I don’t think that trying to “delete” aspects is the entirely right approach. You’re likely to just exhaust yourself I think and make yourself miserable.

I look at it like, there is good and bad to every aspect; an aspect can be a gift or a curse. It depends on how you are channeling the energy. Kind of like the yin/yang symbol – the seed of one color is contained in the other color.

I have Neptune square Jupiter and I have Neptune conjunct Mercury. I bet I could be the biggest freaking lying manipulator & you would have no idea you are being deceived. Too bad I’m not greedy or unscrupulous — I could be a rich con artist right now haha.

I happen to do creative writing instead, which just is all a bunch of pretty lies or exaggerations made into art, after all.:) It’s totally artifical when it comes right down to it.

I’m not saying I express all my aspects positively – far from it. But I know some people, you look at their charts and just cringe at the “bad” aspects but you look at the life they’ve made & it’s amazing how they’ve made it all work.

Don’t be afraid.

Thank you Jilly,
I believe what you say to be rational and truthful. I’ve tried time and again, during this entire year to “delete” these aspects of my character. It has been a miserable ordeal, I slowly started to realize that these aspects that I want to delete are purely, fully, good-ful. I mean compassion, love, sacrifice. Yes, they are all lovely, but I guess I just wanted to be cooler, haha. Going against the grain is tiring, it hits full on mentally and physically. I also have the tendency to bottle things inwards. When it all becomes unbearable, the “facade” I put up bursts so easily as if a barrier was never there. The entire truth comes out—and that’s the ultimate downfall, when it comes out all together and not gradually, it shocks the other and you come out looking like a freak. I guess I just have to accept this person that I am, I have a tendency to be furious but my nature is to be quiet, introvert–that scares me because it means i won’t quite experience life in a grand scale, but I think I still can—I can be social, sweet, nice, approachable–basically myself, and also jump head firsts into challenges and hold my balls high declaring independence from introversion. Haha! Thank you.

hello all…i am a sun capricorn in 1st house,moon virgo 8th house, sag rising. im 32 years of age and have never been in a serious relationship. i have men that are crazy about me the first 2months and then they avoid me like a plague!! although i have tons of male friends…i have no boyfriend! its starting to wear me down because i long and pray for a steady relationship! i think i either choose the wrong men or im crazy and just not aware of it! I’ve noticed that i attract mostly scorpio and sag men or men with venus and/or mars in scorpio or sag…i hear those guys are heartbreakers anyway. by the way, its quite odd that i would continue to attract scorpio men when i have absolutely no scorpio in my chart…my venus is in cap 1st house,mars in leo 8th house and merc sag 12th house.. why cant i meet a man for me! this is driving me crazy!Someone please help!