You get a feel for the soldier’s Venus Saturn contact here as well..
“You have an advantage,” the soldier said when we were 80% through our weekend brawl.
“What?”
“All my friends are dead,” he said. ‘Where are my friends, huh?”
I laughed because of the look on his face. “They’re dead,” I said. “Your friends are dead.”
“Hell yes, they’re dead. If Speedy was sitting right here, what would he say?” he asked.
“Well?”
“He’d say, he’s right! He is right! What are you talking about! That’s what he’d tell you. He would say I’m right the way your friends say you’re right.”
I just stared.
He mentioned another friend by name. “Yeah, I miss him. Now he was the only one to ever call me on a holiday when I was in the field. No one ever called me on a holiday during a war in my life besides him,” he said.
“You’re kidding. You mean your wife did not call you?”
“Hell no.”
“Well why not? You mean its Christmas and she’s there with your kid and no call? What was she thinking?”
“I don’t know, P. Too many years.”
“What?”
“No, she never called me on a holiday ever but (name omitted) did and I thought it was awful nice of him. Yep he used to call me on the holidays. I sure appreciated it and I sure wish he wasn’t dead. If he wasn’t dead I would get him over here and have him say I’m right. I’m right about everything, P. I’m right and you’re wrong, just ask my friend here.”
“I’m sorry your friends are dead.”
“Yeah, me too.”
Do you have more than your share of dead friends?

4 Responses to “Routine Conversation For 8th House Types”
Like satori I have (mostly) dead relatives and more than a few dead friends, too…too many. I’m glad I’m with someone who is very comfortable with death so we can talk about it…incessantly as we are prone to do.
No dead friends. Dead (grand)parents.
I would love it to have some people around who are comfortable talking about death – that sweet old eternal friend. It’s life and being left behind among the living that’s the pain in the ass; not death. Or wait, i love the feeling of the two (life and death) being intertwined. That’s it!
Lots of dead friends. Dead relatives. Dead grandparents. Father died young. We just lost 2 good friends this year. My husband’s closest friend, who was also my friend too, was one – just passed a few weeks ago. We knew it was coming, but that didn’t make it any easier. He was like part of the family…always over here and my husband talked to him on the phone every day. The day after the funeral, my husband opened his cell phone and then he looked at me with this look of awful realization. “What am I doing? I was getting ready to call him…I can’t call him, he’s dead.” He was really angry, “Why did he have to die? He was such a good guy – and all kinds of rotten “you know whats” get to walk around alive.” I don’t know, maybe he was finished being all he was gonna be. Maybe God was finished with him. Maybe all the rotten “you know whats” are a work in progress. I don’t have the answers. Life is what it is.
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no, just dead relatives. I’m trying not to be flip and remark on which I’d rather have.