Ok, so start off I’m female and I’m very gay – like, superhero gay. Scary, butch gay — but that’s not the problem.
I am almost 20 and since 9th grade, I have had an on and off girlfriend who I love with everything I have. In November we were in an “on” period and I decided if I wanted to hold onto her forever then hell, let’s get married. So, I proposed.
She didn’t take it well. She started spreading rumors about me and really hurt my reputation with our friends and just about everyone else we both knew.
So, now I’m in a terrible place and I don’t know what to do. I do still love her and want her as a wife, but I am sane enough to know it will never happen. I’m so close to fleeing town and leaving my loved ones and friends behind because of her…. help? Thanks, hun.
Abandoned Up North
Can you find something to call yourself besides “scary”? Please? Because if you’re scary, then I’m probably scary and I don’t want to be scary. I want to be Elsa. And yes, this relates to your question.
There is nothing you can do about what your girlfriend or your friends think in the moment, except know that whatever they’re thinking now is going to change. And meantime you have needs.
With all the Aries in your chart, you have a need to act independently and be heroic for one thing. So while they’re all doing what they’re doing, what are you going to do? How are you going to direct your energy?
Aries is a soldier. And soldiers need a challenge. They need something to fight for. So if I were you, I would think along these lines. What are you going to DO! Aries need to act. What’s scary, is when Aries gives up. So please. For the love of God, go find a butt to kick. How about your own?
Get back in your power, why don’t you? Lift some weights. Take kickboxing. Go run! Do something (that you were born to do) and I bet you see these problems will solve themselves.
And don’t you dare flee! Since when do Super-heroes flee? Gah.
Much love and good luck.
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