wyrdling – ha ha ha – hell if I know! I guess I should not post during the void moon or sumpthin’?

I have a lot, a lot of faults, but one thing I can say for myself is that my boundaries are awesome. So awesome in fact that I can say that mine have not been effectively violated in years. No one invades me because they know they will be met with a battle that I will win.

The only exception is my mother. She tries like hell to invade, but I’ve learned to non-aggressively defend my territory. I have Sun/Moon in Aries/Libra and hers is Capricorn/Cancer at the same degrees. Can you imagine? We menifest a grand cardinal cross every time we encounter each other. And she’s inconsistently medicated on top of all of that, so you can imagine what a loose cannon she is.

But you know, once I learned to master not taking her thermonuclear bait and how to manage the mental/emotional control demon that she is, I realized that there is no human being on this planet who has the power to send me spiralling into a tizzy. Except me, and that ain’t gonna happen.

My boundries have gotten a whole lot better over time. I don’t think that was a choice.

the way you *write*, I mean. You don’t strike me at all as a person that has no regard for boundaries, quite the opposite. I meant, you don’t seem to deny reality in your own life.

You talked about your writing style/not mincing words once, I remember, and said it had something to do with Mars/Saturn. It made it really hard for me to picture you being really girly and diplomatic because of all your Libra when you mentioned it.

Dina – I don’t think I am girly… what I am is oblivious.