposed. No idea why! A gazillion people share my name.

 
5.
Heather
Heather

At the beginning of my Pluto transit to my Sun, I had email that was hidden behind a hidden version of my son’s name. That was back in the day when I wasn’t sure I wanted people to know who I was, but even then I’m not sure I knew who I was anymore. Now, I have a couple of emails and they are all my name. Guess I’m out there now, whether I want to be or not. I’ve thought about starting to blog again, but my old name doesn’t fit anymore, and there are just too many Heathers in the world (though at 45 I’m one of the originals) to be just that. Something to ponder.

 
6.
Becca
Becca

Heh. I would have explained it at any time if you’d asked!

I meant it to be self-deprecating in a way that shows I don’t take myself too seriously. But I can see where it might be interpreted as “I suck, and nothing I write is worth reading,” which is why I don’t use it in all situations now.

 
7.
Foxxy
Foxxy

I have two main email names I’ve used since I first encountered the internet. One is usually my real name or combination therof (first name last initial @ gmail is my main main one, though I also have first_last @ hotmail) and, the other is a combination of character names for a writing site that I frequented for about seven years.

Which is also where Foxxy comes from actually, unless you want to go way way back and then, Foxxfire was my very first internet handle (my brother came up with it, then bungled the original pw so Foxfire got an extra x) and that was back in ’92.

It strikes me now as kinda funny that my email names haven’t changed in 16 years (amost everything else has) . . And my only fixed planet is Uranus (rules internet) in the 11th (social groups) hahahahhaha.

 
8.
Jilly
Jilly

In numerology, all my #s are 9.

 
9.
dolce
dolce

I also notice if someone’s email name is written in all lower case letters, and find it interesting because I don’t understand why they don’t capitalize the first letters. e.g. john smith rather than John Smith. What are they trying to convey there?

 
10.
Sonia
Sonia

Ha ha, my ex works in HR and I used to hear stories about how people would send in their CVs with email addresses like machoguy@xxx or sexything@xxx. They didn’t get interviews..

Sigh.

 
11.
shannon
shannon

One is my firstname and last name – that’s my gmail, which I use for most things.

The other two – one is the nickname I’ve had since I was 18 or 19 (craftygirl) and the other I keep just for gaming friends, and it’s the first name of my character.

 
12.
Jennifer
Jennifer

I thought the default with e-mails most of the time is that they work in lower case?

Sonia, we interviewed a guy at my work whose e-mail was…well, the word “booger” was involved, and “noogie.” I would have rejected him on that alone probably.

One of mine is first and last initial and last name (required for work), the other is jen+moon because I used to have an e-mail with fullmoon in it and I just combined the two (also, there was a 7-character limit on e-mails at the time). What does that say about me? Um, I like moons?

 
13.
Sonia
Sonia

Btw, in graphology if you sign your name legibly then that means you are honest.. guess the same thing aplies with email addresses.

If you can’t read someone’s signature, watch out!

 
14.
Jilly
Jilly

Uh oh. My signature is a scribble.

 
15.
Kat
Kat

I’m glad I’m not the only one around here with split email-personalities. Katastrophe is my favourite one, suppose it’s very Capricorn but to me, it’s mostly just funny. Also use my name, first and last, for more professional situations, and I have another (amillionstars) which makes me feel inspired and ethereal :)

 
16.
SaDiablo
SaDiablo

I have a legible signature. I should, I spent years working on it! *laughing at the Leonine (aka asinine) energy there*

I have a few email addresses, some of which I don’t even remember anymore. Most are a foreign version of my given name with or without my chosen pseudonymous last name and two are my true last name with initials (one wasn’t mine to chose, though, it’s administrative).

 
17.
SaDiablo
SaDiablo

Um. I think my comment got caught in the gutter.

 
18.
goddess
goddess

dolce – lowercase for me = lazy typist

 
19.
Tam
Tam

I only use my name in my work e-mail address which I think is highly appropriate. I spent a lot of time thinking up my main e-mail address though because I think that just using your name is boring and uncreative.

