We have a grand trine in air… actually it’s a Kite. The Mars Pluto opposition is involved so tensions ease for the day.

Dear Elsa,

Basically, I am wondering what one is supposed to do when several important things in one’s chart just don’t agree. I mean, I know the short answer is “live with it”, but I thought you could find a slightly more enlightening way of putting it. I have several times been asked if I had multiple personalities. I don’t, but much of what I say and do does mystify me. I sometimes feel I should pick a part of me (a planet?), run with it, and too bad for the rest of me. My life is challenging in every area, so I feel I can’t “have it all” and must choose which part of life to be happy in. WWYD?

Taurus
United States

Continue reading Open Question – How Do You Pull Together A Chart With Lots Of Conflicting Needs, Desires And Impulses

With the Moon in Libra trine Neptune and Sun opposing Neptune relationships are both real and ideal, bound and boundless.

Mars applies to it’s opposition with Pluto and people moved on a deep level. It makes me think of the Jaws shark lurking.

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A couple weeks ago I did a bunch of blog about projection and the 7th house. (tag – projection) A few people commented to say they were confused as to exactly what projection was so I’m back with a classic example.

There is a gal around here (Greeley, Colorado) going on trial for the murder of another gal, her lover’s wife. Shawna Nelson had an affair and eventually a baby with a married man. He broke up with her 2 years into this thing which prompted Shawna (who was also married) to show up at his wife’s work (Heather Garraus) as she was leaving and do (and say) this:
Continue reading Regarding Projection: A Real Life Example… Love Triangle Results In Public Execution

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My friend and I finished that conversation both of us convinced and in agreement the man in question should be given the benefit of the doubt and 15 minutes later she brought it up again.

“No, we have already talked about that,” I said. “It’s like we just tested you for breast cancer, you don’t have it. We tested, you’re clear, you don’t need another test because that last one was definitive.”

She laughed. “Yeah! You get a mammogram and they say you don’t have cancer you don’t keep going back every week…”

“Right. Don’t worry about this. I really grilled you, there was no stone unturned. The guy is clean.”

“Okay, that’s good. I’m not going to worry about it.”

Do you go back and test and test and test and re-test? If so why, and where is your Jupiter?

The other thing that doesn’t change in my experience, is the way people relate. They synastry is the synastry and although you can grow the synastry is still the synastry.

The soldier and I are one example. We conjure the same feelings in each other as we did when we were kids but he is hardly the only example. My old friend, Kathleen? Same feelings I always had about and around her. Leon?

Well I left Leon’s house in tears more than once. He’s a little older than me and he’s keen and very cutting. He is not malicious but he can really slice you and at 19, I was impossibly sensitive and it would come very suddenly and unexpected. See, we would spar all the time. We would play cards, Leon and I sitting across from each other, our insults flying back and forth the evening’s entertainment. We’d have our respective partners on the floor laughing their heads off and then all the sudden, he’s go too far and I’d be hurt.

Continue reading Astrology And Relationship Synastry: If You Think People Change, Do You Think Relationships Change As Well? Poll

I had a situation come up with one of my friends. She was in a circumstance where it seemed someone she knew and liked was up to no good. The evidence was extremely incriminating. 9 out of 10 people would vote to convict, I’d say which makes it very hard to be the one standing alone to defend. Might you be a fool?

Being as I am her friend I argued for about a half hour, the 90% side of this, against her faith. This may sound cruel but it was requested because if she were in denial about this thing it would come down on her pretty hard when the veil lifted so I probed and prodded every nook I could find while she continued to stand up for the guy. Finally, I became convinced.
Continue reading Pisces, Faith, Jupiter And Your Beliefs

“And in the beginning I was signing all this stuff,” I explained to the soldier. “This gal gave it to me and of course I had seen it before. You have to initial all this stuff so I just grabbed it and started signing away. She didn’t like that. Ma’am, you shouldn’t do that. She’s an attorney, you know. You really ought to know what you’re signing. I told her I did know what I was signing, I was well aware.”

“What did she say?” he asked.

“Didn’t believe me, I don’t think. I just started initialing the shit… just going down the list signing. I really do know what this is, I said. I tried to reassure her. I told her I’d already done this… done this, been kicked out and now I’m doing it again. I have seen this stuff before, I said.”

Continue reading More Oddball Court Stories… Jupiter Sextile Uranus