Tonight, the soldier was elaborating around his analogy…
“Well it’s always like that. When we first get together we’re those two dogs nip at each other’s legs. They’re all running around. Then one goes over and pees on a fire hydrant, then he comes back all nerves and then they nip at each other some more. This is how we act, P. We’re just like two dogs all excited, don’t know what to do.”
Yeah.”
“But pretty soon those two dogs are running down the road together. They’re runnin’ and that’s it. No other dogs! And we get more and more like that because we reinforce each other’s dog-ness.”
I laughed. And I thought of the criticism about me posting this gal’s texts but you know what? We have put up with this gal for nearly six months. We have been patient, compassionate, understanding and blah, blah, blah. We have let her run alongside us for a half a year with a chance to get the plot.
But now there are threats and 25 messages a day, so yeah. Both dogs are ready to turn around and bite her head off. And it doesn’t matter which one as long as someone does it. Get the hell out of here.
Let’s see. You send someone 50-100 text messages a week, half of them designed to provoke, all of then ignored and when they finally get pissed off, then YOU are the victim? I don’t think so.
There is such a person that just won’t stop unless you cut them. Scorpio draws these types. They want the knife and just won’t stop until they get it.

6 Responses to “Mess With Dogs – Get Bitten”
I was one of the people to criticize the posting of her texts and overall tone of the latest blogs, and I stand by my opinion.
I, too, have been the recipient of many an obsession (Pluto/8th house) and I wasn’t condoning what she is doing nor do I feel sorry for her and think she’s the victim here.
In fact, my comment wasn’t about her at all. It was a roundabout comment on the tone of the blogs. Yes, the soldier is an innocent bystander undeserving of this woman’s behavior, etc., etc. Yes, she’s ‘nasty’, scraping rock bottom, maybe even dangerous, certainly a pain in the ass.
But how one talks (Virgo in Mercury) about the nutcase de jour (Pluto) speaks volumes (Mercury/Mars/Jupiter Grand Cross). Bottom line, the tone felt like it started to slip into her territory…
Could the soldier get a new phone and thus avoid this pesky woman? By the way, why does the soldier refer to you as “P.” ? I must have missed that somehow. Thanks!
Tuppence – I am Elsa P and he calls me P.
just cause she is a judge doesn’t mean much. Look at the recent happening with that judge suing for a million because of a pair of pants.
Or the astronaut lady that drove with diapers on to “confront” her obsession and his lover.
There is ways to get her to stop. It will just take a while in an uncomfortable zone for you and Soldier.
(I really hope she backs off on her own)
I would suggest if she’s sending that many messages, and if the soldier has already told her in no uncertain terms that he’s just NOT interested, then it’s either time to change the phone numberm, or time to get her number blocked. It’s easy. It’s far less aggravating than being poked incessantly.
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After thinking on this lady, I feel she must have some Pluto aspect either natally or by transit that is causing her to behave this way. Thus she comes to Scorpio to help her stop this behavior. On some level she has to be aware that she’s behaving irrationally – we usually are. BTW, if she had hit rock bottom, she’d be acknowledging she has a problem . . . and from what Elsa has said, it doesn’t seem to be the case! And being able to recognize a problem exists is a major step towards finding a solution. So step up lady and get your wound lanced . . .