The Mechanics Of Merging Souls… And A Sex Poll
Astrology in real life
Regarding this soul merge thing (Merging Souls? Who Would Want To Do This?) I think the concept is ethereal but the mechanics behind it are not and I thought I would record some of this stuff. For you, because I think it’s interesting and for me so I can have more clarity.
Now the soldier read my book which is about my life or at least part of it and the book ends at a Fleetwood Mac concert. I didn’t intend it to end there… it was HQ’s genius that ended the book there but in whatever case, I would describe this day as significant in my life. And I wrote the truth of that day as I understood it but then the soldier read it.
And some months later he was doing his psychic thing… he had his antenna and he (for the time ever) tuned into me on this specific day in my life and he could feel my feelings.
So he told me about this. He told me what I felt… what was going on inside me that day and the fact he was right was undeniable. I do think people know the truth when they hear it but beyond that, once reminded the feelings came back in a rush. And this was hard for us.
It was hard for him… very hard for a plethora of reasons and it was hard for me because here is someone poking around gaining access to information you didn’t know was there. And we related this to sex at the time.
If you’re our type you can and do stumble across things about the partner during sex. In fact when I was young and more cowboy I used to say it just like this:
“You don’t know anything about a person until and unless you sleep with them, yep! If you want to know someone, get in the bed otherwise you have no idea what you’re dealing with.”
I will come back with this story, but do you agree with this?
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Got Scorpio? What about an 8th house?
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25 Responses to “The Mechanics Of Merging Souls… And A Sex Poll”
If that’s true I hardly know anybody. Of course the only thing I have in Scorpio is Neptune, so it probably wouldn’t teach me anything anyway.
It may be true for some, but for me it’s what starts me *not* seeing clearly 
(Mars/Venus square Neptune)
to really pick up their energy anyway. feel it deeply.
there are other potential ways. but none where you can be laid open so thoroughly.
risk vs. reward.
i’ve got some things on the eighth. sun, venus, a node.
i pick up too much out of the air anyway. getting that close to someone is dangerous. sometimes worth it though. i just easily get knocked off kilter by people i don’t synch with well. and it took me awhile to trust my instincts on these things.
…and, then again, how much can you ever really know anybody? you can know the things that matter….
Hiya,
Scorpio Sun, Mercury AND Venus and I’d have to say no. Sex is a great way of melding with someone and increasing intimacy yada-yada-yada, when in a committed relationship, but I don’t think having sex with someone you’re not already ‘connected-to’ emotionally helps you know them. Unless you only want to know them in a purely sexual way.
There’s no worse sex than casual sex for me……it’s pointless!
HA! That question really confused me. I need a “WTF?!” option. Absolutely no Scorpio (‘cept for Pluto which really doesn’t even count). I’m a Pisces/Virgo person. Sex? What is sex?
?????
I’m confused. a friend of mine agrees with this. she once told me she could find out all about a person once they have sex. I don’t relate at all. She has neptune in scorpio in the 8th i think.. a stellium in virgo conjunct pluto in the 6th.
But the fact is i only get totally confortable with someone after we have sex. But i think it’s more about me then about the other person. I’m not sure now. I don’t get any info on the person during sex, but it makes me feel as we’re at the same level.
I tend to never have real intimacy with people i haven’t had sex with. And I wonder why.
pluto in the 8th trine sextile moon, trine mercury. scorpio mc..
I’m with Valkyrie, that puts me in la-la-lovey mode and my rose colored glasses come on. I ‘get’ people while vertical more than horizontal w/Rose colored glasses off!
*lol* elsa -that´s what you did that poll for?
I voted “no”. Sex is just one camouflage act (amongst others, like performing music or dancing together, for instance) for synching/ merging energetic fields, and that´s where all the information exchange and the feeling of “being one” comes from. Funny thing is, you can leave out the sex (which you of course would NOT 
), and the merging happens just the same. If you want to.
Plus: it keeps the sheets clean. (Saturn in Virgo!)
Venus in Cancer in 8, Mars opposing Neptune.
No, I don’t think it works like that.
But if we go the other way round, it makes sense: usually if I really want to know someone (from the opposite sex), I also want to sleep with them. It’s a mutual thing.
