Dear Aries,I looked at your chart and saw nothing that would signify a “troublemaker” in my mind. Your chart shows someone who is independent, freedom loving and somewhat eccentric. There is also indication that you would have some trouble perceiving how you are perceived. While this was all interesting it did not solve your problem, so I decides to consult my beau, an ex-Special Forces soldier of 16 years among other things.

I read him your mail.

“… appear like I am a trouble maker?” I said. “So that’s what she says and no, there is nothing in her chart. She says she is doing her job and her chart shows an eccentric person.”

“The Army is no place for an individual,” he said. “It functions as a team. There is no place for individuality in the Army and anyone acting as an individual is highly suspect. You’ve got to watch them all the time. If you’re in the Army and you want to have some individuality, you can have it for about a minute if you’re lucky, when you’re out and away and then it’s right back into the group.”

“So she hangs out by herself…”

“Yeah, that’s no good. The Army hates that. The Army is 2. There is you and your buddy in the foxhole. You watch his ass and he watches yours. The military must operate as a unit or you’re get your ass kicked, so yeah. Hanging around by yourself is not going fly in the military and anyone who tries to do that… anyone who tries to act individually is going to be highly suspect and considered a pain in the ass..”

I expect he knows what he is talking about so based on this, you have two options that are in sync with your chart. You can either get out of the military or you can experiment with changing your behavior and both of these would suit you.

The quitting is obvious but in the other direction, anyone with a strong Uranus (like you) loves a revolution. They also like to surprise others so if you made this change you’d shock people and you’d like that.

On another level – with Mars in Scorpio, finding out you can manipulate people via your actions of penetrating the group would also have an appeal. And manipulation is what I would call it if you decided to actually join their “army” in order to observe the group psychology.

Then there is the 3rd choice (and my personal favorite) – do one and then do the other.

Good luck.

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