 
20.
Rainie
Rainie

I use lower case in my email in an attempt to hide my huge ego. (LOL)

 
21.
june
june

i have a bunch. the one i use for elsa comments is my web accounts, all-purpose junk email filter. i was feeling incredibly disgusted with the universe at the time i registered it, so it might as well be short for “i hate everything”. saturn was square my mars at the time. i use it, but everything gets filtered to my actual email addy, which most people don’t know.

most of my email addresses have been combinations of words, usually competing or foreign concepts mashed together somehow. i like that. i have libra and gemini. if i have to send mail in a professional manner outside of internet-world, i use my actual name.

 
22.
Twilight
Twilight

Interesting idea Elsa – I’d never given this much thought before.

My usual e-addy is the nickname I’ve used on-line from the time I first got a home computer, with the addition of “star” (as in celestial body – not celebrity). I have a secondary one I use if trying to avoid spam which, again I’ve used from the start, made up of a play on my initials and my then location.

What do they convey? –

2nd one – not much – just me in code.

1st one is my preception of me – where I am at this stage in my life, I guess, with “star” added to satisfy requirements of the e-mail provider who already had a plain ‘twilight’ on their books. So it’s my perception of myself restricted by practicality – as I usually am in life! ;-)

 
23.
wyrdling
wyrdling

that i’m a wyrd-o ;P

 
24.
Astrosage
Astrosage

I use my abbreviated first name and surname blended into a single word which has an evocative and flattering double entendre, though not so obvious that you’d notice it unless you were looking for it.

I attach AU to the end of it sometimes because I am Australian (and its also the chemical symbol for Gold, which is both geeky and cool)… and because someone else with a totally cool name beat me to it on all of the big sites.

 
25.
Elsa
Elsa

astrosage – I like geeky and cool because I am neither. :)

 
26.
Loonsounds
Loonsounds

My e-mail address goes way back and I leave it to the person as to whether they want to think of the beautiful and haunting sounds that loons make (the most beautiful sounds in the world, to me) or Insanity. As far as making an impression, I don’t give a shit what anyone thinks; if someone is turned off by that e-mail address we probably wouldn’t click anyway. So it weeds out the people I wouldn’t want to deal with anyway. And if people don’t like my e-mail address then best if they don’t read what I write because they seriously won’t like THAT.

 
27.
Dina
Dina

I used to think not typing in all lower case letters when chatting or emailing was somehow pompous. Having a lower case email address is almost universal and has to do with convenience and internet culture. Email names or screennames do convey a lot about a person and relate to various cultural forms/stereotypes, facebook etiquette comes to mind (succinct irony, not overkill, the idea that you have a fun life outside of facebook, nonchalance, not overkill minimalism…). I remember that picking an AIM screenname was a huge deal for me, it’s the name you represent to the world. I always went for non-sequiturs, food jokes, and respected cleverness. My email is a non-sequitur of sorts that has become the name I have grown into. It relates to a Richard Brautigan poetry book I first saw in my high school library. I have a lot of ideas about this. Names, particularly internet names, allow you to present a personality to the world on which you are harshly judged. At least I judge you.

 
28.
Loonsounds
Loonsounds

Hence the freedom and serenity associated with a genuine lack of interest in whether or not I am being judged by anyone.

 
29.
skye
skye

Hmmm this is very interesting… my email is my nickname (basically my name shortened)

However when posting on sites like here I use the pseudonymn Skye – its simple and I always liked the name. I would like to use my own nickname but being Scorpio I dont like being tracked so I use a pseudonymn name.

 
30.
wyrdling
wyrdling

hm. but i use my name for work related stuff (so and so at an alumni organization.) but all it does is forward to my regular email anyway.

 
31.
Bananas
Bananas

One of my email addresses describes the last position I had when I had an actual job. The address was intended to be used for HotJobs.com but quickly got overrun.

The other is for my freelance site. My name plus the domain.

I guess I’m career oriented. I do have a junk email, which is a goofy word that we used to use in fourth grade, but there’s nothing in there but junk mail these days.

 


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