Dear Elsa,

Are Sagittarius girls and Sagittarius boys good for each other?

Sadge

Anyone have an opinion? Experiences..?

Bad exit. Industrial. We were driving over bridges or some such thing. “Keep you eye out for a man,’ I said. “A man with hair.”

“I will.”

I laughed because it was a true pedestrian free, strip mall free zone. I thought about calling for a man like you’d call a dog but held my tongue when I looked over and saw to soldier so focused. And then on the left, an Ace Hardware.

“Ace Hardware! Got to be a man in there for sure,” I said.

“Pull over, P! I’m going in there.” Continue reading How Mars Behaves When Venus Isn’t Looking… At The Barber Shop

The Moon is past full and moving towards the Mars, Saturn, Neptune T-square and no one is going to like it. Further, Mars is unhappy in Taurus (Venus’s sign), Venus in retrograde Virgo, the sign of its fall while Saturn is in detriment in Leo. You can equate this to walking around wearing someone else’s shoes.

However this does not mean the situation cannot be transcended. If you can inspire and be inspiring, please do because people need all the cheer they can get.

Dear Aries,

It seems to me you would like to have an affair and you are on the verge of exactly that. As for how that should be viewed, I am not sure what you mean and I am not sure the question can be answered anyway because ten people would have ten different opinions. But I can take some guesses here.

If you are wondering if you can take up with this guy and live happily ever after, I would say no. Though I am sure he likes you and he would probably like to have sex with you, it sounds as if it is far more casual and carnal from his perspective and I don’t like his MO.

You are reading all kinds of things into what is happening and he’s allowing you do to this. He doesn’t tell you that he loves you and wants you madly so you tell yourself he’s a Capricorn and that explains that.

But what it explains to me is this guy is not taking responsibility for what he is up to. He letting you cross all the lines and then what’s he going to claim? She made me do it? I’d be very careful because grownups don’t act like this. And since you are nearly 50, he must be of similar age and consequently this is baffling to me.

But to answer your specific question: does he have deep feelings for you? I would say no. Carnal feelings, yes. I do think you are hunting and being hunted but once slayed, will there be anything there? Very doubtful. I’m sorry but this is just not how real relationships are formed and with Saturn (reality) about to transit your Venus in Virgo… well I guess you are going to learn this.

I am sorry and good luck.

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The soldier and I were in Kansas City, MO this weekend. There is a highway that circles around the city and we were on it.

“I really need a haircut, P.”

“Let’s get you one,” I said not bothering to look at him. He definitely needed a haircut.

“Where should we get my hair cut?”

“I don’t know. It’s not like you care. Why don’t we find a strip mall and you can just run in one of those fast places and get it done. Great Clips, or something like that Can’t be too hard to find one of those,” I said. Continue reading Voice of Mars: I Need A Haircut

I was talking to the soldier…

“Well it’s intimidating to an extent. I feel like a child next to you. I feel very childlike in this relationship and there is nothing I can do.”

“You’re not a child in this relationship. What child?”

“Well that’s how I feel. I feel giddy. I don’t take it all as seriously as you do. You are solemn about all this where I take it more like a puppy. Yeah. I feel like a puppy around you, sort of boundless and gleeful,” I laughed. “I feel like I ought to leap on you so I do.”

“But I like that, P.”

“Yeah, I know. But I just want to warn you. If we are going to be a billion years together, I think you better figure to spend half of them waiting for me to grow up.”

He laughed.

“Because I feel nowhere near grown up. I am very far off from that in comparison to you and I don’t think change is coming anytime soon. I think I am having my puppyhood and it’s going to be a long one. You on the other hand are one hell of an old dog.”

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I chalk this up to Venus in Leo and trines from Jupiter. It’s very hard not to be obnoxious.

For example that fabled Catholic wedding? I could easily see myself bursting into laughter in the middle of mine if I were ever to have one. What would stop me? Not my extraordinary self-control, that’s for sure.

What about you?

It’s a rare day when the Moon in Capricorn is actually preferred to an optimistic Moon in Sagittarius but in this case it’s like matching your socks.

With Mars applying to Saturn, and Neptune involved we are all dealing with frustration and delay. And though it nice to hope things will be utterly fantastic tomorrow, this will never be the case unless we deal with reality and with the Moon in Capricorn this is today’s job.

Dear Virgo,

You are only 32 so if you have two teenage children, you have spent half your life raising them… you have been in service to them and now they are unruly and causing you problems. I think that right there is something most people would resent on some level, conscious or otherwise.

I also have no doubt you love your kids intensely so maybe you see what I am getting at. It is possible the setup with your boyfriend is the setup with others in your life: a pattern of caring and loving coupled with resentment. And I am sure this is fairly disturbing to read but the fact is, if I am right and you can make this conscious, it is going to open up a plethora of options for you which to me would be a very good outcome because right now you’re stuck.

Did you notice you complained your boyfriend is resentful and then copped to feeling resentful yourself? What would happen if you forgot about his resentment and focused instead on your own? If you made a list of all the things you resent, would you be surprised how much is on it? I bet you would.

And you might not like this process but if you stayed with it, I think you’d experience a deep shift in how you see things which would alter what is essentially a power struggle between you and your boyfriend.

Good luck.

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My son has a grand cross in his solar return this year and has really been under the gun. He surprised me last night when he said, “Ever since my birthday…”

He went on to explain how particularly hard things have been since he turned 8 and all I could do was nod and commiserate because facts are facts. He then surprised me by telling me he had been having prophetic dreams.

He said he dreams something and two days later the things happens. He expressed a sort of ambivalence over the situation. On one hand I think he knows this is special, on the other hand most of the things he is dreaming that wind up happening are bad. Pretty heavy for an 8 year old, I’d say. Continue reading Astrology and Children: Sun Conjunct Saturn @ 8 Years Old With A Grand Cross In His Solar Return – Psychic Ability and Traumatic Babyhood