Yes, got Scorpio, including Venus.
No, it can feel like you do because it’s such an intimate act and leos are such romantics. But, there’s more to it. Sun sextile pluto, moon trine pluto, I know with the first glance if I’ll be compatible with someone. I can do without sex since to me it doesn’t bring intimacy without the heart being involved. Sex is overrated. I need to connect on a soul level (Neptune trine Sun and sextile moon) to find sex gratifying.
No, if you want to know someone, then work with them. Scorpio in the 6th house.
Scorpio Venus and Uranus in the 8th house. I would say no. Although personally when I get involved with a guy I really don’t wait around to sleep with him, but it really doesn’t let me know him either. I can get a general feel, but some people put on shows anyway, so do you really know them even if you think you do? Not really. I don’t think anyone fully ever knows anyone. I wish I could, I want to, but it’s not possible.
Some of the people who understand me the most, as a soul, are people who I have not had any sex with, so I guess I would have to answer no. These people are just excellent psychics (just realized I turned your question to an other angle, not intentional, just how it came).
My experience is that with the men I have a deep, deep heart connection with (which have been few), sex only deepens it more and tunes you so much more into their energy centers (chakras) and you easily pick up on a lot of things even when you are not together, you get so corded with each other, it is nearly impossible not too, not always the ideal, depends how that is handled.
I love that: ‘more cowboy.’
I voted yes, but since I have been in a committed relationship and have been for years, I’d have to say I’ve long since turned in my spurs.
I found when I was young I would stumble across things about my sexual partners and it wasn’t always pleasing. I had a partner that used to say quietly ‘yummy’ and it sounded like ‘mummy’ and no, I didn’t want to be his mummy and it wasn’t very long before I had to take leave of the whole thing.
Kundrie I laughed my head off when I read your comment about the sheets! HA HA!
kashmiri – re: “more cowboy”, I still feel that way, I have just learned to keep my mouth shut! I have a better filter and we should all be grateful because the mouth on me can be something to behold when it comes to “inappropriate” blurting of what I feel are the facts.
Elsa, innappropriate blurting? let ‘er rip!! Innappropriate for whom????
GAAAA!!!
Time for many to grow up and put on their big girl panties and deal with ALL the stuff OF LIFE — appropriate or not! 
Bring it sista – Please don’t censor yourself TOO much.
Well I once had a friend ask me why I did not want to keep dating his best friend.
“He’s lousy in bed,” I said without a care. “He’s just lousy and there is no way I am going to be stuck with sex like that for the rest of my life…”
The guy’s jaw dropped. I was 19 at the time and I regretted saying that for 15 years. 
15 years later I had an opportunity to “make amends” to that guy and boy was that a lesson. For Godsakes, Elsa… this is town.
Most of you have no concept what I mean when I say “I am from the desert” but oooh doggie, that’s no joke.
I have no Scorpio (it is my descendant, though, and partly in my 8th house) and 8th house Jupiter in Sag. I do enjoy sex, but I prefer to meld minds first. Even with a 12th house sun, I prefer words to “feelings”. Must be my Aquarius Moon. Soometimes I feel like I don’t even really feel my feelings, just talk about them, if that’s possible.
No Scorpio planets except Neptune, but I have Venus conjunct Pluto.
I’m very aware of disguises and bullshit, and I don’t like when guys lie about themselves to get into bed with someone. I don’t like false personas and dishonesty, especially concerning intimacy, and I don’t go for that nonsense.
Scorpio Neptune conjunct ASC opposing Mars. Sex can definitely be revealing, for good and bad. Bad sex has sunk some of my relationships outright even when I really felt like I had a bond with the guy intellectually and emotionally.
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Even though I have lots of Scorpio, it’s my Moon/Neptune that picks up on people’s weird s**t. well, the Scorpio Mercury conjunct ASC is very good at reading people too and picking up on the subliminal, non-verbal clues. Now I will cop to ignoring that too . . .
When it came to choosing men to have sex with, I was generally very, very particular. Some had such nasty energy i couldn’t stand the thought of them even touching me . . . that Moon/Neptune radar at work!